Women are side effects | TheRedPill

Most of us had way too much blue pill growing up. Be nice, be yourself, the right one will come along. I can't wait to pull back the curtain for my sons and explain to them how to have options with women.

The main point is getting women can not be the goal. Getting women is a side effect of making the right choices.

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abdada 9y ago

The breakup rule applies in dating women. The minute you get over an ex, she wants to meet up again. It happens like clockwork because she senses she's not a priority.

This is why Game works so well in dating -- because the priority is YOU, and the side effects of you doing you are generally beneficial.

"I want her to like me, and she wants me to like me." It's all about both parties liking you.

Lsegundo 9y ago

Game gets such a bad rap some times. I didn't study that hard but learned some great stuff. When talking to women I no longer wonder "Does she like me?" I am asking myself "Do I like her?" Little things like that gave me better interactions.

Your comment reminds me of a scene in swingers with Jon Favreau. He has terminal oneitis.

ROB "I mean first you'll pretend not to care, not call - whatever, and then, eventually, you really won't care."
MIKE "Unless she comes back first.
ROB "Ah, see, that's the thing. Somehow they don't come back until you really don't care anymore."

It's a fun movie to watch with some beers to get ready for guys night out. I couldnt find that scene in youtube

abdada 9y ago

lol I remember that movie. That's the one where he called the new hot girl a bunch and she nexted him, right? God, what a scene. Cringe worthy.

That's an old enough movie that the hot bar girl was probably gross but at the time I thought she was hot, lol.

Also, if I remember correctly, the girl he had oneitis over was some fat manfaced 4.5 who branch swung, haha. Oh man.

Lsegundo 9y ago

thats the one! Me and my boys used to watch it like once a month on Friday night. Then goto the club, get fall down drunk and strike out with women hahahaha

trpppp123 9y ago

Idk man, I'm 25 all I did was hustle when I was younger and financially speaking I'm doing a lot better than my peers (could buy my own property if I wanted), I was even fit (got out of shape recently due to injury)... but women have never been in my cards.

I don't really care as much as I used to anymore but I would be lying if it didn't make me sad occasionally knowing that the ugliest whale with 7 kids could go on Tinder and get fucked the same day whereas a guy like me who worked his ass off all his life to become a better man struggles to find a wet hole to put his dick in.

hbPUA 9y ago

Life is built upon meeting animal needs. Needs which can be meet by learning the neccesary skills required to meet that need.

Enjoy your success of having a high skill of money earning. Just as money is a skill, so is getting pussy.

What would you rather be. A women that have a high value during her 15-30s then drop rapidly? Or a man that enjoy the challenge of acquiring skills and living well all his life. With multiple girlfriends (hugh Hefner)?

[deleted] 9y ago

Stop fucking on tinder and go cold approach women on the street. If you don't have game, money will not help you if you aren't really really rich.

Lsegundo 9y ago

Why do you care? Her success or failure has little effect on yours.

Also she can get a temporary fix with a pump and dump or MAYBE some guy with a similar train wreck of a life. That beta won't make her happy though because society convinced her she deserves a guy over 6' tall that makes bank and looks like he walked off a movie set.

mardonian 9y ago

Patrice O Neal changed my life and helped me reason with women in my own head more honestly and openly. Check out The Black Phillip Show, I think it could be especially helpful in terms of mindset when growing up.