Girls Weekend - woman spills the details | TheRedPill

A plate told me how her and the girls go to the beach every year, but that she isn't going this year. One of the women gets all liquored up and she is tired of baby sitting her. This gf is the hot mess type and brings guys back to her hotel room. My plate feels bad because the hot mess has a significant other ( I forget if it is a boyfriend or husband) and she likes the guy more than the gf. This has been going on for multiple years where the hot mess is alone in the hotel room with men.

Lessons learned:

Girls weekend is all about whoring it up for some women.
- My plate says you would NEVER know if you met her because day to day she acts like a good woman.
My plate really doesnt seem that type
- but "birds of a feather..." she is only a plate for now so who cares. If things ever got more serious I would know its time to move on before she goes on this beach trip.
Even though my plate feels bad she is never going to tell the guy or stop the woman from whoring.
- Her friends will never rat her out

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BlueRebuke 8y ago

Girls weekend is all about whoring it up for some women.

Pretty much. She even KNOWS this, despite her telling you otherwise. If she decides to start going on these trips again, your plate is losing momentum.

She doesn't want to lower her SMV in your eyes. The way you describe her, she actually values spending time with you, versus her girlfriends. You've created a desire dynamic where she voluntarily excludes herself from these weekends.

Although "birds of a feather" does ring true, she may enjoy the company of her friends, but not their behaviour and is distancing herself from it.

There is also another side to this coin. She may be projecting like another poster said, but I highly doubt that is the case.

Lsegundo 8y ago

Thanks but her decision not to go on girls weekend was made before we met. We will see how things go. She makes it a point to let me know when her days off are so I think that indicates good interest. I like her but want to keep seeing other women.

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Squillimy 8y ago

"Yea I'm just gonna go to this spring break vacation on the beach with all my bros and stay in a hotel next to 5000 sorority girls from around the state babe. No none of my friends are like that. No we're not gonna talk to any girls while we're there".

I mean... It sounds ridiculous coming out of my mouth right? But wait... Women aren't like that!

If those words ever came out of my mouth then you can just go ahead and chop my dick off and call me Caitlyn.

tractorferret 8y ago

i was talking to a girl for awhile then she started telling me about how she was going on her last college spring break. that instantly killed any interest i had for her.

Mckallidon 8y ago

They catch up with friends with their faces buried in an FB app. Women flock out to get cocked out.

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Common sense isn't common anymore

Shaman6624 8y ago

Well apparently the girl in this post doesnt cheat. cause the reason shes not going anymore is that her gf was cheating and she felt bad. Seems like someone with morals

Offroadskier 8y ago

Or at least come home after the bars.

vengefully_yours 8y ago

Can't, they need to wash the man smell off and his sticky load out.

-uftw- 8y ago

Dude, it's like my cum has a mind of its own. I swear sometimes it looks like it sticks for dear life to my girls pussies lol

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Hltchens 8y ago

Sounds like an easy way to get trapped with a kid to me. Semen can navigate itself up to the egg even from the labia.

WolfenSatyr 8y ago

Shhhh.....let's see if he can figure it out himself

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sepelion 8y ago

This reminds me of a gorgeous newbie English teacher at a college who is about mid 20s, and the college sponsored her and some honors students to go to Italy, but they wouldn't pay for her boyfriend to go, so she went alone and took a bunch of selfies of course and put them on her Instagram and whatnot.

I guarantee she fucked some guys there. As if her boyfriend back in America would ever know.

Lsegundo 8y ago

We all know there is no such thing as an LDR. If your "gf" goes to Europe she isn't your gf anymore. Might as well break up because she is going to fuck guys over there whether you are faithful or not.

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Someone posted this link in a past comment here on TRP ... this clip is disturbing and enlightening:

Tom Leykis: Girls on Spring Break

Hltchens 8y ago

Jesus Christ. This one clip could red pill the nation.

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[deleted] 8y ago

What do the women get out of calling in there? It is so bizarre, this is akin to taking a bible into church and jerking off on it in front of the priest. Why flaunt that, even if it is encouraged?

darkmoon09 8y ago

I think it's the thrill of the taboo: these women wouldn't dare say this stuff in person/among people they know because they know that it would be detrimental to their social standing, so they call into radio stations or write in anonymous blogs to "vent" sorta speak their deepest desires which reveals their hypergamous nature.

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They get to confuse without getting caught. They do it to my local radio station all the time

Lsegundo 8y ago

hahahaha listening to the first chic now. First caller.. 7 out of 7 of her and her whore girlfriends are down in Cancun cheating on their LTRs for spring break.

Blemper 8y ago

X and as recently as last summer he was at work and some attractive features is all they have no illusions about my favorite fruit.

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Blemper 8y ago

Columbus had middle class origins.

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TheRedStoic 8y ago

Ever gone to a convention?

I have. More than I care to remember. The number one thing female employees bitched about was the slut in the group who was committed in some way. (of course they wouldn't tell anyone except the guys they really wanted to fuck, funny that...).

This is normalcy. You can't be surprised. They'll approve in the Queen bee presence but won't say shit to the others involved in the social contracts, (husband's, prospects, boyfriends, fathers, etc).

I'm not saying it's a supermajority, but I wouldn't even trust my favorite plate to tell me if another girl was unfaithful. No way. The only exception is if they think it would win them points with me. (they know it won't).

A painful truth, as many are, but one worth learning. (BTW, attend a Bachelorette party, that'll open your eyes in quick form.)

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I went to Dreamforce recently (175k+ registrants) and it was basically spring break for office workers, especially the women.

They were aaaaallllll looking to hook up. All.

All.

2jz240sx 8y ago

I live near a few seasonal beaches that explode in the summer time with tourist . Tinder/bumble has 50× the amount of women vs off season. Last summer while i was playing volleyball on the beach last summer I started chatting it up with this nice looking milf. Found out she was down with her female friends (all married) while thier husbands were at home with the kids . This group was all post wall late 30's early 40's. The one I was talking to was definitely the best looking one of the group had 3 kids and a husband back home. She took it upon herself to write my # down off my volleyball and sent me a text later trying to meet up. Logistics didn't work out on her part since her friends wanted to party at the hotel bar instead of heading up my way and I was out with some friends as well.

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Lsegundo 8y ago

trying to convince me she isn't like that? Maybe because I am non-judgemental? Why do you think she told me?

She confessed she got pumped and dumped after her divorce before I met her. The plate might have messed around on some of these trips. I don't think she hooked up every single time though like the hot mess.

AWALT is a scale not a single point. I don't believe in unicorns. So far she seems to be towards the better end of the scale. I snuck into the bathroom with her at the club. She declined to blow me there, but made up for it when we got home and the next morning.

ShakaLeonidas 8y ago

She told you all this to make herself seem more desirable in comparison to her peers. Read between the lines "birds of a feather flock together" some duckss are bigger than others but they all fly and quack. Being non-judgmental is normally a nonfactor. Females are solpositic and unless your actions causes her market vaule to rise or fall which in turn would result in her inclusion or ejection from social circles of her benefit, she dont care what you think.

Your right it's not a HARD scale with fixed points. Its a fluid scale dependent on biological fitness and opportunity cost. If theirs room for plausible deniability aka "I was with the girls" . They will explore their options because they have an alibi now. They know their sexual agency is their gold wallet/ticket so they play the market one way or another.

To retro actively revert back into their steady LTR's their actions can be mentally omitted via "i was drunk.", "i dont really even know that guy and we'll never see each other agian" or "It was a mistake so it doesn't count".

The hamstering is astounding.

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Lsegundo 8y ago

l will skip the details. Judging by our first date its hard to imagine she was trying to show me her madonna side.

Blemper 8y ago

There were some interesting opinions.

BestSC86 8y ago

This is what is stupid....they simply troll clubs looking for girls who will let them fuck her in the club bathroom then act surprised that the party slut goes on weekends with other party sluts to fuck multiple guys....

Then the same dudes are so dense that they correlate the actions of this club bathroom slut to all women in society....

Listen you freaking dunderheads, if a girl fucks or sucks you in the bathroom at the club she is not plate nor LTR material and is barely fuckable material unless you like russian roulette games with STDs.

Lsegundo 8y ago

Were were on a date. I decided it was a good opportunity to be adventurous. We had already fucked and I didn't just meet her that night at the club. She liked me taking the lead even though she didnt want to mess around in the bathroom.

Blemper 8y ago

What’s fascinating about him, and the rest what to do your instinctual play.

BlameitonBigDave 8y ago

Great point - not OP but genuinely interested in your opinion, why do you think she told him this?

wheresMYsteakAt 8y ago

Not the other OP but if I had to guess she said it to frame herself as "not one of those girls" and the reason for that is unknown. Possibly splitting/projection with trickle truth, i.e she also whores around with her friend on the trips, but maybe not.

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wheresMYsteakAt 8y ago

I would guess OP doesn't give a completely non-judgemental vibe to her.

I got that impression as well and that is discussed somewhere in the sidebar but I'm unable to reference it at the moment.

Lsegundo 8y ago

"...you would NEVER know if you met her...she acts like a good woman"

That was my plate talking about the hot mess.

My plate really doesnt seem that type"

AWALT doesn't mean that every chic is trying to fuck 7 different guys on girls weekend. There are no unicorns. Some women are better than others though.

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Lsegundo 8y ago

haha. That would be funny. WTF could the hot mess say if she found out? Of course hot mess would go nuclear because I guarantee she has a hamster that could battle Godzilla.

Blemper 8y ago

Idk if this is just another form of anxiety and discomfort, learn to bite the bullet and step outside your comfort zone.

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Lsegundo 8y ago

Im not sure what point you are trying to make with your comment.

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Steve_Wiener 8y ago

Bon Scott was one of my idols as a young teenager

Lsegundo 8y ago

Cool. AC/DC has some great tunes. I never heard this one.

Steve_Wiener 8y ago

Of course your plate never did that.

Lsegundo 8y ago

N = my plate. She probably did get fucked on some of those trips. N isnt the raging out of control whore type that hot mess is. N is actually a little less sexual than I prefer. She is not trying to come across as pure and innocent either. I know someone is going to comment that she is settling for me.

N had semi-public sex with me the first time. Fucked me 3x at the end of our last date, cooked me breakfast, and sucked me every time. I almost forgot I make her squirt.