I came across this post about a guy who states "I'm no longer 'Red Pill'...

Basically he says that he met a girl in high school and fell heads over heels in love with her.

I met her at high school. I was high off her. My heart done those little jumps. I felt so happy around her. I wanted her to be happy whether or not it was with me. (I'm getting a little teary eyed writing this). I felt protective over her. I think I understand why people seek love. You feel more alive. Every emotion is intensified, from the happiness to the sadness to the anger to the lust. Its beautiful though, like s thousand electric volts running through your body but it doesn't hurt though, you actually enjoy it.

He then became her beta protector. Now after short while, this happened..

As time went on. I won't go into too much detail but she started changing. She began making my life hell. She began humiliating me publicly. Disrespecting me. Turning my friends against me. She had her reasons for doing so...popularity. I guess high school is the closest to a real life most people see. I began getting bullied. But you know through this whole time I believed I deserved her treatment of me. I loved her. I tucked away my rational mind and decided to view her through an emotional lens. A faulty lens. The stress of everything took its toll. I had a stress breakdown.

Classic beta realizing AWALT and the true nature of women. The turn happened and he found the red pill.

Then I found the red pill....and everything made sense. I indulged in that place. I agreed. I guess because my subjective experiences had showed women you love or women with a form of power over you will use to break you. Hell that's what happened with me. So I done what they suggested. I started lifting. I got promoted. Found a mission. And began viewing women as beneath me (I am not proud). Everything I done to improve myself was from a place of hurt. And I'm still hurting. With no signs of improving.

After this he was still hung on his first love even though his new status gave him access to a whole new school of fish. When he realized that his magical TRP fix could not get him the woman that he wants, he reverted back to orbiter status just to be close to the pussy that he had emotional put on a pedestal over years.

But I take a second to view things rationally and not from an emotional lens. I see not all women will treat me like shit. And I dont need close myself off completely from maybe being vulnerable again. I guess what my question is, is how do I let her go? It's been almost a year now...

After one year, he is still lamenting over that one pussy that is probably riding the CC to the max before hitting the wall.

The comments he got from females were like..

Good for you. I recommend staying away from this site if you find yourself easily influenced by radical opinions. It's pretty inundated, and you don't want to get carried away again. Try asking your elders what they did when relationships didn't work out. I bet your parents had different boyfriends and girlfriends before they met each other. Your grandfather, your uncles, just about everyone has romantic baggage. Even if they don't have some revolutionary "One Trick to Solve Heartbreak," sometimes just talking it out helps. Grab two bottles an ask for their advice. Old people love that.

1) stop going to any redpill places cold turkey, they'll only drag you back down 2) find a licensed therapist and start going to see them, this is a big thing and you should have someone help you who's qualified and can show you how to start over

and SJW telling him,

Its a good thing you left the Red Pill. Meet new women that might help you let go of her.

One thing i learnt was not to underestimate the tenacity and fortitude of hamstering of women and their SJW/Orbiters. They exists in all cultures. Men are exposed to this from young ages from their mums, their sisters, their female relatives and others. It is instilled in us that we have to accept hamstering, shit tests and swallow that blue pill from a young age.

When i was young, one of the memories that stuck with me from my dad was one day he told me this.

"you see this coin, it is a 10 cent coin.. It doesn't matter whether it is your sister, your mom or your friend; they are all like this coin. A ten cent coin. whether it is shiny or dull, it will still buy you ten cent worth of candy."

I never understood what he meant by that till later in life. A woman will take her shit test to the edge of the cliff to make you fold/break frame. If you do not, then she will try and take you down the cliff with her, and salvage the collateral damage which in our society greatly favors women.

How flirting with a girl can lead to massive divorce and basically a huge dump on a man being possible, only goes to show you the level that a woman will take a shit test, just to prove her point. Moreover, this is also designed to strip a man of any SMV that he has attained to relegate him back to Orbiter or Beta status for their consumption.

EDIT: I digress:

One example is Jennifer garner and ben affleck. When Affleck began the Batman movie, he had to lift and put on 30 pounds of muscle with an 8% body fat.

Jen garner went on TV and said this

She was in the tingles of his new status. Now they have been together since 2005 and benn affleck has been with a myriad of problems ranging from gambling to drinking. She liked,accepted and wanted him that way.

Batman, put him in a whole different status. Lifting and probably dropping some of his bad habits, Jen Garner saw a new man that she said"I feel like am having an affair"

His new look

Sadly, his new status made her realize that he had inadvertently TRP'd. She did not want that. He had to be relegated back to his beta boring state to continue being her beta husband. His SMV was raised and that did not sit well with her and his new found attention.

SO what to do...

Shit tests and slap a divorce on him. Torment him back to where his was and belonged to her. strip him of his new SMV.

to this

MGTOW is a good thing, many understand it but few are willing to walk the gauntlet. many men prefer being orbiters to an uncertain possibility of self discovery and pursuit of happiness.

Stay away from orbiters, they are a strong foundation in the current female form. And most important, do not be captain Save-an-Orbiter/SJW, they do not want to be saved.

Do not underestimate the tenacity of female shit tests and hamstering; nor their minion SJW/Orbiters. Don't put pussy on a pedestal and if you do and want to ring her, please get a fucking prenup!