Meditations on a Decade in the Game: What Works? | TheRedPill

So most of the time I post about positive, koombaya, love your inner child shit because I feel like if I'm going to influence the world in which I have to live, I should probably try to create more moral nice people who won't kill me in my sleep. This post is not that. I realized recently Ive been in the game over 10 years now and this has gotten me reflecting on many things. One of those things is when we put our morality and our own personal fulfillment aside, WHAT ACTUALLY WORKS? This post is a foray into that. I claim no responsibility for the evil motherfuckers this thread creates.

Getting women is not complicated at all. It can all be summed up in what the guy whose fucked the most women that I know said to me when I was a kid, "just be confident", but that advice is rarely useful in and of itself so were going to analyze exactly what different meanings of confidence we are talking about and specific ways to increase that so you can fuck more and hotter bitches.

So the first meaning of confidence we are talking about and in my opinion is the building blocks of everything else is a general confidence in your ability to solve the problems presented to you throughout your life and get the resources you desire. This could be called a general self-esteem. Knowing that basically no matter what life throws at you, save stage 5 terminal bone cancer, you're gonna be ok and you'll be able to use your faculties to handle it. We can expand this general sense of self esteem to also include feeling you deserve good things to happen to you. So not only do you have the efficacy to make good things happen and avoid bad things, but you as an imperfect but valuable and fundamentally decent human being have a right to happiness, success, and all the things that come with that for you. Abundance with women being one of them. For a more in depth look at this check out the book "Six Pillars of Self Esteem"

From studying psychology in the context of fucking women, I'd say this general self esteem is the cornerstone of a healthy mind. And since your life flows from your mind, if you want a good life you should start there. So have confidence in your efficacy, and your deserving-ness. You do this by not shying away from challenging situations, and allowing yourself to fail but learn in the process and thereby be more prepared and therefore more confident next time. Ask yourself, "how can I up the ante today for myself?" Be "game" for challenges and difficulties, you'll be surprised at how much of a difference this little adjustment makes. Second forgive yourself to become more entitled to happiness and good things in general. I've written about this in the past, that content still stands.

Next, and here's where things get fun for me... Confidence means assuming that things will go right which could go either way. Now you die hard logical motherfuckers are gonna have some trouble doing this, but at the end of the day, the world is shaped by belief and intention, whoever has the most powerful belief and intention will shape the outcome of events in an interaction, this is what frame is. People treat you how you unconsciously expect them to treat you because you are unconsciously communicating those expectations to them all the time. So much has been said about how to improve this... I've definitely written a lot about it because its one of my favorite areas to master, but I'll sum up your options for increasing this;

People can effect otherwise random events using their intention/belief. So since you can control people/outcomes based on YOUR EXPECTATIONS aka frame, and you know the glitch in the matrix, why not? I'll tell you what... People ESPECIALLY WOMEN treated me better in my life when I was full fledged narcissistic 120% entitlement (even though people say they hate narcissists) quintessential douchebag than they ever did when I actually was moral and gave a single shit about anyone but myself. Food for thought uh? Not saying to do that but I'm also not saying you shouldn't... What works, works.
Meditate. Meditation IF DONE CORRECTLY does many beneficial things in the poontang department, one of them being it gives you more awareness of your own intentions, beliefs, unconscious motivations, emotions, etc. All of these things are ONE THOUSAND TIMES MORE POWERFUL than the words you say to a woman.
Create a new identity. Create your fucking Tyler Durden. Your current identity hasn't done shit for you. You know it. I know it. The women know it and that's why they aren't on your dick. Its time for that sad little bastard to die and for the true, powerful, rock star man to take his place. Some people change their names, some change their dress, some change how they speak, walk, act, fucking whatever, but the point being is after this point the old you is dead and now you start being everything you wanted to be but were too scared to be. THIS SHIT WORKS. Your identity is like the hub of your beliefs/expectations/intentions so if you change the identity you change everything. Tibetan monks meditate on the different tibetan buddhist deities long enough until they can leave their personality and assume those ideal personalities themselves, then they can chose to have a personality or no personality at all if they want, helping them on their goal to "enlightenment". This identity rebirth is the quickest, easiest and maybe most powerful way IMO.
Final option which is MANDATORY: GO OUT AND TEST THIS SHIT ON PEOPLE EVERYDAY OF YOUR LIFE OR I WILL PERSONALLY COME SKULLFUCK YOU. If you want to get good with women the best thing I could tell you to do is learn to manipulate people in general. Learn how to control their opinion of you. Learn how to assume an air of mystery. Learn how to manage your persona and image. Learn how to go into a party where no one knows you but by the end of the night everyone WANTS to know you, everyones talking about you and all the women want to be the first to fuck you. If you're halfway aware and try at all you can get very good at this and fuck tons of sluts quickly. Women don't care about who you actually are, they care about your image, or who others think you are... You can generate an image in a second, think of a magician who can conjure illusions for people and keep them on the edge of their seats. This is because the magician is lying. If you are telling the truth no one gives a fuck. Lie to them. They need it, they fucking crave it. Lie to the women and they won't let you stop.

I'm not saying this shit will make you fulfilled or that it will even make you a better person. Honestly, most of the things here will make you a worse person in my opinion, but I felt obligated to write a post from my decade of experience, dedicated to what I've seen and tried that actually works and works WELL.

Now try it you sick little fuck. What are you gonna name your new identity?

SWTDO

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Shaman6624 8y ago

Seems strange to name an identity. Something like ok now I'm chad thundercock? Power rangers transform.

BusterVadge 8y ago

Create a new identity. Create your fucking Tyler Durden. Your current identity hasn't done shit for you. You know it.

I really like this as an idea. I've put this into practice in several areas of my life - Business, social, game, etc.

What you do is sit down and ask yourself a bunch of questions like.. "What would it look like for me to be the life of the party?". "What does a guy who gets different pussy on a daily basis look and act like"...

Write those questions down, and then study up several real life cases of the people who do the things you want to do, write down their beliefs and personality traits. What do they do every day to be who they are?

Once you've discovered what other people have already done to achieve success in that area, it's time to start creating a "new personality" (or identity as you mention). And give yourself permission to temporarily change into this other person.

It's almost like "fake it till you make it" on steroids, and it really works!

Once thing I've learned through mediation and contemplating life is that all of "who we are" is really just our ego. Our personality and identity are only social strategies and they can be changed and adapted for different situations. Who we truly are, our true "being" is separate from the ego. That realization made it super useful for me to be able to create different strategies for different situations.

thomasbkin 8y ago

Another quality post by SWTDO. Keep em coming man, I always enjoy learning from you!

TooHoly999 8y ago

Create a new identity. Create your fucking Tyler Durden. Your current identity hasn't done shit for you. You know it. I know it. The women know it and that's why they aren't on your dick. Its time for that sad little bastard to die and for the true, powerful, rock star man to take his place. Some people change their names, some change their dress, some change how they speak, walk, act, fucking whatever, but the point being is after this point the old you is dead and now you start being everything you wanted to be but were too scared to be. THIS SHIT WORKS. Your identity is like the hub of your beliefs/expectations/intentions so if you change the identity you change everything. Tibetan monks meditate on the different tibetan buddhist deities long enough until they can leave their personality assume those personalities themselves, then they can chose to have a personality or no personality at all if they want, helping them on their goal to "enlightenment". This identity rebirth is the quickest, easiest and maybe most powerful way IMO.

I used to read a lot of the books in the mega-file, especially books like What Every Body Is Saying by Joe Navarro, The Charisma Myth by Olivia Fox-Cabane, and Cocky and Funny by DeAngelo. I certainly didn't see any results at first, but a couple of weeks ago, without any prompt, these principles internalized. I officially do not give a fuck about trivial things.

I didn't consciously create a new identity, but I can see how these authors did it for me. Cocky and Funny, for example, rattles off my tongue without a second thought. Even simple things, such as no longer checking my Reddit profile for upvotes, has changed. My validation's source is internal.

Maybe this would have happened more quickly if I concocted some false identity in my mind and named it. I wouldn't say it's mentally healthy to do so though.

ShitsWithTheDoorOpen 8y ago

Hey buddy.... I havent seen you around here, so welcome. I seriously hope that no one takes this as "healthy" advice or anything NEAR that, this is simply what I have seen with my own eyes work like magic. In all honestly I think the paths towards self fulfillment and sexual abundance as a man diverge, not that it has to be that way but if you truly analyze them at their root, you will begin "praying to different gods". When we are trying to manipulate the female we are still trying to appeal to them and so we are taking on their valuations and predispositions which are degenerate as fuck. Seriously, women are fucking evil, in case you havent got the memo. I'm not saying that for your mental health you SHOULD do this. God no. If you want to improve your general disposition fucking read anything else I've posted. I'm saying after many hours of contemplation this is what fucking works, bottom line. Peace

scissor_me_timbers00 8y ago

Women aren't evil dude lol. They're just feral. The female ego is obnoxious as fuck tho and needs its frame savagely broken. But otherwise it's just the female instinct is just an expression of natural selection.

But they also have a good side. I wouldn't call them as a whole "evil". That's pretty intense. They just need badasses to tame them and bring out the submissiveness

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Identity is an on-going mental construct; it's dynamic. You can take over its dynamic nature or you can let it spiral out of control to continue to form the BP idiot the landed on this sub. An identity is not "true" or "false" because there is no set reference point for identity. You were not born to be a certain way, how you are is the summation of all your experiences and how you've reacted to them (and your reaction is based on prior experiences), and all of these influences are largely outside of your control. So, it's not unhealthy to override your past with a new identity, it's just taking over the system.

BargainBinBoyfriend 8y ago

I argue that who someone wants to be is very much a part of them too, not a "fake".

[deleted] 8y ago

Learn how to go into a party where no one knows you but by the end of the night everyone WANTS to know you...

Could you share with us some of your favorite sources for how to accomplish this goal? I do ok with 1:1 conversations/experiences, but haven't learned how to work a crowd.

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Ridagraal 8y ago

How did you manage to create this new identity? did you tell your self habits that you would do and keep attempting everyday

would really appreciate a response I have been wanting to this for a long time but never found a way to do so

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Subbs 8y ago

It's pretty simple really, think of it as roleplay. You imagine the character you want to play and you act like you're him. Long term the character becomes a habit and that's that.