HandyHack: The after text. | TheRedPill

After you do the deed: Do this. Every single time. I used a variation (e.g. "Text me so I know you got home ok" or "Text me when you get to work/school safe etc..") of this with the majority of women I slept with and it's gold.

It frames the whole interaction positively(in their minds); leaves you an opening to follow up; frames you as a caring person(even if you were just after dat ass) and the biggest positive is no one who accuses another person of rape sends them a text after the event saying they got home, to work/school safe.

I used to do it all the time because regardless of the span, I genuinely cared about all the women I let into my life. After the event eliciting an after text of this nature takes no effort and can only be beneficial.

Happy Hunting!

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PissedPajamas 9y ago

The after-sex text is perfect, it's the equivalent to cuddling for dudes. Some guys here will say it's beta... but if you just finished pounding her ass into the next dimension you can say whatever the hell you want

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atticusfinch1973 9y ago

This is one of the only times where you should actually act a bit beta for the reasons suggested. That one text saying she had a good time and got home safe can save your life.

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TheRedPillRipper 9y ago

If she's bad/I'll intentioned/bat shit crazy you should've picked up on that long before you put your dick in her. If you picked up on it but still chose to put your dick in it then that's on you.

If she's safe(presumably you're not that dude from Fifty Shades) then she'll text you back. Girls operate on feelz and to her nothing feelz better then getting her arse railed to then giving an emotionally driven positive response.

There's no bias because it's fact. You've elicited a physical response (e.g. mind blowing sex). The After Text elicits a positive emotional response (e.g. "He cares!!"). Her whole frame is flipped in your favour with no work. It's just a simple little hack I did that could help you.

Take it or leave it. I just know it works.

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Kalidane 9y ago

That's it. Delayed rape is more likely to take days, not 90 minutes

wont_tell_i_refuse 9y ago

Yup. So, as they say in the old infomercials, ACT NOW!

^^Or ^^you'll ^^be ^^accused ^^of ^^rape.

Kalidane 9y ago

Remember... Only YOU Can Prevent Time Travel Rape

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SeemedGood 9y ago

shes either safe

No woman is "safe." Only the rarest of women have the capacity to care about you beyond your potential usefulness to them. So for the vast majority once they've decided that you are no longer useful, you can be discarded in any way that suits their fancy, and any woman may decide at a whim that destroying your life suits her fancy.

I got a sexual harassment charge that destroyed my career from a woman who had told me "SeemedGood, you can tell me anything" about two weeks before I told her that despite my very strong feelings for her (idiotically detailed in a letter), I would be remaining faithful to my wife - the charge was for telling her that after she had been essentially pursuing me for over a year.

htbf 9y ago

I got a sexual harassment charge that destroyed my career from a woman who had told me "SeemedGood, you can tell me anything" about two weeks before I told her that despite my very strong feelings for her (idiotically detailed in a letter), I would be remaining faithful to my wife - the charge was for telling her that after she had been essentially pursuing me for over a year.

I want to know this story.

I'm in something similar also less career destroying (at least for now).

A coworker spent a year flirting heavily with me and I flirted back. When we established that the attraction was mutual while at her place (she invited me to work there), I chose not to fuck her because I could not trust how she would handle the infidelity at work and didn't want a drama at the office.

I still got in some sort of drama since she couldn't even handle the fact that we were openly attracted to each other. It messed up with her, causing stress, anxiety, the whole cocktail. She kept talking to m and flirting with me, very openly, asking me personal stuff and saying stuff like "I care about you", "I love flirting with you" and "I wish you could help my sleeping problem". Yet I learned yesterday that she had talked to HR about this. They talked to me afterwards and I was able to tell it my way.

Now I don't plan to ever addressing another word to the bitch who stabbed me in the back and who had no regard for the very little trust I put in her. I don't care how painful it's gonna be for me to see her around everyday at the office but I'm so fucking disgusted by her pretending she was a friend who cared while throwing my ass to HR.

I hope she is in more pain now that she earned my silence while she craved my attention before. I understand that she did what she had to do to save her relationship (and life, because that girl really has trouble with relationships) from the tension between us but she fucking stabbed me in the back.

SeemedGood 9y ago

Sent you a PM.

Yours does sound similar with the one exception that you were not as stupid as I - and that saved your arse.

And I have felt your anger. It's almost completely subsided now as I have internalized the reality that we are naught but objects to women, there for the extraction of utility and that's it. Once I was able to accept that my anger towards her was replaced by pity for her, and all women.

Having learned that lesson (and a few others) from the experience, I am beginning to feel much more able to launch a new career and rebuild my wealth than I ever have, so I have actually become thankful for the experience.

htbf 9y ago

Thanks for the link.

It's sobering, although a woman that makes that much effort to win a man cannot be acting out of any good intent to start with.

My relationship with my coworker is different within the fact that she wasn't that keen on sleeping with me. We were both pretty good at keeping a distance even though we both know how attracted we were to each other.

Also, I've known her from the first day I set foot in this town. She's my friend and given how not close to other people I am, she was my best friend.

The stab in the back is painful. I don't want to compare it to other emotional pains I had before.

I don't want to mull over it and get depressed. I want to keep being the awesome dude I was, the same awesome dude who seduced her, the sexiest girl in the building that everyone wants a piece of.

Right now, I feel everything falling apart and it scares the fuck out of me. I feel the guilt for having dropped the ball on my workout regime ever since that evening at her place that started this mess. I feel the lack of hope for ever getting my knees's health back if I don't put in the work. I feel how completely paralysed I am in my current tasks at my job while they are very fucking time critical. I'm chasing my tail with very simple shit but that needs me to go running around everyone in the factory to get a handle on. I feel how inadequate my living conditions are and how I don't even want to invite girls to my apartment because of a roommate situation. She's a wall hitting girl with no money in her pocket. I once was kissing a girl that dropped me in front of my place after our date (I walked on my way there). The prospect of finding a not so charming place really stopped me from ever proposing further.

I don't well to dwell on this. Although, maybe I must if I want to find a solution.

SeemedGood 9y ago

It's sobering, although a woman that makes that much effort to win a man cannot be acting out of any good intent to start with.

I still wonder what the deal was actually.

There was very strong attractive energy between us and it was probably obvious to everyone. For my part, she was very much my "type," and I think that in many ways I may have been hers. But who knows really? Women are fickle.

htbf 9y ago

Did you talk to her after she betrayed you ?

SeemedGood 9y ago

No. The last time I saw her, I had stayed late on the Friday before a long weekend to wrap up some stuff and clear out my desk. At that point I had not been informed of anything, but I could feel something wasn't right and having worked in a career with really high turnover (from both talent poaching and layoffs) you develop a habit of keeping your desk clean when there's any volatility in the vibe.

As I was leaving I opened to door to the hall and she was walking through the other way. Our eyes met for that two moments longer than briefly, she turned beet red with the deepest blush I'd ever seen and stepped out of my path. I looked ahead and kept walking. As I bent the corner I saw her in my peripheral and she was still looking at me beet faced and looking like "the saddest girl to ever hold a Martini."

I was fired first thing on Tuesday morning. She didn't come in, they said she "was too distraught." Imagine that.

I never felt as if she betrayed me exactly. I suppose that it could be seen that way, but I'm a trader. Like the markets, she didn't owe me anything. I took the (really stupid) risk of sharing a bit of my soul with a woman because I had come to feel quite strongly for her. I knew the size of the worst-case downside loss. I just severely miscalculated the probability of hitting it, that's not her fault, it's mine. I was an idiot and I paid the price. To assume betrayal assumes an equality of rational-thinking, loyalty, and frankly consciousness that just doesn't exist - as much as I may have wanted to and bet that it did.

The good thing is that now I know it doesn't exist so I'll never make that bet again.

htbf 9y ago

To assume betrayal assumes an equality of rational-thinking, loyalty, and frankly consciousness that just doesn't exist - as much as I may have wanted to and bet that it did.

I think this is the part that is hitting me the hardest.

It's astonishing how much I find myself in specific aspects of your story. When I saw her after my reunion with HR, she had that look on her face, the one a kid has when he knows he did something that his parents are not going to like.

I cannot look at her as an equal and I'm fine with that. But I'm not fired so I still have to deal professionally with her and I have to treat her as an equal publicly. And I hate that.

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SeemedGood 9y ago

Comment away if you like, I have a very tough skin.

And besides, that experience was worse than any comment about it could possibly be. I know I fuked-up, and I know how, I know why, and I won't let that (or anything like it) happen again, ever.

As for you, the danger is not just related to your own feelings (whether you have them for her or not). Rather, it's related to her feelings, which you cannot control. And neither can she control her feelings unless she's one of the extremely rare women who has achieved some degree of self-mastery.

Thus, no woman is "safe" and the OP's suggestion for self-protection.

D0ngl3 9y ago

Alpha til you nut, beta for her feels, then lift, alpha again, thanking your beta self for the solid

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Lionheart999 9y ago

Assert your dominance and kick that bitch out.

Then keep frame and tell her to text you when she finds a new home.

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max_peenor 9y ago

And make sure she takes her shit with her!

Too funny...

freshoutofgravitas 9y ago

username checks out. nature uhh... finds a mortgage?

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plenty_of_eesh 9y ago

The funniest things sail close to the truth...

The truth here being that there are a lot of maladjusted dudes in this sub who would actually like to do this very thing or as close as they can get... If it can be described as "holding frame" then it's gold, regardless of asshole-factor.

imn0tg00d 9y ago

I agree with you. There are some very bitter people here who I think have missed what the message is supposed to be. What guys think an asshole is and what girls think an asshole is are two different things.

SeemedGood 9y ago

What guys think an asshole is and what girls think an asshole is are two different things.

Yes. For guys an arse is someone who is wantonly disrespectful of others. For girls/women an arse is someone who's generally respectful of others.

TheRedPillRipper 9y ago

I used to do that quite a bit so my go to was "Text me when you get to work safe" or "text me when you get to work so I know you got there safe." The key element is the word "safe". Elicit a response with that word and you're golden.

RedPistola 9y ago

Do you then reply to her confirmation text?

TheRedPillRipper 9y ago

Depends on you. This comment implies you're not quite as polished in terms of women skills as others here so I'd suggest that you wait at least till after work/school/ or the end of the day.

That said your reply should always be aimed towards ABC (Always Be Closing). None of that inane gibberish bullshit. Have an agenda and create multiple avenues to execute it.

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plutorising92 9y ago

True, great post. I have always done this, and even in my BP days girls responded to this positively. There's other small things you can do to ensure her physical safety, which girls will always love.

The first time I went out with a girl I liked, I held out my hand for her to hold on to while we were crossing an intersection(no traffic lights there). For me it was a nice way to start kino, but later on her friend told me she absolutely loved it because it showed that I was concerned. The thing was, she didn't even take my hand.

Show that you care about their safety(physical, bodily safety) and they will always like it. Guaranteed. Just don't do it every day.

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DirtyProject0r 9y ago

After you do the deed: Do this. Every single time. I used a variation (e.g. "Text me so I know you got home ok" or "Text me when you get to work/school safe etc..") of this with the majority of women I slept with and it's gold.

I always do this especially after one time I did not receive a text and was like whatever. Turned out she got into a car crash. Nothing too serious, but hell felt I guilty I did not drive her home the previous night.

Atticus_Crowley 9y ago

That's a good option. I live in a "one party" state, so if I have the presence of mind, I activate my voice recorder on my phone to record audio of the night. Hard to prove rape if I got audio of her moaning "fuck me daddy", and then perfectly pleasant pillow talk afterwards.

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WhorehouseVet 9y ago

A variation is after sex, whilst I'm still with her, I'd text "thank you for a wonderful time" and ask her reply it immediately, sort of in a playful way. I usually get a "thank you" or something like that. I follow up the next day with some chit chat about her life.

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refusewool 9y ago

We don't treat women like objects, we treat them like children.

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TheKnownUnknown9 9y ago

Read Confessions of a Reformed Incel.

WhorehouseVet 9y ago

Get outta here, your faggot.

TheRedPillRipper 9y ago

Nothing is wrong with TRP, sexual strategy or those who subscribe to it.

Never start a comment attacking others if you want open and honest dialogue. That can cause us to misconstrue the calibre of person you are u/omarhuge.

As stated I genuinely cared about the women in my life and it was just a nice way for them to know I cared. As my knowledge base increased I realised that being a self driven, kind hearted person doesn't exclude me from facing reality.

This hack and other valuable pieces here serve only one purpose; to arm men with the tools necessary to succeed in the sexual marketplace.

Analogies, abbreviations and all the frames of reference you find here are all just means to that end (i.e. TRP are just the bullets. You're holding the gun). We don't tell you to who to shoot: Just increase your chances of survival.

PaulAJK 9y ago

Because we're literally Hitler.

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dragonofthesouth1 9y ago

Son this is a sub where you objectify everyone involved, you, her, all men, all women, so you can understand strategies to winning in life and sex.

Kalidane 9y ago

Easy tiger. No one objectifies the dog.

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omarhuge 9y ago

No of course you're not treating the other diners as 'objects' because your intentions are genuine, as you do not want to disturb them. You are not trying to sell off a mere image, your intentions are true. In this case though it appears as though you are just trying to manipulate the other female into making them think that you are indeed a caring person when in fact all you'd care about is sex-it's deceiving. That's the impression I get with this post and a bunch of other's that I've read. Correct me if I'm wrong.

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TheRedPillRipper 9y ago

Your issue is your perception of TRP. Being genuine or being disingenuous is irrelevant. TRP is fact based. That's all. When you have over 100000 subscribers then even the sheer weight of numbers alone gives credence to the truth espoused here. I came here for the science of it and stayed because of the truth I found.

If my HandyHack helps keep one false rape accusation from occuring then in my books you can't get more genuine then that.

Hillarysdilddo_2016 9y ago

Don't empowered wymyn want no strings attached sex? R u prude?

KingoftheAssholes 9y ago

Man you're a funny little troll. This is trp second most hated subreddit on this site. If your feelz get hurt by something you read here go bitch about to the rest of reddit who will probably just laugh at you anyway. If you're hear to learn something shut the fuck up read the sidebar, get to lifting and thank us later.