“Women finally desire me after all this time, and I’ve had regular satisfying sex at last. But I’m not happy. What do I do now? What’s the point of all this?”
There’s been an ongoing but steadily increasing tempo in this vein among the average RP’er. Naturally this comes as no surprise given that TRP has been around for several years and many are well past the introductory areas of their learning. And while there is a lot of variety among the populace here you’ll soon see there are still universals to be drawn about RP endgame.
What makes a man happy? Is it women? Sex? Money? Freedom? In their absence their sudden acquisition brings about happiness, but the feeling is fleeting. A virgin has trouble understanding how someone could get bored fucking their girlfriend, a man in a long-lasting relationship wonders how someone could get bored fucking a new girl every week, and the man fucking sluts weekly wonders how anyone wouldn’t want to be in an enduring, loving long-term relationship. The fantasy in one’s head is always greater than the actualized reality.
What’s the true path for an aspiring Alpha already on his way?
You might be inclined to say “Anything he feels like”, but that’s far too simple and more importantly, unhelpful. The real answer is “Anything that positions him to actualize any future goals”. Goals that cannot, by necessity, include women. In short, power.
Every man should have a mission. And I don’t mean the lifting, the approaching, the bedding of women; these things you should be doing already. Every man needs a goal to aspire to to keep him on an ever improving path. This is standard knowledge here. What one needs to consider is that some actions lend themselves better towards future goal acquisition than others. And none are more effective than the combined elements of power: Money, fame and influence.
The most easily achieved of all these things is money, and it’s arguably the most important. Money begets money, and so has a non-linear growth so long as it’s continually re-invested. And most important of all, it makes your mission that much easier to accomplish.
Consider the case of the RP man who is tired of fucking vapid, empty-minded sluts. What’s his endgame? Maybe he wants a family, with lots of children. Of course, he’s smart enough to recognize that getting married is fucking stupid, so he’s at a dead end. With enough money, that’s less of a concern. You can afford to raise children as a single-father with the aid of nannies. If in an LTR, you can afford to jump state lines to somewhere more friendly towards men, namely a state without cohabitation laws. Or even to another country altogether. You can even afford to pay for an expensive wedding just to get her to comply – so long as she agrees that you won’t be signing any papers. And in the worst case scenario you have access to high-priced lawyers to get you out of a bind. You need money in this life.
The rest is up to you. Maybe you want to help a subsection of humanity with the time you have on earth. Maybe you want to see the capital of every country. Maybe you want to fundamentally change how the world works. Or maybe you just want to disappear and do fingerpainting. And when one goal is actualized you move onto the next. With the right amount of power any and all of these things become actual options rather than dreams in your head, which starts you on the path to real happiness. Start planning how you will develop this wealth, how you will train yourself to be disciplined with money, and how you will see frivolous spending of money as giving up your very real power, if you want to see yourself with a prospective future.
Every man must have a mission, but before he can see it through he needs to gather the right tools.

OptiLaSeR 10y ago
Whats the end game for a women ?
Enlighten me senpai .
Cyralea 10y ago
Now that's a good question.
Female happiness comes from actualization as well, but not in the same way that it does for men. Men derive satisfaction from building things, but it's not the same for women. For women, happiness comes from validation, attention, security, respect and having children.
A proper endgame for a woman requires her to position herself to be the most desirable prospect in the eyes of a cohort. The best bait, if you will. That cohort could be just a small social circle or the entire world. Differs between women, what what matters is that she is the most desirable, or most admirable. It's why princess fantasies are common.
To realistically do this, she needs to become a highly public figure (actress, model, famous youtuber, etc), or inherit that value from a man. The latter is far easier. She needs the association of a high-value man to feel completeness in her life, as she needs his provision, security and genetic material. Finding a man who offers all three, while also giving her the status needed for her to achieve her personal worth is her endgame. She needs to become so desirable as a woman that she gets a top-alpha to commit to her. Her intermediary game, her tool, is to develop the pieces of attraction that best draws in such men. Feminine charm, beauty, submissiveness, etc.
And she has to do all that before she is 30 or so. In some ways, it's much easier being a man.
OptiLaSeR 10y ago
Before reading the last line , I was about to say the same .
Much thanks for this .
Since their value is determined by the genetic lottery , unlike men , they do not have the tools to reach this end game if they are born ugly.
Men should be thankful that nature has provided all the tools to them to reach their end game unlike their sexual counterpart who are totally at the mercy of it .
JackGetsIt 10y ago
Sure, but to be fair I'd say most women aren't born ugly; ie there are far more 4-7's then 1-4's. Women in America also just need to cut some weight to increase attractiveness considerably and most can't even manage that. Men on the other hand nearly universally must earn their keep. Even a son given a family fortune has to go through school and gain enough knowledge and social connection to keep and grow the fortune.
jamesredrabbit 10y ago
End game would probably be at the top of Maslow's hierarchy of needs
https://figures.boundless.com/29841/large/Maslow's_hierarchy_of_needs.png
Once, money, sex, safety is assured, we start to seek higher goals and attainables which are most of the time are intangible.
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I would argue that the best end game of all is to be constantly pushing towards further goals. In other words, there is no end game, only constant improvement which is defined by your desires. The vast majority of the most influential and successful men on earth spent their last days pursuing yet another goal, acting as though their end was lifetimes away.
Personally, I am happiest in the pursuit and accomplishment of a goal, not in enjoying the "fruits of my labor." That type of enjoyment happens naturally along the way as you push forward. It is an afterthought, and successful men understand this, which is why so few billionaires sell out and retire.
Instead of looking at end game, look at a series of goals that when accomplished will give you further ability to accomplish more goals. Your first goal is freedom, and money is essentially the currency of freedom. Money gives you the ability to pursue what you want without being dependent on others. Then you look to having influence. Influence gives you the ability to shape the world around you. Finally, you aim for satisfaction. How you use that influence to accomplish your goals will determine whether or not you feel satisfied. Many men have fallen into money and influence only to die depressed and alone. Why? Because ultimately they were not satisfied with what they accomplished.
Ultimately you're not trying to get a place, you're trying to get on a path. Once you've achieved monetary freedom and sizable influence you're on an exponential progression. Being on that path is the "end game," but when you're on it you'll only focus on pushing yourself further.
zezozio 10y ago
I'm at this point, and it's not the feelings I expected.
Good money, great achievements, freedom: check. Fucking (more) sluts? bleaah. Good plates, good shape, good food, good car, good vacations, good money.
So... what's next? I'm content with what I have and how I live materialistically, but it's empty. Been there, done that. I see through the vapidity/futility of a great amount of people and things.
So... what's next?
When you (finally) arrived to the goals you created, how do you define next step? That's my hurdle right there.
Cyralea 10y ago
Do you make good money, or great money? Because I guarantee you new doors open up once you make enough.
Do you make enough to invest in investment vehicles that earn you passive income? If so, consider shifting completely to that model. Free up your time.
What makes you passionate? Do you care about your neighbourhood and social climate? Consider stepping into politics.
Do you want recognition and admiration? Start building something. Something grand, something challenging. Something you can showcase as your opus magnum in life.
Or if none of that interests you, try looking into smaller things. Get good at sports, get involved involved in small community building, anything that sparks your interest.
There is a minimum threshold of income you need to be making to make this feasible, so if you're not there then that is your first goal. It's the crux of my message.
zezozio 10y ago
Great money. I have enough for the next 25-30 years. I'm working towards freeing up my time totally, but already have a lot of it (20h+/week). Income related issues are a thing of the past.
Don't care a dime for recognition and admiration, for politics or community (they're beyond help, most people really don't want to know, just confirming their own views of the world).
I might walk to St James of Compostella again. Or go back to learning a new musical instrument. But that doesn't really feed my fire. I'll probably have another year or 2 to put the last finishing touch on my current project just to get it out of my head and add yet another layer of money I won't know what to do with, but, frankly, it bores me more than it excites me.
I wanted family+house+projects with ex (yep, onitised, and yep, AWALT) and have trouble finding exciting ground since this got sunk. Looking at MGTOW with puzzlement and a little bit of envy : I am looking for the spring to make every day a worthy adventure.
Cyralea 10y ago
Sounds like you just need inspiration then. Oftentimes the things you really want to do are things you didn't realize were things at all. Like scuba diving missions to WW2 wreckages.
May be worth your while to just try something new just for the sake of it and see where it goes. Especially if it's somewhere that leads you to new people who might help you arrive at your inspiration.
zezozio 10y ago
Thanks. I remember the movie "Yes Man" with Jim Carrey with a great deal of affection.
The week after having seen that movie, I bought a used car I was just looking at because the owner asked me if I wanted to buy it. Lots of problems, but now great memory and laughters.
[deleted] 10y ago
An excellent post. I am surprised people have not jumped in and said "you are advocating beta bux" which is what has happened every time someone puts in a post about money. Making money is harder and more satisfying than banging sloots. (Of course making money just helps with the latter).
Life is infinitely complex, risky and rewarding. It is worth living a life well. Do whatever you want in this life, unless it is illegal, noone cares if you try and noone is going to stop you. Get out there and do it guys.
fitnesstested 10y ago
Our distinguished elder statesmen /u/Rollo-Tomassi made one of my favorite posts about a similar concept years ago.
"Here’s a secret – there’s no such thing as contentment.
Being content implies that life is static; it’s not, and to be honest, how boring would that be anyway? Life consists of varying states of discontent: why else would you bother doing anything? But the good news is that it’s more fun and more beneficial to manage discontent than to endure contentment (which you can’t anyway since it’s transitory at best) [...]"
http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/31/perfecting-the-fantasy/
lemming1607 10y ago
The importance of the endgame is building. Why do you enjoy playing video games? Why do so many people belittle it is as a time waster?
With video games and any hobby, it feeds the biological desire to BUILD. To improve, to master, to get better, and to accomplish. This is what separates you as a man from a woman. You have an internal drive to accomplish and improve.
Society tells us that the accomplished man gets women, gets the money, and gets the fame. Whether or not this is moral, it doesn't matter, because that's the world we live in.
So if you want to be happy, you have to drive every day. Pound every day. Take one step closer to being the man you want to be.
Stop worrying about what others are doing, and just focus on yourself. You are the only person that will ultimately affect your happiness
NeoreactionSafe 10y ago
Here's a goal:
Let's destroy the Blue Pill mythology.
...a lifetime of destruction for the benefit of mankind.
OptiLaSeR 10y ago
A hard one to achieve , but somethings not fun when you dont have to work for it .
Requires a lot of mass media , indoctrination and societal changes , lol .
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oldslut 10y ago
good post. many of us arrive here after a string of success with women, and wonder, what is next...
EntitledShitHead 10y ago
This is true in a lot of areas of life. We always think that when we get there we'll have a gran moment and life will pause, but in reality fireworks don't go off and were not 100% happy. We have to learn to love the process and when we get there reflect on our success being a result of hard work and just be satisfied.
That's the key to happiness right there.
OptiLaSeR 10y ago
Rightly stated .
Happiness is something which one cannot pursue , its more like a certificate given to us at birth .
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ERbvKrH-GC4
The fun is in the journey , the journey starts because of the destination . Knowing that the destination won't be as good as the journey is the actual key to fulfillment . So , if you reach there , congratulate yourself , be a little nostalgic , and if you don't have the energy for a new one , just die in peace or die during the new journey which you can start .
LosingMoneyAllDay 10y ago
Financial independance is key. You can buy anything that makes you happy with money.
blacwidonsfw 10y ago
You can buy service but you can't buy respect. Not in the true sense of respect anyways (loyalty). For example, someone will leave you if they get paid more. If they respect you they are willing to take less and continue working for you and your goals.