TL;DR Even catholic women can cheat on you with a blink of an eye. You have no idea she was on CC. AWALT.
please, correct any misspelling
Body: Time to write what I saw in my homeland - Poland. Poland is very conservative and catholic country. 99,2% of society declare to be christian. Does it mean it is easier to deal with women? No way! No matter if it's USA or Poland - AWALT. Most of women won't fuck you on a first date or a second or even a third. Most of them respect themselves very strong so they won't let even an Alpha to get to their pants too quickly. They will test you what type of a man you are. They want a LTR, they consider themselves as "the righteous girls", so they won't allow you to be plated. They will easily look through you and by your lack of patience see that you only want to get to their pants. They prefer LTR over CC. Reputation is very important, so the hamster goes light speed, when they get wet. Polish girls are difficult to pick-up. Shit tests are tough. Earning money is very important due to poor economy. Typical polish wife is a walking Godzilla. She wants to eat everything including her husband.
I wrote they won't fuck you, but that doesn't mean they won't flirt with you. They will try to seduce you, to take control over you like over a puppet. They have a very poor example of their own mothers so they don't want to be miserable like them. Polish women are very hard to make them follow you. They want to be like men. They want to prove you that they can lead as well. When I was attending latino dances class, half of women tried to lead during the dance. They are just not used to be leaded, but they are masters at manipulations.
Let's get to the stories. One women I knew through my ex-LTR was (is?) a typical CC rider. It is very uncommon, so quickly many of her neighbours knew that she was a "fast girl". I heard stories that she fucked a guy with no condom in a wood. She fucked guys in clubs, trains, whatever. Then that guy showed on her radar. Conservative, well paid, good looking. She wasn't interested in him too much at their first meeting, but he was totally in. He is that guy that "is trying very hard" to get the girl. Her hamster spinned and she considered him as a perfect provider. After 3 months of knowing each other she got pregnant and in next 2 months they got married! "Oh my fucking god!!" - that's what I thought. She claimed she was in love with him, etc. At their wedding I thought I was going to puke when he was kissing her. She propably had more cocks in her mouth than I had fries. The guy has NO CLUE what her past is. I told my that time-LTR that was bullshit and fucking ridiculous. She told me that "people change" and "maybe love changed her". Yeah... Don't be a beta and be cautious!
Another story of typical, conservative, christian girls.
One of them, let's call her Jenny, was very active in a local christian youth society. She was also always complaining about the guys she was meeting: "He earns too low; he is too short; not looking good enough." etc. Finally she met a very tall and very good paid guy. She started to "love" him immediately. Even though she had a crush on a guy that was on international student exchange. That all happened after her being engaged! It didn't matter she had a good looking guy with a great job. The other guy was just better looking, though he was much younger with no job. Her BF was locked and the other guy was something new making dat tinglez. AWALT.
The second girl, also very active in christan things, was my university class mate. She had a BF, that she is now married to. Although being in a LTR she had a crush on me. She openly was telling me she is attracted to me and catcalling me "Hi handsome!". I liked being validated, but I knew she was flirting to validate herself while being in a long LTR. She just wanted dat tinglez. With the time she got engaged and switched flirting to an overdrive. At one party I almost felt sick. After getting drunk in the front of my GF and her BF she tried to kiss me. She was like glue-sticked to me. My god... that was embarassing, but I had great sex with my GF later :). AWALT...
How about my ex-LTR? High quality woman with wondertits™, trustworthy and very honest. So when I had problems with getting a new job, she honestly told me she didn't have a sense of security with me and she was not sure what she feels about me. Her complaints about me were pissing me off, but I was telling her calmly that I will handle that as I always do. After 3 and a half years of LTR we both decided to break up. I told her there is no way I'm gonna marry her if she wasn't sure about her feelings. I wouldn't take that risk. AWALT...
Lessons learned:
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You may have no idea that your unicorn is a whore.
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You may have no idea that you fiance has a crush on someone else and you are just beta-provider.
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Religious girl doesn't mean NAWALT.
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AWALT, of course.
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Woman is not there to support you. If you have problems with getting money, you're fucked.
- Never get married! Under no circumstances! NEVER!
If there are some polish TRPers, I would absolutely recommend you samczeruno.pl - it saved my life and helped me find TRP.
Salutes! Pozdrawiam serdecznie!
EDIT: Correcting mistakes.
GrandmasterHurricane 11y ago
If you're reading this, know that AWALT means AWALT. There are no unicorns, no special ones. If you think she's a good girl you already lost the game. You find a good girl? Good, bounce before you get deceived. Find yourself a slut and at least you know what you're dealing with. Don't do LTRs.
awayofthought 11y ago
This looks like it will be downvoted into oblivion, but I feel like I need to address some of your FR.
This is rapidly changing. Most, if not a large majority of young people simply do not give a fuck about religion. It's quite sad, but it is true. A generation ago religion united people in the fight against communism and now it's being abandoned by young people.
I don't really know what you mean by this, but I think what you meant to say that Polish wives are bitches. I want to write something that my dad told me when I was entering high school "Just because she is Polish doesn't mean that she is perfect." It was my dads way of saying all girls are the fucking same.
I have observed guys go out with horrible, vapid Polish cunts just because "the girl was Polish", and Polish guys feel pressured by their mothers to find a Polish girl to continue the Polish tradition and culture. My Polish mom pushes me every day now to find a good Polish woman to enter a relationship with, and I haven't even left for college yet.
I disagree. I find slavic women (Ukraine, Russia, Poland) to be feminine and to follow you once they know you are the real deal. Sure, call it a "big shit test" if you want, but most polish girls I met like to play games with you before they settle down in a relationship.
I would not say Polish women want to be like men - they are simply being Americanized. Poland is 5-10 years behind America socially and the decline is going to be bad. Divorce is already on the rise and ego-inflated girls are just getting started to become addicted to instagram and facebook. The top post on the front page "disturbing social trends on summer vacation" is what I think is in store for Poland in a decade or two.
This happened a lot when my parents grew up in Poland. High school sweethearts would have sex, and to cover up the pregnancy they got married. This lead to unhappy marriages and some pretty funny stories from my dad. However, I have noticed that parents that avoid having kids early on had some of the best marriages and best behaved kids. Pretty much a RP nuclear family.
Overall, good FR but I think it will be downvoted. I would love to see the culture change in Poland first hand, but all I have here in the US is some articles and friends telling me what's going on over there. Poland did a good job of keeping out feminism, but now it's slowly killing the country. Expect divorce rates to spike up, women getting fatter, and shit hitting the fan.
Good to see another Pole on here! Message me if you got anything you want to share about Poland because it's been a while since I visited.
sezamus 11y ago
Girls have high requirements. Social status is crucial. Rat race is very brutal so you have to be the best at what you do, prove it and convince everybody that no one is as awesome as you. Otherwise you drown or you're put in line like everybody else. You have to be a RedPiller to have a normal life. I'm not even saying about being very successful.
Unemployment rate is getting higher and higher. Society is dumb. I had two options: go to Canada and start living there or go to army, what I always wanted. In the army connections are crucial to be even retired. Privates are kicked out after 14 years of service with no right to any pension. To earn the right of retirement you have to serve at least 15 years (you see the evil here?) and be at least a subofficer. To be a subofficer or an officer you need to have good relations with your commanders and serve 5 years as a private. (Sub)Officer's schools are closed. Connections are everything. Networking is what you have to do all the time. Meet new people because maybe someone's uncle is a colonel and will help you push through. Hard work is not enough. I'm a higher educated engineer and even I have to start as a private. It's a very long way up.
It looks like this almost everywhere. Average salary of 800-900 USD is just ridiculous when a small car costs 10k USD. Prices of food are almost the same like in Germany, comparing german and polish "Lidl".
Our government is corrupted by germans. German inteligence sabotages our growth because those fuckers treat us as their workforce. They are so afraid of russia that even building a highway looks like sending people to the Moon. We are just a bufor for NATO. All infrastructure projects move incredibly slowly. Low salaries, high taxes, tax office being a shark to destroy small companies. That's why many young people emigrate. They want to live, not be an ant.
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awayofthought 11y ago
You truly cant win. I always turn it into a joke whenever my mom brings it up, replying "oh, when I will find her, I will lock her up as soon as possible.
This common belief that women in Poland, Russia, Thailand, Asia, Brazil, or whereever are considered "good women" is a stupid notion that I see a lot in the world and on trp. I think its time we all grow up and understand that truly AWALT.
sezamus 11y ago
That's the exact conclusion of my FR. No matter if she is a christian, conservative virgin. Still AWALT.
Doc_Sithicus 11y ago
Pozdrawiam i dzięki za linka.
tomQrsd 11y ago
Pozdrawiam czerwonych Polaków!
slay_it_forward 11y ago
I spent 4 months in Poland last summer. Mainly in Wroclaw. Polish chicks be riding the cc like there's no tomorrow. They're definitely more pleasant than north american girls.
sezamus 11y ago
When women notice a foreigner on their radar, there's high propability that CC riders will attack him. Many polish guys pretend to be from Norway or Sweden to get laid.
There is a group of women that are obssesive about fucking a spanish, french or an american. They are known for being extremely easy during students exchange. My spanish friend told me many wild stories how polish chicks were literally forcing guys to fuck them. Also many polish girls were disgusted with what they saw. I heard french girls do similar shit being out of their country.
"Erasmus" student exchange program is known for being called "orgasmus". Now you know why.
slay_it_forward 11y ago
Come to north anerica and try to get laid with anything 7+. You'll be running back to Poland in no time.
2ChainZinMedSchool 11y ago
Having lived in Poland for many years, I have say that 1$ to 3PLN, cheap liquor, and gorgeous babes. This country is heaven for a red piller. I have done a lot of fucked up things in poland. In regards to women its always been a gamble. I've had girls whos counts are probably in the hundreds to girls that are virgins. AWALT. Some girls are more feminine, some girls more masculine. Who gives a fuck. Pussy is pussy. Divorce rate is already like 50% in poland LOL. Oh for the polish dude, what I've noticed is theres like only two types of Dudes you see in poland. You see the big roided out dudes w/ the ghetto girlfriend or the hipster looking skinny dude whos usually a betabucks with his gf, while his gf is secretly wanting to get fucked by the big roided out dude. Seen it too many times
sezamus 11y ago
I must admit many guys hit the gym. There's trend to be good looking and shaped. Of course it is natural reaction to higher requirements of our ladies.