I agree and disagree.

• AGREE: If you are a pushover , then all women will treat you as such.

• DISAGREE: It's stupid to limit your selection. If you have the cash for it, and the vacation anyways, why not fuck women from other lands?

There is no reason to limit yourself to fat and unfemenin western women. If I lived in Europe, my ass would be taking mini holidays all over the damn place.

Found this gem in the video description, but it's nothing we already don't know.

My Thai Bride is a controversial and widely acclaimed feature documentary that provides a unique insight into the Thai-foreigner marriage industry.

My Thai Bride has been screened and won awards at a number of prestigious international film festivals including IDFA in Amsterdam, Hot Docs in Toronto and the Antenna International FF in Sydney.

My Thai Bride tells the true story of Ted, a 46-year old salesman from Wales, who visits Thailand on business and falls in love with Tip, a bar girl. They marry and move to her poor, rural home. Ted soon finds he isn’t alone. In northeast Thailand marriage to foreigner men has become an industry.

Things sour for Ted. His money disappears much faster than expected. No one seems to want him around the farm anymore. When Ted asks Tip if she loves him, she replies: “I can’t eat or drink love.” Ted returns home destitute, having learned what his Thai wife already knew: without money you lose everything.

Look, it's the same everywhere no matter what you happen to do. There was a saying during the age of sail that the men who went aloft knew well, "One hand for the ship, one hand for yourself." It meant that they always kept one hand so they could keep steady above the deck of a pitching ship, and the other hand ready so they could hoist the sails.

Now, you want to be in a relationship? Keep one hand to yourself, your money stays in your mane and only your name, first and you take care of your needs first and foremost. The other hand is to give her what she needs to be steered (attracted) to you.

She tries to demand the second hand, she wants even mere access to the money, or to soak up the time that you need, she gets dropped fast.

I am sure that even in places like Thailand a man can create a corporation of some sort and have that corporation own his assets, like a farm. As others have said, it isn't that it's a bad idea, it's that losing control is the awful idea.

Isn't there that stereotype of Thai women being extremely controlling in LTRs?

If your going to marry a hooker, your going to have a bad time.

Blackadder: "Where as he's going to give you the Victoria Cross when he lifts up your frock on the wedding night, and finds himself looking at the last turkey in the shop."

This is what happens when a guy thinks he can side step the game, he thinks he can throw money at his problems as some sort of anti-strategy. These guys are lazy cowards deep down and should spend more time around here instead of whacking off to the latest depravity.

I usually advocate calling these guys out on their internal weakness so they can fix it but you know what would happen if this guy was banging some bluehaired porpoise and you called him on it? He would call you a misogynist and passive aggressively try to ruin your life. Pay attention to this lesson fellas: if you let some woman define your reality you will soon find out how petty they are.

Alas, All Women Are Like That.

Here is another one of these sad sack stories.

Found this description of the Thai Bride doc:

My Thai Bride by David Tucker Showreal Productions | 55' | Australia | 2011 | HD |

Ted is a 46 year-old salesman from Wales. He is divorced, feels marginalised by middle age and is tired of life in the ‘nanny state’.Ted is a frequent visitor to Thailand as a result of his job in an import business. He revels in the freedom he finds in a country where everything is for sale at the right price; including the beautiful young women who want to be with him.

Ted meets Tip who is working in the Rooster Bar. She is in her mid thirties, from the northeastern Issan region, the poorest part of Thailand. Like many Issan women, Tip is uneducated and could never earn enough to own her house or educate her child. She hates the thought of her daughter growing up to be involved in prostitution. When she meets Ted, she thinks she has finally found a foreigner who will take care of her and her daughter.Ted returns to the UK, but stays in contact with Tip by telephone. He sends her money so she can give up her bar job and return to her family’s farm in her village, Krasang.

After a few months, at Tip’s request, Ted returns to Thailand and marries her. Ted liquidates his assets in Wales and sinks his money into building a house and piggery on Tip’s family farm. He soon discovers there are many other foreign men who have married and settled in northeast Thailand. For many Issan women, marriage to a foreigner provides a way out of debt and a lifetime of difficult work. In northeast Thailand, marriage to a foreigner has become an industry.

John, an Australian, says that there are about 90 foreigners living within a five-kilometre radius and that new foreigners arrive every week. Larry, an American, built his wife a large, luxurious house in Krasang. Larry believes she does love him, even though she tells him she doesn’t. Grant’s wife Pon says that when she took Grant home to Krasang, her friends and relatives all came over to her house to see the foreigner, because they couldn’t believe she got one.

Within 12 months, Ted’s hopes for a better life have been dashed. His money has disappeared much faster than he expected. Tip and her family don’t seem to want him around the farm anymore. When Ted asks Tip if she loves him, she says: “I can’t eat or drink your love.” Ted leaves the farm destitute and wonders whether it had been a con all along.

Ted rents a room in a nearby town. After surviving on credit for several months, Ted begs Tip to give him some of his money back. But she is only willing to buy him a one-way ticket back to the UK.Economically, Ted and Tip have traded places and Ted has learned what his Thai wife already knew: without money, you lose everything.

My Thai Bride is about the power of money to save and destroy – and the harm that ensues when people are reduced to commodities. While there have been other films about prostitution in Thailand, My Thai Bride explores the lesser known story of the foreign marriage industry and the consequences for the men and women invol

I have a co-worker that is shacked up with a girl from the Philippines. I've never been there but I know, based on culture, that these women are very submissive. However, like any woman, they will fill in the gap left by the man.

Often times I'll catch her giving him the stink-eye when he speaks up. She even flown in her child which I doubt he knew about in their initial courtship.

I was trying to get them to take over my lease at one point and walked in on a conversation they were having; she was convincing him they needed the place and he "needs to be a man" and get it for her their family.

Poor soul.

Lessons learned: Third world girls Gold diggers aren't the answer.

FTFY.

It doesn't matter where she's from. As far as I am concerned, most Thai women who latch onto westerners are gold diggers. Hookers certainly are gold diggers, and they're probably very good at twisting men around their finger. And Thai hookers should be supreme gold diggers.

Thai whores are great. They have given me hope, goals, motivation, abundance mentality, and have made me much more relaxed and confident around women.

When you can get sex whenever you want, when you can find a new girlfriend in less than a week, why would you want to get married? Marriage is a trap.

I was watching this when I opened the OP

I've seen it happen more than once: bluepilled idiot goes in a third word shithole, marries a local, she comes with him, after six months and one day of sexless "marriage" she divorces him, takes half of his money and half of his house and goes back to Elbonia with her husband and her six kids. Idiots gonna idiot.

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replace hooker with woman and it still is the same lol

This happens to thousands of guys in Thailand, So much so that it's a sterotype. I'm glad I lived there as a teen so I could learn the hard lessons early. Honour culture + poverty expose women for who they really are

Women are good at seeming like great marriage candidates before they are married.

What a loser. How pathetic and naive can someone be?

At the end of the day it probably wouldn't make a difference to him if the whore turned out to be a former he.

I pride myself in being able to read people quite accurately. Over the years and being an introvert, I've watched strangers, friends, family. I've studied a bit of psychology, religion, philosophy. Setting up and running a couple of my own businesses has been very challenging but taught me so much about people. Dealing with partners, suppliers, clients. I would like to think I'm reading A correctly.

I bet the poor bastard has been scammed and used by everyone around him his whole life and all along he thinks he's been getting the winning deal.

But lets be real here: this is just a troll.

My ex worked in a small office for one of the larger foreign woman introduction agencies, however this was South American and not asia (although they have agencies in several major asian countries also).

In my experience, part of the basis of the anti-male, anti-foreign bride hate in which people call men who go abroad "losers who couldn't get a real woman back home" does have some basis in reality.

The men I saw often when abroad and with foreign women were much more beta, older (or young and skinny nerdy guys), unattractive, and so on (basically very low SMV, naive men). They tended to get with low SMV women also or were far more susceptible to matching with women who had a darker side that those of us here could sniff out more easily.

If you look at advertisement videos for some foreign introduction agencies (like A Foreign Affair) you can see precisely the type of men I'm referring to.

Not for the naive!! If you are weak and passive and have NO red pill knowledge, you have a target on your back. They will hook a sucker quite easily with sex and attention more so than what he would receive back home.

It was always somewhat depressing to see a man, although not well put together or "handsome", get with post-wall 6/10 women when far better, hotter, younger women are available for a man who has confidence and won't go for the first easy pussy that comes to him.

Thank you, this definitely helps kill the "you have to find a woman abroad" hamster.

There are no words. Facepalming so hard I'm giving myself a new haircut.

Anyone thinking about a Thai bride should read the pdf in the following link: http://pattayanewbie.com/files/private-dancer.pdf

It is a great story and it is worth reading the book for lessons about life and women.

Having lived for several years in Thailand myself... these stories are a dime a dozen. There were so many stories of European and American men getting burned by Thai hookers, with just small variations to each individual story. Long term expats stop listening and telling these stories because they are all. the. same.

If you wouldn't fuck/date/marry a hooker in your own country, you shouldn't go do it in another country. Guys come over from everywhere and they lose their inhibitions. They think they have escaped from consequences (the same thing that happens to women when they travel) so they try things they never would back home. Hard drugs or sex with ladyboys (transsexuals).

As you can expect, Blue Pill minded men never listen. Every time they turn to the internet to tell their tale of TWU WUV a chorus of experienced men tell them to heed their warning and like moths to the flame they do what they had in mind anyway. Men have been ruined by these women, I'm talking millions of dollars and men going to prison for life for crimes their Thai wives framed them for--and everything else on the spectrum. Blue Pillers can't be helped, can't be stopped. They can only hope fate is kind to them.

It's not that, I feel like we have the desire to change people to fit our mold. At least a prostitute whores for cash not due to some perverted warped sense of hitting a goal before marriage as seem to be the case of non prostitutes. As example justifying behavior as I'll have sex with this many guys before marriage, etc.

A buddy of mine was addicted to strip clubs. We'd go there almost nightly and he'd always spend 100 on lap dances. This one stripper liked hanging out and talking to me and would offer me free lap dances. I had a crush on her. It's natural for you to crush on attractive women but truth is you have to decide if she'll be worth it for your struggle, she wouldn't be for me so nothing happened. But I was excited to see her the same

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Ooof, he's going down hard. Sigh...100,000 years of evolution wins every time.

It's the same for Ukranian women, I am not understanding this subreddit's unicorn-chasing in Eastern Europe.

What happens to guys who don't: https://vimeo.com/ondemand/mythaibride

Those women aren't even good looking

I'll still defend that dating and fucking women overseas is easier, cheaper(assuming you live there) and overall more fun, but no matter where you, getting married is playing Russian Roulette.

How deprived of affection this men are, that at the first act of kindness (even if is bought) they receive they fall in love with a THAI HOKER.

mfw https://youtu.be/xAIF1dUcKKk

the fuck did he expect for marrying a prostitute lol.

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Yeah, but I'm sure there's no experience second to being alpha with a non-western girlfriend. Being the man, and dating a girl who's very open about wanting to date someone who behaves like a real man, is a winning combination.

Under the spreading chestnut tree
I sold you and you sold me
There lie they, and here lie we
Under the spreading chestnut tree

There was a similar article I read about desperate guys flying to Ukraine to find a bride, whom they talked to online. The women in the article mentioned that they do it to support their family, and they blow much of the men off when they get there after siphoning so much money.

No. Thanks.

Indian girls are faithful and loyal. They love their spouse no matter what.