I recently nexted what I'd consider to be my first real plate. I can't lie here, she'd be a HB5 on a very good day, a bit thick, little too much makeup, etc; but to a newcomer of TRP like myself (lurked since last April) any experience is experience and lessons learned. For instance, the lessons I learned in noticing the warning signs/red flags of a clingy, obsessive woman like said HB5 and now ex plate will be very helpful in my future spinning, and I thank her for being a part of it.
Back to the story, one piece of behaviour that stood out to me, though very small and seemingly insignificant to some, dates back to our first night out. I drive my car up a mountain overlooking our city, a very similar sort of place to those makeout points in every 80's film ever. Game was being played well, my frame had held like a steel wall and she was loving it. We leave the car and head to some lookout, you all know the drill here, I escalate, we hook up, all is well and good.
Except it isn't. Her breath stinks. Like real bad. It catches me off guard but I manage to hold myself together and try to get into it. After a few minutes though I'm really gasping for air, and the exhaust pipe I'm exhaling into seems to have noticed a slight change in the mood, but hasn't worked out exactly what it is. She's still all over me, and I suggest we head elsewhere.
We head back to my car, where I left a pack of Extra (protip: always carry gum/mints on you). Mid conversation I ask her if she'd like any gum. "no thanks, I don't chew gum." Colour me surprised. I ignore her answer, look her in the eyes and put two pieces in her hand. I continue the conversation from where I left off without skipping a beat, and while she sits there for a few seconds receiving the memo I just sent her she's back to her normal self by the time it's her turn to reply in the conversation. We get to mine, her breath tastes MUCH better, I plow her like snow, she blows me for the finale, absolutely normal out of normal sex. We fuck about 6 times again after that leading up to a week ago which is when I cut it off.
Now here's the small thing. The first night, she told me she doesn't chew gum. Funnily enough, on every next endeavour with this woman, whenever I arrived to hers she would always be chewing gum, without fail. This did wonders to her breath, and making out significantly improved. I know it's a very small thing, but I can't help but be proud of changing a girls behaviour like that with minimal effort and without any drama, all because she wanted me to fuck her. Small things like that make me feel like I'm finally making it. Either that or I'm still autistic and over-analyse everything like I used to. If that's the case please don't stray from letting me know this in the comments.
Lessons learnt
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It's possible to get girls to change annoying things with minimal hassle, just hold dat frame.
- Nothing else I didn't really already know.

goldnhorde 9y ago
oh man ..... nope. no way. nope no. no.
The breath thing is a deal breaker for me. it's just hygiene 101.
you got to be able to take care of your teeth, your skin, your hair .... there just has to be a baseline for unacceptable.
I don't expect designer clothes and the best foods from the most exotic and expensive places ... but brush your fucking teeth and hair. wash your clothes.
My parents used to teach me two things and maybe I have blended them unfairly. 1. you keep yourself clean as a respect to yourself (because you deserve to be taken care of) and every one around you (because it is nice to sit beside someone who makes you want to ask them what perfume they are wearing .... and it sucks to sit beside someone whose stench could peel the paint off a skunk's trashcan
cashmoney_x 9y ago
Did you seriously just post online telling strangers that you offered someone gum and they took it?
Christ this sub is turning into autists central.
UrsusG 9y ago
It's also possible she was actually dumb enough to not realize her breath stank, so I wouldn't say this was a lesson in holding frame and overcoming some kind of shit test, but rather a lesson in attaining your goals without talking too much on an awkward subject.
You let her know her breath stinks, and fixed it without hurting her feels (which could have resulted in no sex that evening, even though it was her fault, but girls are girls).
This kind of approach (acting diplomatically without talking too much) will help you succeed in dealing with people in all sorts of situations, so well done.
Metalgear222 9y ago
This reminds me of a girl I plated and everything was great.. except she snored. So I got fed up in the middle of the night and always went out to the couch, when she hit me with "I woke up last night n u were gone" Pre-TRP me just nuked her. "You snore, insanely fucking loud" We never met up again lol. Lesson learned.
max_peenor 9y ago
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WqURlQkFJKU
But seriously, we tend to acclimate to the smells around us. Letting someone know it's a problem in the proper manner wins you a lot of points.
Source: a longtime people manager that has had to deal with trevs and H1Bs with odor issues.
mattizie 9y ago
Good on ya mate. Every man should spin a HB5 plate at least once: these girls are very desperate and doing so will show you can expect from a woman.
I referred to mine as a "practice girlfriend" back when I just finished HS. HB4 teen d&d nerd that smelt of cat piss. That was the only real sign I had prior to TRP that my boring marriage was not "normal" and prompted me to look for answers.
AndrewsRevenge 9y ago
TBQH, I don't either, since I find the activity unattractive.
However, I brush three times a day, carry a bit of mouthwash with me, avoid caffeine and drink only water.
I also do intermittent fasting, so no risk of food stinking up my breath.
Haven't had a problem with bad breath for the past decade or so.
There're a few types of bad breath:
The most offensive kind is also accompanied by acid reflux, because the sphincter(a ring shaped muscle. All anuses are sphincters, not all sphincters are anuses) doesn't close off properly.
The least offensive kind(at first) is caused by a dried mouth, and is a precursor of tooth rot(One reason you get cavities is because saliva production slows down while you sleep, letting microbes multiply out of control). This type is literally the easiest to avoid, by simply keeping hydrated and once in a while sloshing some alcohol based mouthwash.
cashmoney_x 9y ago
Alcohol dries you out.
patasucia 9y ago
you forget the most common one, food residues on your tongue. If your tongue is white or accumulates stuff on it, it will rot and smell really bad.
newName543456 9y ago
Most important thing to deal with bad breath is to get rid of any plaque you have. That should be main point of oral hygiene, esp. given that plaque can lead to heart disease in future.
AndrewsRevenge 9y ago
Hence all that brushing.
Honestly, I'd carry a brush and brush at work too, but this is actually one place where I let myself be lazy
newName543456 9y ago
You don't always need to brush.
You can floss or use toothpicks, when brushing would be inconvenient. But with latter, be careful not to damage gums/enamel.
Sir_Distic 9y ago
Except flossing has recently been shown to do nothing of benefit. It's not harmful but it doesn't do what everyone thinks it does.
thedaynos 9y ago
lol that's bullshit sorry. normal tooth brushes can't get to spots that floss (and food particles) can, which will cause rotting/decay/bad breath, etc. water picks work nicely too. find one you can use in the shower
redpill-account 9y ago
Proof?
Literally every dentist I've had tells me flossing more important than brushing
RavelsBolero 9y ago
yeah that's not true at all, every dentist will tell you flossing is more important than mouthwash
no92 9y ago
No there is just no evidence scientifically proving it. There was no disproof. It removes plaque, that's good enough evidence.
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Funny read.
Good move and showed some abundance.
A lot of thirsty dudes would've been so afraid to mess up a shot at tail that they would've just went with it and kissed her without the gum intervention.
Had an ex with chronic sinus infections due to a sinus deformity (couldn't see it, was internal). Her nose breath stunk like shit.
DeLaNoochie 9y ago
Good job, man! Keep that frame strong, let them know how it's gonna be.
ArkAngelEV 9y ago
Ha. Reading this post reminded me of something from AGES ago. Had a loose FWB, and the first time I was at her place I asked if she has any super glossy lip balm. She makes fun of me, thinking I wanted to put that on me. I told her no, I wanted her to wear it cause it would remind me of some pornstar I was fapping to like crazy, and in all her videos, she went overboard on the lip gloss. I said it in such a casual, I don't care if I fuck this up by admitting such a random thing to you.
She said no she didn't have any and doesn't like what I said, it's not her look. I said too bad. So we bang, nothing special, and I leave. The second time we meet up, she has 3 different types of lip gloss and asks me which one i like best. I tell her which one and then for 2 years after, would ALWAYS wear it when we would meet up, even if we would meet outside.
Always thought that was funny and only applied to her
no92 9y ago
Shit test passed. I do find a lot of people with this issue. Next step up is brushing their teeth.
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trippinallday 9y ago
Thanks for your input Gay4Pancakes, your firm no-exceptions-allowed logic is always appreciated. I'm glad you're always here to let us know when two unrelated things are mutually exclusive.
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bostonburrito 9y ago
Wrong, I actually did in fact reverse a snow plow into my room and shovelled that frosty shit straight up her vag while jerking off. We both came in seconds.
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