i have an awesome gf. She is 23, and she made it to 23 as a virgin. I have fucked ~50 chicks and i was seeing multiple girls when i met her. but she wanted me to take her virginity (i believe she was def a virgin, pussy was extremely tight).
Anyways, she treats me amazingly well. Buys me gifts, plans fun dates for us, the sex is amazing, lots of blowjobs, and she happily endorses my redpill ideologies.
At some point about 3 months ago we became exclusive. i decided to stop seeing the other girls. Im now considering doing a long distance relationship with her, bc she is loyal, trustworthy, honest, smart, compatible, virgin/innocent, sexy, my friends all like her, and tshe rtreats me so well. My question is, am I being a oneitis idiot? Is it possible that she is rly this awesome, or are AWALT? Maybe shes a unicorn bc she is a virgin? Idk

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HumanSockPuppet 11y ago
AWALT means just that: ALL women are like that.
Assuming that you are a Red Pill Man, your girlfriend had the fortune of meeting you and being properly disciplined before her hypergamy sent her on a ten year cock-carousel ride. But don't think for a moment that she won't regress to her natural hypergamous state if you let your guard down.
That's why you need to remain vigilant. You cannot become complacent and assume you've found a natural unicorn. Your girlfriend is a human being like every other woman out there, and her eye will begin to wander if you become less attractive than her other options.
sunwukong155 11y ago
Of course AWALT.
Women are always attracted to men of value. Does it mean a virigin that hasn't destroyed her ability to pair bond will be as likely to fuck you over as a veteran CC rider.. no.
Women have value you too, just don't be a idiot and simply take her word for it. Look at her actions.
always-rp 11y ago
AWALT
All women... you should get the idea. That said, there are girls out there worth being exclusive with. Or one day she could wake up and realize she has only had one dick her whole life, and wants more than that. You have to ask yourself what she is like, no one on the internet or in real life can tell you. You know her better than anyone else. You have to figure it out.
MagicGainbow 11y ago
Fuck no, i've heard more than a few stories of guys ruing marrying their first who then later decides she's missed out and needs some strange dick.
Kaladar 11y ago
So operating under the assumption that this girl is a virgin I would say there is a good chance that she will be faithful.
If a person can resist the cc for 23 years, I believe they deserve a chance at a LTR.
Go with your gut on this one OP. If it all goes to shit, at least it went to shit on your terms.
But I still caution you on giving her too much at once, let her work for your attention. Don't stop playing the game just because you think you won.
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People are animals. They have intrinsic drives and motivations that are core to their being. These drives manifest as certain behaviors and characteristics.
Is she a woman or has she evolved past the modern homo-sapien? Essentially, that is the question you are asking.
TomilloDanup 11y ago
AWALT is a generalization, more like a stereotype we use to describe a behaviour. Does that mean that each and every women on the planet "are like that", of course not. We use AWALT because if more than 90% of women fit the sterotype its safe to asume any girl you (or any of us) find she's in that 90% pool, and not on the 10%. Does that mean you have a special unicorn, I don't think so. She's still young, she can get bored and date up, or jump right into CC. You can find out.
At the end who cares if your LTR lasts 2 more months or 20 more years. Enjoy it, enjoy her and enjoy yourself. Not in that order.
BadCopWithDonut 11y ago
Prefect advice! You don't know what she will evolve like but if you have a good feeling it's worth trying out.
But always be ready to aboard the ship if she changes her behaviour!
SkorchZang 11y ago
She's the same as the others, but the way she's treating you is an example of where you might consider doing long distance.
Don't have any illusions, long distance is where you promise you won't fuck anyone during some time period, and she supposedly promises the same. You are a man, you put in work to get laid, so you can be reasonably expected to stick to your promise. She is a woman, fucking a guy always "just happens" and is never her fault, so no matter how amazing she is, she can be reasonably expected to break her promises whenever it suits her.
It is not an equal deal, and a shitty deal overall. It's so shitty that it's almost a shit test in itself, to see if you will accept the long distance. Every beta gladly would. You should be having serious reservations about it. Why not just say "hey, you're great but this long distance thing wouldn't be fair to either you or me, why don't we put this on hold while you're away, and when you're back we can see if we can pick up where we left off, cause I'd love to be w/ you but I don't like making promises I know I'd be tempted to break." Hamster going to spin at hyperspeed, as an extra bonus. Which is a nice insurance, because as long as she's freaking out about who YOU might be fucking while she's away, she will ignore other guys around her ("omg all I can think of is you yichiro12...I'm so sad and I hate these stupid guys here!!" .. to which you grin and just answer "looking forward to when you're back babe, miss you too", like it's a given and happens all the fucking time)
Only consider the LDR if it's for a very short period of time, a couple months or whatever, the girl treats you amazing, and/or you have a lot of time in with her already. Do lots of sexy video skype chat and stuff like that during the time you're apart.
yichiro12 11y ago
The main reason i considering long distance is bc, if i do an open relationship and she fucks another guy, She's no longer a unicorn and i can't see myself going back to her at that point.
Kill_Your_Ego 11y ago
She's not a unicorn. She's just a girl who probably lost her virginity to you. Long distance "relationships" are not actually relationships. They are just promises anyway. Women break their promises all the time. It's easy for me to run game on girls who are in LDRs. They want physical affection and attention and I help them hamster away that they aren't cheating or that sex "just happened" even when I am explicitly sexual with them the whole time.
The only way this is going to work is if you get her to follow your leadership, to buy wholly into your frame, and to come with you or to you. Be alpha here and draw the line. She comes along for your ride or you soft next her. LDRs are not relationships. They are promises of a future relationship that may or may not actually be fulfilled.
SkorchZang 11y ago
That's a bad reason, don't do it because of that dude. It's scarcity mentality, she will know that's what's going on, and that's shooting yourself in the foot.
You can't lock her pussy down for yourself no matter what you do, even if you marry.
Gold_Mouth 11y ago
Being a virgin doesn't guarantee anything. Some women are just born to be sluts, it's in their blood. All whores are virgins at some point. But the fact that she's made it 23 years without fucking anybody shows some self control.
Hokuto199x 11y ago
TIL - Pussy tight, definitely virgin. Got it. But in all seriousness if you got her before the CC did then she might be less like that, but she's still like that. It doesn't make her a unicorn, it just means the CC didn't damage her yet. And if it never does that makes her more suitable than other women. It doesn't make her perfect (aka not like that), just better. That's kind of what most LTR TRPers seem to endorse. If you're going to LTR do it with the highest quality only. Higher quality = better odds.
SpartanLegend 11y ago
All Women Are Like That, but that doesn't mean that all women are like that all the time. What i mean by this is that while women will always go for a higher value male, women won't always actively seek one out, if they feel they have found one that is compatible as a mate and high value. It's all about having a high smv.