This came up today as i was trying some daygame in the streets. Maybe you guys already know this and i am a bit of a slow learner in this regard, but something has changed after i realized and i'm finding myself totally disconnected from this "matrix". And yeah, this maybe a rant, but i don't know why i'm enthusiastic about writing this and sharing this with you guys.
Anyway, to start, i'd like to quote the venerable rollo tomassi from his blog therationalmale.com
"Learn this now, you will never achieve contentment or emotional fulfillment in a blue pill context with red pill awareness." - Rollo Tomassi, A New Hope (September 29, 2014).
I urge you guys to look it up, if you haven't (most probably you have). I always used to wonder in what sense he uses the word "context" and what does he precisely mean by that? Is it society? Is it culture? Is it the feminist propaganda machinery?
When i was gaming today (on the streets, not on the couch), i had a thought - I'll only get laid after so many rejections. So am i a looser or a winner?
That's when i realized the dichotomy. I'm a looser, cause i'm getting rejected so many times. I'll be a winner, since my notch count will be higher than other normal plugged in men. And that's when it hit me.
The game is rigged guys, you just can't win. As we can see, we just uncovered a contradiction, a glitch in the matrix. But if that is the case, why do we fall for such blatant contradictions, and nobody seems to notice and question them? Because their is a pattern.
For something to exist in the feminine imperative(FI for the rest of the write up), it's necessary for it to be reconcilable with it's opposite in and only within the bounds of feminine primacy.
For instance, take the above contradiction. A man being rejected is a looser. A man getting laid is a winner. So if both of them are valid statements in the feminine primary society, then the consequence would have to favor the fair sex. Which it does in this case. If both are true, then the only way for a man to approach the problem of women is to become someone who gets laid with multiple women and is rejected by none.The first introduces social pressure on sizing women up sexually, and the second increases the competitive nature of the sexual market in favor of women by pitting men against each other. Mixed with the monogamy trope (read beta bux when my tits are sagging), this deduces to, becoming rich, looking handsome, buying her gifts, and making "sure" that he hears a yes from her before she says it, it encourages white knighting, pedestalization, beta-droning and most of all a feminine primary frame. The man's self esteem goes down and he becomes the selected instead of the selector.
But while everybody knows that "beta bucks", curiously this also keeps the alpha's under check. Do you think that the alpha doesn't get rejected? Fuck no, he gets loads, it's just that he doesn't give a shit about them. So while they'll enjoy the alpha better gene cock-tail, the alpha will always be labelled as the looser that he is, a good for nothing brute whose only accomplishment in life was to ride pussy and lift weights. This will be especially convenient when she hits her epiphany phase and wants to do "the right thing".
So as we see gentlemen, the contradiction makes perfect sense to you if you are able and willing to aid the FI. So where did our fault in this lie?
This is where the "context" comes in. I realized that all the red pill truths that we've crammed till now are useless, if we try to keep applying them with blue pill assumptions, expectations and blue pill benchmarks.
So here's how it plays out. I've a problem A. I swallow the red pill. I try to fix A using red pill knowledge. Won't work. So now i realize that A wasn't a problem at all. It was a blue pill goal designed to be impossible to achieve and milking out advantages till the time i realize this. Most such problems are just that - labels.
Your notch count shouldn't be a factor in your self worth. Treat sex like you treat hunger. The feminine doesn't want you to since that is it's only agency. But disregard that.
On more practical terms, this solves a lot of my game problems. For instance, new inner game : I'm not qualifying to her, and so whatever i say is right. If that doesn't work out, it's not my problem that she's not seduction worthy. So maybe i'll even walk away mid sentences, if i feel she's a waste of time.
I plan to treat game as a workout session from now on. Sometimes plates will spin, most of the times they wont. The good thing to do would be regular, approach clean and in a totally non fuss way and get out completely after an hour session.
I'm not really sure if i can express myself properly here. Apologize to all if this seems nonsense and gibberish.

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This kind of over analysis can be crippling to your progress.
Sexual availability is a real thing:
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/more/archive/entry/getting-girls-is-a-numbers-game/
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link: http://therationalmale.com/2014/09/29/a-new-hope/
Yep you got it.
blue pill context: "I've always wanted to find the one woman to love me unconditionally."
red pill awareness: "I understand RP is the true perspective of the world of intergender dynamics."
-> red pill awareness in blue pill context: "I'm going to use my new RP knowledge to find the one". Doesn't work.
ShanksNes 10y ago
Couldn't have been explained better. Awesome example and thanks for the reply.
asdfghjkltyu 10y ago
Spot on, on the 'unconditional love' part.
I do think that if you want someone to date long term after internalizing all of this you can use RP knowledge to find a suitable woman. She'd probably be less 'hot' and more 'cute', not have been to college and gone through the sorority stage, had either a long term relationship or very little experience, has a down to earth family with a strong relationship, minimal social media use, etc etc.
She won't love you unconditionally. But she atleast probably has realistic relationship expectations.
ShanksNes 10y ago
Yup. I can only image how it feels for a woman to be around a redpill man. He'd be from a different species altogether and she will feel like a child around him.
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ShanksNes 10y ago
As an aside, I think the rawness has an interesting series on this called the "Myth of the middle class alpha". It is quiet an extraordinary series and very enlightening.
I agree with you that you if you know how the system works, then you can hack it to your advantage (the pua mindset), but i'm arguing something different, a complete unplug as in a fresh revamp of social rules that you live with. It's kind of a new reality in your mind that you create for yourself and abide by. Taking the example cited by you, i can use the knowledge to dick about and bang sluts, but in my redpill context i don't try to attract anyone at all. In my reality, i don't need to and it's wasteful of my energy. And i don't even envision one woman for raising my family; If it happens it happens. The most important things are my own desires (including the primal ones), and everything else is just silly. So it's kind of reordering my priorities on a deep level.
Thanks for the comment. It was very insightful.
KyfhoMyoba 10y ago
You probably have it backwards. Marriage was created and started by those at the bottom of the SMP and moved up the SMP as a Tullock contest [or competition] success function. Beta males created civilization - and marriage - as a defense against the power of feminine sexuality [hypergamy].
This was said by Camille Paglia in her doctoral dissertation (now published as her book Sexual Personae: Art and Decadence from Nefertiti to Emily Dickinson) at Yale back in the 60's. I had read the book when it came out in the '80s and understood about 10% of it, but I knew that she was on to something. She prepared me for TRP. She calls herself a feminist, but all the other feminists -especially the marxists - hate her. She has no understanding of economics, but she's got gender down cold.
94redstealth 10y ago
not having sex with her (being rejected) is not a loss. You, as a red pill man, chose to no longer presue her as you say the outcome damaging to you. You folded. In poker the fills is not a loss, it's a conservation of assets. If you are truly red pill, there are no losses. Every unfavorable outcome is just a learning opportunity.
ShanksNes 10y ago
Precisely. It's amazing how knowing the truth is so much different than feeling the truth.
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Sometimes the best way to win a hand is to fold early.
If the odds seemed stacked against you, fold, and avoid all the betting. You'll pickup a new hand shortly.
charcoales 10y ago
"Your notch count shouldn't be a factor in your self worth. Treat sex like you treat hunger. The feminine doesn't want you to since that is it's only agency. But disregard that."
Yep.
This applies to both genders, but I see a lot of hate towards women who adopt this redpill stance. A lot of comments will call out women for how many "notches" they have, yet at the same time they console each other that "notches" don't factor into self-worth. A lot of people are hungry for sex, women and men alike. Feminine isn't keeping it from you. Just like how you probably wouldn't fuck a fat, dirty slob, a girl wouldn't screw a lot of these commentators because they exude negativity and self-hatred, and give off a vibe of creepy-aggressiveness.
Food for thought, the world isn't out to get you specifically, but the world does get pissed when you start feeding it negative self-hatred and incongruous energy.
ShanksNes 10y ago
Umm... Hate to disagree, but a woman's notch count matters.
1) Evolutionarily, the higher the n-count, the higher the risk of cuckoldry and loosing the sperm war. This creates a sense of natural disgust in men towards women who have high n-count, when they're not fucking them. This biological asymmetry is what leads to this unequalist truth.
2) She is a hypergamist, she'll compare. So the more the number of men she has fucked in the past, the more reference points for her and she'll find faults with you one way or another. She'll never be satisfied and there would be a very high burden of performance on you to earn her love and respect.
NoRegretj 10y ago
You are either ignorant, in denial, or a shill. Oxytocin is inhibited by testosterone, women with lots of sexual partners are emotionally damaged to a point of damaged ability to pair bond far more than men with lots of sexual partners. This is why prostitution benefits only men and has been around since man was conscious. The feminist imperative has shifted and essentially made unchecked hyper gamy a staple of women's life, they are essentially now all of the same mentality of old world prostitutes, while making prostitution itself illegal.
JaxSwagger 10y ago
A woman's n count matters. What the fuck is up with all these 'You can't blame women for liking sex' posts lately? A slut is a slut is a fucking slut. I mean, I don't hate sluts, I had a threesome with two such women just last night, but I know what they are and I would never take the view that 'If it's good for the geese it's good for the gander'. They're plates for a reason.
Men and women are different. The end. If you want to take this enlightened and progressive pro-female sexuality stance, that's great for you, but you can take it elsewhere. This is one of the few places where men are allowed to openly speak of the visceral detachment that comes once you find out a woman has a high count and it needs to stay that way.
asdfghjkltyu 10y ago
The point is you shouldn't 'hate' a slut you should use it to decide her appropriateness for a relationship. Just like a bank will look at your past credit history your history sticks like glue.
I see a lot of people really confused about why they shouldn't like women who sleep around, there is nothing necessarily against them as people (although, I do find a common stereotype they do exhibit low value traits in most areas of lives. These women often can't lock a guy down for a reason) but merely use it as a method of judging their suitability for a relationship.
tits_out_forTheBoys 10y ago
Damn right it matters. Female n count is the most influential factor affecting America's divorce rate, as well as the large % of men opting out of marriage.
Who wants to marry a whore? I'll fuck a whore, but I damn well sure won't marry her. A whore is to be used for the purpose she's meant to serve.
cheeky--kunt 10y ago
nobody wants to buy a cow for full price when other men milked her for free.
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ShanksNes 10y ago
Yup. But only if you redefine the rules and ways to interpret he result in a red pill way. So in a sense, you don't win this game; You just play a different one altogether.
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ShanksNes 10y ago
Thanks a lot and appreciate your commenting.
NeoreactionSafe 10y ago
Red Pill is actually very simple.
Feminism attempts to erase all forms of Heirarchy. However, in nature there are underlying forces that define Heirarchy.
Red Pill simply shows us the way Heirarchy functions.
A man must be "above" a woman in the Heirarchy for things to function properly.
The OP seems a little fuzzy about what are the core realizations of Red Pill:
Betas are unaware of the Heirarchy.
MGTOWs seek to escape the Heirarchy. (by hiding from it)
KyfhoMyoba 10y ago
No, feminism attempts to supplant male leadership with fem-centric ideology with women at the top, followed by alpha males, and with betas/omegas at the bottom, doing all the work.
Oh, they want a hierarchy, all right. They just want someone else (themselves) at the top.
Meet the new boss, same as the old boss ...
NeoreactionSafe 10y ago
It's a delusional Heirarchy based on nothing.
If they really had something that was possible of functioning you would see 100% of the Betas married. We aren't seeing that. The Misandry Bubble describes how the delusional scenario collapses eventually.
It's like Russia and China... the delusional situation got so bad in China that millions starved to death and everyone was too afraid to say anything.
Authoritarianism naturally follows delusional situations because it's so simple to understand.
ShanksNes 10y ago
These are redpill truths. You need the context for them being effective at all. For instance, the redpill uncovers the male hierarchy, but only wants it's awareness and not it's advocacy. Do you really want to race to this climb to the top? What if that's precisely what the matrix wants you to do ? :P
Cheers.
NeoreactionSafe 10y ago
Some cultures create broad heirarchies which order everyone into their precise slot. (ordered)
Other cultures resist structure and prefer tribal association where the Alpha is highly localized. (chaotic)
The undelying processes are the same, but the structures are different.
When cultures resist broad heirarchies the crime rate increases.