I have love/hate relationship with Nofap community. While I will admit that cutting out porn from your life and replacing it with something more productive, can do a lot of good. I don't advise going more than two weeks without busting a nut, it just messes with your head and kind of takes over your whole mind. In my experience, few days, a week is great but more than that starts being problematic.
Anyways, I visit the sub occasionally and Today I stumbled across a dude posting what looked like a field report to me. (I tried to link his original post but got removed right away)
The guy did well on a night out, and immediately starts praising his newly attained "No Fap Superpower" of
being able to turn girls on.
As he puts it..Lol.
After reading through it, I realized that he was simply above average looking and displaying pretty good frame. He just blindly assumes that only because he didn't jerk it for a month, the girls are throwing themselves on to him.
I'll paste some of his text below and you can judge if the guy's a natural and doesn't even know it. There are some cringeworthy comments in the original post too. You'll find his entire post on their subreddit.
His post and formatting:
So I'm a regular guy. I wold say not too bad looking. Not gorgeous either. I stopped having one night stands about 18 months ago. I'm currently on a 40 day streak. I realized that I have the power to turn girls on.
So I was at a club last night. One group in there was celebrating a birthday and I noticed they had like more than half the cake left one I came back (I had left to a nearby club but decided to come back to this one). So I make my way to the bar, order a drink and notice a super cute girl. I give a "watch this look" to my friend and I tap the girl on the shoulder. I tell her "hey do you want some cake?" She giggles and turns to her sister and friend and tells the what I said, and she's laughing. I then start a conversation with her. What's your name, and such, I just played it by ear. My confidence was overflowing. She then said she was celebrating something I forgot, so I say hold on, that deserves some cake. So I approach the table with the cake and cut a big piece. The birthday girl sees me and approaches me but I already have a huge piece on a small plate and 4 forks. I tell her it's for a girl, she's like blah blah it's my cake. But she says whatever you can have it. I then make my way to the bar and give the 3 girls the cake. They are freaking out, they can't figure out where I got cake from. They are laughing. I tell the girl, you should give me your number. So she gives me her phone and I put my number as (name) hot guy from (bar). Then I send a tex to my number that says, Hi I'm the girl that kissed you last night. And I give her her phone back. She looks at me after she reads it and starts laughing and then she gives me a kiss. I tell her, hey lets dance. We are dancing and we start making out some more. She then goes to the bathroom and her sister asks me to buy them a drink. I say why. She said because I'm her sister, with an attitude. I tell her if I buy you a drink or not, it won't make a difference. She's like, we'll see. Her sister comes back and I grab her and we go to dance some more while i'm looking at her sister with a smirk and a face that says look at me. I then kiss her and I look at her sister. The sister is fuming mad. And I'm just laughing.
Like I said Confidence, Holding Frame and NOT buying fucking drinks for these thirsty hoes.

DysfunctionalBrother 8y ago
If anyone can get to the point after ninety days they masurbate once every two weeks to reward himself without whacking off between those fourteen days that dude has a shit ton of discipline.
Mckallidon 8y ago
Nonfappers are in autistic purgatory.
Barvazon 8y ago
So basically a girl will whore her sister out for a drink. That's a lovely, lovely world we're living in.
GuestsGetGreens 8y ago
She's not "whoring out" her sister for drinks. She's shit testing him and he passed.
yomo86 8y ago
Indeed. Just don't wife them up or tell them your real name. Pussy came never so cheap.
esirnus18 8y ago
This dude was actually pretty suave and handled the situation pretty well. I once (was pretty drunk at that moment) replied to a girl asking me to buy her a drink. "Hey lady, how about you buy your own fucking drinks" The look on her face priceless. I bet she even respected me in the weird way after that. I don't have the balls to say that sober.
theONE843663 8y ago
I ask them to buy me a drink that usually gets them to STFU and hunt for a different provider. Fucking gold digging sluts ruining the night going round begging for drinks like a crackhoarding bitch!
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HappyScribe 8y ago
Nofap works best for chronic masturbaters. Before I started I wasted 2-3 hours a day jerking off. I literally could not sleep without jerking. I'd wake up and jerk it. When I came home from work, I'd have a nap and jerk it. The rest of my life was a fog of porn and shame. Even during my day, my imagination was filled with a 24hr hard core pornathon. If I saw the word, "prom" my mind would read "porn"; "organism" would become "orgasm"; and "click" would become "clit". I found it increasingly difficult to talk to people. Pretty soon the only happiness in my life was a hit of dopamine from fapping.
The superpowers nofappers talk about are what you'd call being normal, being able to make eye-contact with people, being able to interact with people without feeling shame. When you've been living in a foggy semen-encrusted dream-world for so long, the difference between when you masturbated and nofap is night and day.
Much like an alcoholic, I realize it's an addiction. I used it to self comfort and to forget the world. And in much the same way most people can drink a glass or wine, most people should be fine with the occasional fap. I, on the other hand, realize if I want to remain healthy I can never fap again.
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esirnus18 8y ago
Thanks good write up. I only did it once a day but what was pissing me off was that the act alone took me around 2 min. The browsing and chasing the perfect fresh faced girl, what got to me. I don't watch porn anymore but I do jerk it in the shower or let a girl do it.
bolupua 8y ago
Dammmmn.
In moments of depression I used to masturbate 3 or 4 times a day. It actually helped a lot.
I now do it once or two times a day, and I think it's too much. How to spend 3 hours masturbating...you must be very young haha
N0fksgvn 8y ago
I hope you do realise that there are a gazillion of ways to alleviate depression instead of jacking it off.
Go for a run, go lift some weights, do something productive that in the end of the day you could tell yourself that you actually DID something worthwile that day.
[deleted] 8y ago
"Confidence and Holding frame" = High Testosterone and Dopamine
Jerking off spikes your prolactin which downregulates dopamine and testosterone production.
Jerking off to porn constantly causes dopamine resistance similar to how constantly eating sugar makes you insulin resistant and give you diabetes.
If you have been jerking off to porn your whole life, having normal levels of dopamine and testosterone ARE fucking superpowers!
Why do you think the number one advice here is to lift? It's not because it gives you big muscles so women think you're hot. It's because it fixes your fucking hormones so you feel more confidant.
[deleted] 8y ago
I totally believe in this scientific explanation. I am 24 now, and started lifting, giving up PMO and eating healthy a while ago. I have a fit body, but masturbation was nearly an obsession. Will my body recover? How long will it take?
[deleted] 8y ago
Definitely man. Everyone is different for time, probably 6 months max.
You'll really feel the difference when you get used to not jerking off constantly and then you do it a bunch of times over a few days. You'll be like, wow I feel like shit, I can't believe that I felt like this all the time for over a decade!
gistaminute 8y ago
Agreed. Mostly fap free for about 3-4 years now. Recently I let myself go a few times in a week that was stressful and by the 3rd time I was just over with it. That was a couple of months ago now. Whenever I feel like I want to start fapping, I usually just don't because I'm like 'this is not worth the side effects'... just like powerful drugs and drinking heavily.
esirnus18 8y ago
Good point mate. Everything in moderation , including moderation.
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If you had the choice between eating fast food, or cooking an hour long meal, and you're incredibly hungry, what would you pick?
The man with discipline would make his own meal. He knows that fast food will make him weak, no matter what he "feels".
The weak man would get fast food every time. It's more convenient, and gives him his result, albeit a poor option, faster.
The same with porn and sex.
Picsou1 8y ago
1 hour for sex.... more like a couple weeks. Imagine having to wait a whole month just to eat.
gistaminute 8y ago
Can't wait till I am ballin enough to have 7+ chicks who text back right away on speed dial
TehJimmyy 8y ago
Thanks for sharing.Just cut porn.Amazed how just masturbating feels much natural and allows to explore your sexuality. And do that each 5-7 days according to your program. Life changing stuff.
scissor_me_timbers00 8y ago
You could argue that the frame building effects of nofap IS superpowers in a sense
[deleted] 8y ago
What a pussy... 40 days only?? Like, come on.
If you can't at least 420 days of NoFap you won't make it.
Returnofthemack3 8y ago
yeah, good job for him though. he handled that smooth as fuck
SgtBuchanon74 8y ago
Congrats, you recognized some TRP principles.
Do you want a slap on the ass good game?
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Vesperous 8y ago
Hahaha I love how he thinks he now has superpowers