http://chaosandpain.blogspot.com.es/2013/07/no-fap-more-like-no-fucking-way.html?zx=d407ac8d83abab11

Great post. In your last paragraph you talk about transmuting that energy. I've been having a hard time with this. Anytime past 3 days, I cannot focus at work at all. I actually end up leaving work on some days earlier than I should, to go day game or just do a quick fap to get the urge away. What have you guys been doing for this? As shitty as this is for me to admit, I have not been able to control it.

i don't know how you guys do it. if i go more than 3-4 days without busting a nut i'll start having wet dreams.

What if you wake up with huge morning wood and masturbate without porn?

I am very interested in "transmutation of sexual energy." The whole concept rings true to me. But I don't exactly understand how it is practiced and how it works.

I lost my libido on fucking NoFap . Fuck that shit!

Look at it from an even simpler standpoint. After you're done jacking off you mostly feel like a sad fuck yet after banging a fine piece of ass you feel like a million dollars. I think masturbation is the lonely monkeys way of releasing sexual tension. Instead of doing healthier and more productive things like getting laid the monkey rather just keep pressing the jizz button because it's easier. Truthfully it fucks up your game because you grow comfortable knowing that even if you don't score in a date or succeed in an approach that you can just go home and whack it.

what if you just get laid a lot?

As someone who has gone 223 days with no porn or fap, I can testify that this post is legit. I witnessed the same results.

i'd like to throw out a bizarre side thought.

humans communicate through a variety of methods. body language is commonly talked about.

scent is communication method. when your stressed, other people smell that. i'm very curious, i think that fapping, makes you smell. people pick this up at a subconscious level.

over the years, i've noticed, highly aggressive men, have a smell. i mean, x-con type men. the kind that will punch your teeth out. you can smell this type of aggression.

it makes sense to me, that men that blow their testosterone in to the air, would put off a smell.

I started NOFAP a year ago. I went from jacking off three times a day to working out 5-6 times a week and taking up painting/reading classic medieval literature.

NOFAP works, it just takes getting used to. If you can last a month then you can last a year. If you can last a year, you can last a lifetime.

What if I still get wet dreams if no fap/sex for more than 7 days? 23y..

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I tend to get agitated after a few days of not fapping. I need to abstain due to a pelvic floor injury but haven't had any success yet. What did you do to contain your urge to "just peek" and subsequently relapse?

I get too hormonal on no fap. I go from on top of the world to agitated to angry to depressed all within a few hours. I guess it's because I'm not getting my usual dopamine release, but these hormones don't go away even after 20 days of no fap. It's too much to deal with. And I'm 27, not a teenager.

I've also tried to 'focus' my sexual energy and it is genuinely impossible for me except when it's on physical tasks. Try to study for something or write something and it is the most distracting thing in the world. All I can think about is sex and no matter how much I try to channel that, I can't.

I do still have no fap breaks of three to five days every now and then to recharge. Once it gets too distracting though I have to release or I'll get nothing done.