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A bout a year and a half ago I found out the college cheerleader I was dating was cheating on me (go figure) in the most brutal and personal of ways (also, go figure). I loved her a lot, shit sucks. The glass shattered.

That inspired my anger phase and quest for frame. Did pretty well, banged some chicks, and started dating a rebound. I've since broken up with the rebound, and revisited the city in which the cheerleader ex resides. In hanging out with my old friends, I heard what she's (the cheerleader) been up to. Her activities include dating some fat ugly slob, and cheating on him with her bosses 27 year old business partner.

For whatever reason, this has me back at square one. The wound is open, and the salt is burning. Hearing more instances of her being a hypergamous whore just put me back into pity party mode.

Does everyone have one that they never get over? I'm literally considering therapy at this point. I had put her on the highest of pedestals, and its like I'll never get her down from there. She is legitimate 10/10 hot, and 10/10 slutty....for everyone but me apparently. Certainly a saved her best for everyone else maxim.

Apologies brothers, I'm basically hurting and don't know where else to talk about it. I really thought I was past this shit.

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PaperStreetVilla 10y ago

oneitis? Question? Really?

ATRP.

[deleted] 10y ago

Forgive yourself and shake the dust off. I am guessing your hamster is whispering that if you had only done this, or done that the outcome would have been the stuff dreams are made of. You got off lucky even though it is hard for you to see it. Picture in your mind a scenario of you not finding out how she is until after you were married to her with 3 kids. You find out she is cheating on you from the restraining order and find out her new lover is pounding her hard in the bed you bought, under the roof your child support and possible spousal maintenance is still paying for.

The fact she is cheating on her now current boyfriend should be a useful tool for you to use for thankfulness at how easy you got off. Let her go and focus on you dude. It was just your turn. Now it isn't.

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favours_of_the_moon 10y ago

A bout a year and a half ago I found out the college cheerleader I was dating was cheating on me (go figure) in the most brutal and personal of ways (also, go figure).

That's how a Modern Girl gets tingles. I call it "extreme personal mind rape."

In hanging out with my old friends, I heard what she's (the cheerleader) been up to. Her activities include dating some fat ugly slob, and cheating on him with her bosses 27 year old business partner.

See? She is fetishizing it. A distintive feature of the Modern Girl, like the signature of a serial killer. Learn to recognize it in the wild.

Don't think that being the guy with whom she is cheating is an "alpha," just for being in that position, though. She thinks that makes him an alpha. But she doesn't actually know what it's all about.