I've written a new personal manifesto for myself in order to crystallize and record my personal opinions and new realizations on the red pill and the goals to achieve these going forward. Following is an excerpt from that regarding my rules for walking away. Feel free to add additional points which were helpful in your own redpill journey.
1) Sex is purely for physical pleasure and nothing else. It can not validate me or define my self esteem.
2) No emotional expectation from women. No empathy towards their problems, if the problems don't relate to fucking me.
3) Non acceptance of social taboos. I only regard my own mother,sister and relatives as women exempted from fucking. Rest are game regardless of her brother being my friend or her being older than me by a decade. My sexual interests are my own responsibility and i honor myself as a sexual being.
4) The only reason not to fuck an attractive girl with a boyfriend is my own personal safety.
5) The only reason not to fuck a wife is my own personal safety.
6) My whole approach will be based on my being the most important person in the interaction.
7) She is just one of many approaches. She will be rewarded attention and sex only if complies to my previous demands in a positive way.
8) I'm not trying to just be myself. I understand redpill requires men to perform in a very particular way and i want to align myself to those behavior and mindsets as close as possible. So i will try to maximize my looks, work out on my physique, game as much as possible in a dominant and cool frame.
9) I will negotiate LMR only 2 times. Any more LMR, and i walk away even if it costs me sex.
10) I will send only 4 ping texts to a fresh lead, in a space of 6, 10, 24, 72 hours. If i don't receive a positive reception, i'll delete the number and move on. If she tries to recontact me then, i'll go hard on her to put out in the next meeting, else i completely break contact instead of wasting time.
11) On the first date, i'll not tolerate her being late beyond 20 minutes. On the second, 15 minutes. I won't tolerate her being late on the third date.
12) If she doesn't put out till 3 dates, i walk away.
13) If she doesn't kiss till 2 dates, i walk away.
14) If she doesn't stop on the first approach, i retry again. If she doesn't stop again, i walk away.
15) If she doesn't give me her phone #, i walk away. Emails are not allowed.
16) I understand that all these rules are going to cost me a lot of lays, but nothing is more important than my self esteem and my affirmation as being the sexual selector. So i choose to walk away in all cases in which i'll need to compromise on these even to a tiny extent.
17) I enjoy feminity and my sexuality. I don't need to continue any social interaction, which ridicules or demonizes them.
18) The validity of these rules don't depend on the hotness of the woman, or on my horniness or my current plate count.

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I bet you're so insecure guy
itsforhismum 10y ago
You Sound butthurt just Chill man you put way too much time into simple things
ShanksNes 10y ago
Thanks for your concern man. But the thing is, i am butthurt and angry. Any person who grew up in a normal feminine primary bluepill conditioning is, when he discovers the redpill and looks back on his life.
Ideally, would like to be in a position going forward, where i'm totally nonchalant and matter of fact about this. I'll consider my unplugging over then.
Cheers.
Episcope23 10y ago
So much for not letting your sense of self-worth be determined by women
ShanksNes 10y ago
Yup. When i'll internalize this truth, i won't even need to say this. Applies to every other rule. For now, i'll have to brute force it to my hindbrain. That's why the list - it will serve as a map to the journey.
GREF_ 10y ago
I expect a kiss by the end of the first date unless it's a short date ( < an hour)
If it's a longer date and she won't kiss you by the end of it she isn't into ya.
bitches_be_crazy86 10y ago
lol I don't remember the last time I didn't get my dick succed on a first date.
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Holy shit 2 dates? if you don't kiss on the first one you fucked up.
thetenman 10y ago
This! Also your number of ping texts is really high.
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thetenman 10y ago
I am not sure what "manson's rule" is, but if I don't get a response then I wait until for one week plus one Monday then text her.
monsieurhire2 10y ago
This list is all about qualifying the women based on their interest in you.
ShanksNes 10y ago
Qualification is a game technique. This is similar to that, except the mindset. The aim of qualification is testing and filtering at best, but the aim of this is self prioritization.
monsieurhire2 10y ago
Well, that's why you qualify: so people who aren't interested in you, or otherwise are undeserving of your attention, can be filtered out, thus preserving your self-interest. It's not in one's self-interest to waste time on people who demonstrate a lack of interest.
KingoftheAssholes 10y ago
Also facebooks, twitters, etc
ShanksNes 10y ago
Absolutely. Only phone #'s.
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Air4ce1 10y ago
This is one of the biggest things that I have worked on recently. I ask myself do I want it? Yes? Then I go get it. If a girl is treating me some type of way, do I want this? No? Then I put an end to it. It really is as simple as "Do I like what is going on?" and acting on whether to stop it or not.
GREF_ 10y ago
Easy to say when you're a hardened RPer. These rules are useful for new RP members who are not sure when enough is enough.
Like this, I bet many BP chumps would wait an hour.
ITworksGuys 10y ago
Shit, I think 20 min is generous.
Philhelm 10y ago
I agree that 20 minutes is generous. If the woman were to at least call to inform me that she is running late, I would be willing to provide leeway.
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ShanksNes 10y ago
Yup. I think redpill has enormously changed the way i think about my time and opportunity costs of each of my social interactions.
For those who are ok with girls being late for their dates, try being late yourself for about 20 minutes. I bet the girl will be waiting for you with a big smile on her face and a sparkle in her eyes ;)
ocho-muerte 10y ago
I couldn't agree more! I will wait about 5 minutes, then I'm out! Don't try and waste my time with a power play.
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circlhat 10y ago
Good List, But I suggest you change 12, to first date instead of 3. I have found much more success having this philosophy
GREF_ 10y ago
The way this is worded technically means he only gives her two dates to put out. I think he meant 3 though, and I think that's a good rule.
J_Ferrara07 10y ago
3 dates is a very reasonable goal
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Fantastical14 10y ago
Agreed. It all depends on what you want. If a girl puts out on the first date chances are she has done that many times before.
prodigyx 10y ago
Agreed.
However I have noticed that a lot of CC riders will put off sex for 3+ dates if they are currently looking for beta bucks.
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[deleted] 10y ago
Then I assume you're fucking a lot of young, quality hookers.
ShanksNes 10y ago
Hmm.. In my opinion, relying on women for reciprocating intimacy has been the biggest hurdle in my life and has crippled me in terms of my sexual freedom (among many other freedoms). So yeah, i will master game because it will lead to sexual abundance, but at the same time, i don't see banging hookers as a moral problem anymore, like i used to. It's just expensive, and game will be a most cost effective way to way to get the same thing that you get when you bang hookers.
In any case, emotional fulfillment with women is an aspiration which i have discarded.