TL;DR- A quick word on the importance of frame, ending with a few more examples.
"Women Want A Rock, Not An Equal"
A woman inherently wants to be dependent on a man, not the other way around.
She wants to feel as though he's her "unwavering rock" should problems in her life arise. It's a survivalist trait past down from our ancestors.
"That said, when a man exposes his flaws, faults and weaknesses or when he shows a high level of emotional dependence on the woman's thoughts and feelings, he is seen moreso as just another human being rather than as a rock."
And while she may respect him for his humanitarian ways, this does not fundamentally garner her attraction, let alone her arousal.
Women are turned on by rocks and stones, not mush and goop, although Hollywood would have you believe otherwise.
A rock is the perfect version of stoic. A rock is non-judgmental, independent, strong, self-sufficient and doesn't mind when someone leaves (as another will soon arrive).
A few more RP examples:
"Your hair is disappointing." (Candy from "...And Candy Cheats Again")
"...I found you on Tinder accidentally." (Tinderina from "...You Are Not My Type")
"Are you saying you're open to an orgy?" (Diva from "Poker with Black Widows")
"Under what pretenses?" (Candy from "...And Candy Cheats Again")
BONUS: "...are you one of those neeedy betas?"
[EDIT] I've gone through some of the pictures (the ones i didnt conpletely black out) and added some identification to confirm these messages came from multiple plates.
[EDIT 2] Plates younger than me refer to me as "sir". All plates bring food when coming over. All plates know from the start that I have other plates. That's how I choose to maintain my relationship with plates. I know it's not for everyone.

dyllos 10y ago
I always thought the shirtless selfie thing was frowned upon? Guess it depends?
Stonish 10y ago
All I got out from this is that you didn't do shit, they just came to you. So lesson for everyone here - either you're attractive and or you're not. Attraction is a key. Rise your SMV.
Originalstwp 10y ago
Dude why are you asking girls call you sir? We all know sme girls are retarded but i feel like many high value girls would just think youre autistic. Obviously some women go for it but still its bizzare.
mintegral 10y ago
The dominance thing is very inspiring! How often does it happen that they don't comply to your demands or proposition of calling you Sir?
What do you do if they stop treating you like you want? You are very dominant, so I think there is not much room to "step up" your game and be much more alpha. I guess you probably have to let them go if they stop acting like you want. Or do you have other tools to make them comply again?
This one is very personal, but you probably have to fuck them really good? Do you have any advice?
Thank you OmLaLa for all your great posts!
mrmeyhemn 10y ago
If all above=true what good are women without reproductive value. Oh, right. Human-reproductive value=0
[deleted] 10y ago
What's the effect on that picture?
Exactly what I tell people, but it's not just women, everyone except quality male friends just want to see your strengths. So hide those weaknesses until you're alone with a friend, don't worry I'm here for you bros if you need it.
OmLaLa 10y ago
Just a simple contrast increase.
No one cares or even notices weak men. It's those who show strength even in troubling times are the ones who effortlessly gain the support of others. People always need someone to turn to.
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Damn, looking shredded as fuark mate.
billythebeta 10y ago
I slightly disagree. Yes, tenacity in the face of a shitty situation is a hallmark of someone who is strong, but humans are imperfect-- we all have our moments of weakness.
I had a close family member pass away a few years ago, and it was during that time of severe depression that I winnowed out the shitty friends from the ones that mattered-- sadly one of whom I knew for a very long time.
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EnragedParrot 10y ago
"Special Circumstances"
Loss of a loved one gives you some leeway to be "weak" and show emotion/lean on others A LITTLE.
Soarinc 10y ago
To make sure I understand correctly -- you're saying that you realized that one of your very-long-time friends was in the category of "doesn't matter" right?
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OmLaLa 10y ago
You might think it's over thinking things, but in working on the next Guide to Online Dating, I've been testing some ways in which to keep the conversation sexual from the start.
I've tried several variations of several of my pictures and I've found that pictures of just the torso typically start and keep the conversation sexual (after a span of time "baking", when returning to the conversation, the LSSW checks the profile to recall who you are and because your first picture is blatantly reptilian, the conversation typically remains reptilian).
So, I'll either have pictures of just body, just head-region or "landscape pictures" (me in foreign places).
antariusz 10y ago
Straight from the horses mouth. My girlfriend tells me about a week after we fucked on the first date.
"I like you, but your shirtless selfie photo makes you look like a douchebag."
Translated: I'm turned on by your blatant sexuality, but it makes me insecure that other women get to see you that way too.
2 months later, I got a new chest/shoulder tattoo/half sleeve. Changed my profile picture on facebook to show it off.
"God, why do you always look so sad in your photos, I just want to make you happy, all women want their men to be happy, oh and your new tattoo is also hot.
Translated: Why am I unable to manipulate your emotions (it turns me on that you resist it unlike other men that are led around by their women), also, thank you for making my friends jealous.
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billythebeta 10y ago
That's actually a pretty smart strategy, never thought of this before
SW9876 10y ago
Can you post the rest of your pictures?
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monsieurhire2 10y ago
Why do all these women keep calling you sir? I'm guessing you're making them do it as a dominance thing.
BTW, I kept thinking they were Nigerian scammers because of it, as in "Please, sir . . . I have $6,000,000.00 that I need to transfer somewhere, can I have your account info please? I'll pay you 10%."
OmLaLa 10y ago
It's just how I choose to maintain my relationship with plates.
I enjoy the complete submission of frame from women (especially from otherwise dominant women, call it a lust of power), so I've tailored my conditioning methods to eventually get them to this point.
Trpidation 10y ago
Would you mind going into more detail on how you do this? It fascinates me, and I'd love to try it out.
If I understand correctly, you establish the "sir" stuff in person. Have you fucked them at that point? My initial thought is that it'd be easier to get them to submit like this after a dominating fuck (or perhaps during).
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There's only one woman. He's just humblebragging his subby relationship.
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Thing about this, I was humblebragging a little in an informal casual situation and it made people mad in real life. I'm just happy about life and wanted to share a little of it with a few guys how I'm rolling around some tits I like. I'm not bragging out of spite, I was simply just happy. OmLaLa is probably happy about his subby and is actually putting himself slightly at risk here showing those texts for our benefit showing what is possible with right pics and attitude. It's not so he can make us feel worse, it's so we can learn.
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I didn't say it was a bad thing, it just seemed like the person I was responding to was under the mistaken impression that OP was spinning dozens of identical plates who all "sir" him, when I don't think that was OPs intent
OmLaLa 10y ago
I didn't think the authenticity of a multitude plates' behaviour would become such a concern. So, to better clarify, I've gone back through the pictures (the ones i didnt conpletely black out) and added an identificator to confirm these messages came from multiple plates.
All plates younger than me call me sir, bring me food and know about the other plates. Sure it's subby, but that's just how I operate my relationship with my plates.
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What's funny, I used to avoid all that BDSM/sub-dom stuff completely. But the more I think about the mentality behind it through a red pill lens the more I realize how well that would work, especially for the man. Women deep down actually crave it, the kink parts masks it as a sexual fetish so their hamster doesn't spin the wrong way over the issue, and the guy has a woman that tries to please him. Sounds win-win to me, bud :)
NSmaf 10y ago
It seems some of them were even calling you 'sir' before even the first meetup. Is that something you establish in texting/phone calls or am I just reading it wrong?
OmLaLa 10y ago
No, I pre-establish it when I meet them. Only but so much can be asserted pre-meetup.
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That's the biggest thing I've taken away from you're advice which I struggle with is that I talk far too much. So I inherently say more than necessary and spoil the mystery with these girls. I've had to actively tell myself that before I press send on a text, to see first if I can shorten what I said anymore. More succinct. Less is more.
I still need to figure out how to get those pesky notifications off my android. I've had to take the POF, Tinder, OKC, etc. apps off the front page of my phone so I'm not always looking at them whenever I pull up my phone.
How many dating apps are you running at once? Do you do the upgraded versions of them? Thanks! Great advice.
TRPMaidenSlayer 10y ago
Frame it in your mind differently then. You're a verbose storyteller - which could be fine.
But... deliver the story slowly. One quick quip should lead to the next, but she's gotta bite on it to get her reward. You dump her a wall of text and she'll be like Wat?
Make her desire more. It's not a race. If you're doing good, she'll try to get more out of you
Settings --> Apps --> find your app, select it, and then uncheck its notifications. Every time I update Instagram that fucker turns notifications back on.
GIGANTIC_NIGGER_DICK 10y ago
Instagram tip: go turn it off all the notifications in the actual setting inside of the app. If you do that once, you'll never have to do if again. Even if you update the app, log out then back in, or even get a whole new phone. It's really good at remembering those settings.
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Thanks for the tips. Good stuff. Yeah, I like to tell stories. Vivid imagination. But I need to give it to them in doses, not just blow my load all at once.
OmLaLa 10y ago
I run POF, Tinder, Bumble, OKC and Badoo/HoN. PoF has the highest quality returns by far (in MY area). I only check them once every 2-3 days (I have enough plates right now) and I still stick pretty true to my last guide.
That said, I will be making a new one soon to provide more details. That, or I'll be doing multiple smaller separate posts detailing out specific things like bios or texting or pictures or specific approach for specific sites. I haven't decided. The latter would be much easier.
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In case anyone doesn't know. You can add your phone apps to your computer. Makes it easier for some apps to navigate. Just download a program called bluestacks or something similar. I got banned from OKC from my computer and phone (I don't know how). I know I trolled too many girls one night. Well, I found out how to use the "phone app" on my laptop, so I can create an account via that loophole. Works with most phone apps, like instagram. Sometimes you got pics on your cpu that you want on there too. Just an fyi.
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I wish I could get on that Bumble. I like their setup having them choose. But it's a no go for Android. Do you recommend investing in the upgraded versions of any of those sites?
Edit: Also. If you could rank the rest of them, in what order would you go? I seem to have the most luck with OKC. Plus POF won't let you message anyone 10 years or more younger. So as a 33 year old, I gotta change my age to 27 or thereabouts to get that 18 year old putang. But then I gotta change it on all the sites so there's no discrepancies. e.g. I see the same girls on multiple sites all the time. WTF wants someone in a woman if you're >25. Although, them older women (33-40) are quite thirsty and will often be a-okay with dating younger; albeit at the cost of some serious baggage.
OmLaLa 10y ago
I'll make a separate post ranking each dating sites' interface (as some sites are more prevalent in one place over another).
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OmLaLa 10y ago
Huh? I have Bumble on Android.
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Disregard my comment then. I don't know why I didn't see it on my app store. Haha. I'll get it now then. Thanks again!
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Ahhhhh. Disregard then. I don't know why I thought otherwise.
Can you do a skype chat with me? I want to get your thoughts on my POF & tinder pics / profile. The bio reads "Secretly a superhero, shhh". That's it. Nothing else. I got it from someone else here. I've seem to of gotten a lot of responses from just that. They ask me what my superpower is too. And that's a great shit-test to take advantage of. But I have some pics with some girls and I would like your opinion on their non-verbal cues and what you would think women would think when they see the pics. I over-analyze everything and continually self-doubt my own intuition, so getting your thoughts would help immensely. Let me know. It would be greatly appreciated. Regardless, your posts on here are invaluable. I hope that once I get my shit together, I can help others too like you do.
aDrunkenWhaler 10y ago
It's only available in the US. You can't find it in the app store otherwise, so maybe that's the problem.
EnragedParrot 10y ago
Sideload it!
Get someone with an Android Phone in the US to send you the APK.
bittr_n_swt 10y ago
i'm in the UK and i have bumble on my android
aDrunkenWhaler 10y ago
Oh, ok. I've googled it and it seems there are a few other countries besides the US.
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I like how you don't say a lot.
Luckyluke23 10y ago
kid gets to the point. i like that
billythebeta 10y ago
I think that we absorb information better when it is concise. Many people have well-constructed thoughts in their head but they are unable to not write six volumes about the subject, which in the process culls the number of readers who get through it.
OmLaLa 10y ago
"Making things complicated is easy. Making things simple is the real challenge. " (-Albert Einstein, I think).
fuck_da_haes 10y ago
"When a young man, I read somewhere the following: God the Almighty said, 'All that is too complex is unnecessary, and it is simple that is needed' ... So this has been my lifetime motto – I have been creating weapons to defend the borders of my fatherland, to be simple and reliable."
Boovs4life 10y ago
"If you can't explain it simply, you don't understand it well enough." - Albert Einstein
considerthis215 10y ago
"People will believe anything written on the Internet"
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2comment 10y ago
Sometimes the teacher is so obsessed and excited with a subject, they want to communicate every angle and implication to the student. The shitty students won't listen anyway and the good ones will mostly figure the small stuff out for themselves.
billythebeta 10y ago
This is a big no-no in any form of teaching. You explain every small detail, without pretense, so that no student who is paying attention is left in the dark. The second you start leaving gaps constantly in your teaching, you lose some diligent students.
Elodrian 10y ago
University math courses are the best!
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huge_gap 10y ago
It's funny. After reading this post it made me realize all the times women have confided in me that I make them feel so relaxed and centered. Guess I provide that "rock" for them.
IronMeltsinmyHands 10y ago
I like how you don't move from your stance. I also like the fact that you're black. Cuuuuz you sound like a friend of mine
Tall_Irish_Guy 10y ago
I just found that extremely awkward to be honest.
babayega 10y ago
I think it was the whole "sir" thing.
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whitepois0n 10y ago
These girls don't do this out of the gate. He explained in another post he makes these girls use all the lingo seen here. Truly a demonstration of control,
Rayjaysdick 10y ago
Yea she was straight retarded
Auphor_Phaksache 10y ago
You like that don't you, you fucking retard?
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antariusz 10y ago
I tried to explain this on the purple pill sub a few weeks ago.
The "ideal" man doesn't have any problems, he has solutions to any problems his life may face. The more well-rounded you are, the less stress there is in your life, because while everyone has problems, the "better" you are as a man, the more you are able to adapt to them and not let it bother you.
If you're a billionaire, you don't worry about having to work to provide, you do it for fun. If you're well into 6 figures, you have slightly more worry, you want a nice life, but you don't stress out for things like unexpected car repairs. If you're making a median wage, little difficulties in life begin to add up, you have to make compromises, maybe between a small house, or a house in a nicer neighborhood for your kids to attend a better school.
If you're charming and good looking, you can go to parties and your woman gets to show you off, and be proud of your social abilities. If you're less charming, you can go there and you won't be an embarrassment, but she won't be as thrilled to show you off to her friends. If you're ugly and have no social skills, then she would not want to be seen with you in public.
Women are attracted to a man that does not have any problems. So you can either not have any problems, or at least ACT like you don't. A woman that you're interested in fucking doesn't need to know that you ate ramen noodles all last week, because your transmission blew and you didn't have much saved up. It's just triggering her hypergamous impulse to search for a better man that doesn't have those same problems.
antariusz 10y ago
Thanks for the motivation to work harder on improving my SMV.
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ificandoityoucant 10y ago
The profile picture doesn't correspond to someone who plays league.
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OmLaLa 10y ago
It's "Boxing League of ____."
Bung_Eye 10y ago
I feel like women want a rock, but want to be viewed as equal within the relationship and also those outside it, even though it can't work like that.
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Elfclan30 10y ago
League of legends? haha. Now, I have a question on the bonus. Why did you just say no, you could have AA(or Disagreed and Amplify), why a simple and apparently boring ¨no¨worked? is it because she percieves your SVM as high and thats enough?
OmLaLa 10y ago
It's "Boxing League of_____."
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OmLaLa 10y ago
Blunt and succinct fits well with how I portray myself and I ultimately am. A&A doesn't.
I have some additional pictures in suits and dress up attire, so a certain level of poise is to be expected from me. Plus, I feel as though A&A is a tad bit overused by RPers already. There are other methods of shit test busting out there.
If you're a guy with snarky-esque personality, fine. But I've got a very deep voice, move slowly, I'm "wider"/taller than most and dress up more oft than not. If I used A&A, plates and LSSW would take me too seriously (trust me, I've tried).
I think your appearance and personality have to merit using A&A all the time.
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ckp2906 10y ago
Why would AA make them take you too serious? Being indifferent and " deep voice, moving slowly " etc, seems to make you appear more /care or careless.
SarsaparillaCorona 10y ago
It isn't about them taking him too seriously in general, they would litterally believe his amplification as fact instead of seeing through it as a joke, because he doesn't ever joke.
JollyO 10y ago
Suddenly I am fully aware of why people have such a hard time telling if what I'm saying is a joke or not.
SarsaparillaCorona 10y ago
Yeah, I've got the same problem, I've solved it by being so ludicrous that no one would ever believe it, but there have still been times where I have to clarify "Wait, so you actually think me, a 18 year old in Australia, met bill clinton by handing him toilet paper under the stall?"
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Out of interest, how old are you?
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Where the fuck do you live to get bitches that thirsty?
OmLaLa 10y ago
AWALT. Women are like this everywhere.
The only difference is that these women are my plates, who've been conditioned to address and approach me from a completely submissive frame. Some of which can be real bitches elsewhere (Like Diva).
A woman is simply what the man allows her to be. If you allow her to step out of line, she will.
[deleted] 10y ago
I just don't get enough matches in my area. Maybe because i can get away with 17 despite being 21.
Time to lift i guess?
Fedora_Tipper_ 10y ago
24 year old here that looks like 16/17. Yea I lift but the struggle is real for online. So day game should be focused on instead
[deleted] 10y ago
Plus i just feel like i feed the ego stroking machine, i should just uninstall it for the moment, and wait for my second puberty do it's job.
causeandcorrelation 10y ago
Every day, if you don't want to be a mother fucker
[deleted] 10y ago
I am, but i also have a health issue that limits my gains a lot.
Apart from that it might be my face or my openers.
chaseemall 10y ago
What's your body language like on your pictures?
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Wanna take a look, i probably can post a few. Usually flirty or focused.
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WolfeBane84 10y ago
What is with all this Sir shit?
Like, what the hell? She has MAJOR daddy issues or something that or it's some sort of S&M thing...
Sir_Distic 10y ago
Daddy issues and BDSM have nothing to do with each other. And could you define "Daddy issues"? I know the definition, I just want to know yours.
All my plates call me Sir. But then again I'm a pervert. And proud of it. (fyi: a good way to pass the "you're a pervert" shit test is A&A: "And proud of it!")
agrafes 10y ago
You don't know what you're talking about. I speak to my plates in this manner as well, expect sir in return, and punish misbehavior.
All women have daddy issues. It's a matter of degree.
huge_gap 10y ago
One of my plates starting calling me sir of her own volition and out of the blue. Hard-wired.
EnragedParrot 10y ago
Jesus H Christ this should be stickied, a post all it's own.
I'm almost 50, and this is true for every woman I've dated.
[deleted] 10y ago
I finally figured out what this whole redpill thing is all about. You all need to stop fucking around with Christian girls.
EnragedParrot 10y ago
Well being that most women in the US have some form of an Xtian upbringing, combined with feminist nonsense, that's where the dating pool is.
Otherwise (generally) you have to be IN the same religion to date.
SnoopTiger 10y ago
Mission accepted. From now on, fuck MORE Christian girls.
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The more innocent something is, the more satisfying it is to corrupt it
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fingerthemoon 10y ago
You haven't figured it out yet. It's the Christian girls of their own agency who are doing most of the fucking around.
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They're not really operating independently, and I don't have to "get" anything.
recursoinominado 10y ago
Why(and how) they talk to you like that? "Yes, sir." "permission to se you tonight, sir" This is awesome.
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OmLaLa 10y ago
If I may, I'd like to refer back to the analogy made in "Such is My Nature" comparing Clay and Stone.
Clay (a provider) provides a multitude of assets for a woman, but at the expense of himself (he shapes himself to fit whatever she needs). The support he provides her isn't naturally a part of who he is, so he must constantly shift and altr himself to better fit the role.
The funny thing is though, the overall "support" he provides is still inferior to the Stone (Alpha), given that the same level of support comes at no expense or effort on the Stone's behalf.
In short, the provider must try while the Alpha just is.
TRPMaidenSlayer 10y ago
This kind of scenario works in other situations too.
RP: "Get ready, we're going to my favorite Chinese grub at 630."
BP: "Where do you want to go to dinner? Let me take you to your favorite place"
In both of these examples, let's say you're buying dinner. One of them is clearly not demonstrating "provider" role, it's demonstrating the leadership role, letting her into your adventure. Same side of a different coin.
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tekn0_ 10y ago
How the fuck is this relevant to the post above?
PM_Me_OK 10y ago
But you're the one trying to drive an hour to get some head from a girl you don't even know.