I read a comment here on TRP by /u/HumanSockPuppet:
you love your woman twice: once as a partner, and once as a "father".
This fits red pill narrative very well, men are logical and rational thinkers and we serve to ground women from their own emotional volatility and feeling-defined perspective. You have to be ready and willing to lay down the law and set firm boundaries so that you can care for her in a way that she is not physically or emotionally equipped to do.
But what about the woman? Too often I see red pill wisdom like the above presented only from the male perspective. The woman serves two roles as well, lover and mother. Her biological imperative instills a nurturing personality, to care for her partner (and children) and guide him on his ambitious journey.
We aren't perfect. I'm not saying that a man needs a woman to be happy, but that we should recognize and embrace the nurture benefit that exists, the one we receive our whole lives from our mother (hopefully).
Waldo00 11y ago
It is quite nice to come home to a clean house and a cooked meal. But I think my girl needs a hell of a lot more nurturing and reassurance than I do.
El_Serpiente_Roja 11y ago
agreed
expecting women to act like our mothers is one of the FIRST blue-pill walls that had to come tumbling down..
brotherjustincrowe 11y ago
My mother was a bitter feminist alpha widow and former CC rider. I'd be glad to get a girl nothing like her.
[deleted] 11y ago
A woman will be a mother to her children-- they have her genetic information. She cannot be a mother to her lover-- that literally doesn't help her do shit. The Father is just a english word. Strip it off the cultural meaning and just try to describe what a father does: provide and protect and rule. It has nothing to do with genetics.
See the difference OP?
User-31f64a4e 11y ago
Really?
Haven't you heard lots and lots of women saying things like, "I already have children, I don't want another one" when talking about a man?
From what I can see, if you need to be nurtured by your woman, she'll think you're weak and branch swing.
Furthermore, women today are so busy trying to be men that they're not very nurturing to anyone, including their children.
SuperSlavisWife 11y ago
That is the bigger factor. A woman with no desire or capacity to nurture won't do so for her own kids, let alone a man.
On the other hand, women who cultivate nurturing often become closer to our partners when they become weak. Not necessarily trying to build a castle from scratch on a bed of sand, more seeing that the building has good foundations and the loadbearing wall still stands even if the roof fell in and a window broke. Everybody gets ill from time to time, has to deal with financial issues and face deaths. A strong man in temporary weakness is still a strong man and will return to his strength, given enough support.
The issue is that a lot of modern women offer no nurturing at all. It's still part of a woman's duty as a partner, even if most women don't fulfill their duty.