A few days ago there was a thread about the current Glossary of Terms and Acronyms on the sidebar lacking in a lot of the often used acronyms. I posted a list in that thread of what I thought needed to be added, and decided to just compile a new glossary myself. I edited some of the definitions from the current glossary, removed the /r/seduction entry, and added everything that I could think of.
If anybody notices further ommisions, or thinks they have better descriptions than what I provided, add a comment and I will edit the post.
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Alpha – Leader. Somebody who displays high value, or traits that are sexually attractive to women. Alpha can refer to a man who exhibits alpha behaviors (more alpha tendancies than beta), but usually used to describe individual behaviors themselves.
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Alpha Widow - A woman (usually post wall) who has been nexted by an Alpha male. No matter how great her new BB is, she will always judge him as not living up to that standard of AF she was getting previously.
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AMOG – Alpha Male Of Group.
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AF/BB - Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks.
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AFC - Average Frustrated Chump. (Also known as beta)
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ASD - Anti-Slut Defense.
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AWALT - All Women Are Like That. Often expressed after an example of hypergamy.
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Beta – Traits of provision: either providing resources or validatation to others, women (and perhaps men). Beta traits display low value to women if they are are put on too strong or too early in meeting- giving without equity. Beta can be used to describe individual behaviors, as well as people who have an overwhelming amount of beta properties (opposed to alpha).
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Blue Pill – From The Matrix and its sequels. The path of conformity with Society’s expectations; the state of being unaware of the problems engendered by society. Compare with “Red Pill,” below.
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CC, or Cock Carousel – The period of time in a woman's life where she successfully exploits her sexual value and maximizes her hypergamous tendencies by having sex with as many alphas as possible. Usually happens between ages 18 - 27. Often ends when the woman hits the wall.
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CH - Chateau Heartiste.
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Close - The apex of an interaction. Often preceded by an indication of the type of close, eg. f-close (full close or fuck close, the interaction led to sex), k-close (kiss), #close (receiving phone #).
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Comfort Test - Similar to a Shit Test, but meant to gauge your level of Beta traits. Typically only encountered in LTRs. While not discussed as often as shit tests, a succesful LTR requires that you pass these as well.
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DT, or Dark Triad - A combination of three personality traits: Narcissism, Machiavellianism, and Psycopathy.
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DHV – Display of Higher Value, the accomplishment, anything that improves your sexual market value in the eyes of another.
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DLV - Display of lower value.
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DQ - Disqualification. Used by women as an IOD. Used by PUAs as a method of disarming ASD by appearing to be disinterested.
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Dread Game - Purposefully inciting jealousy in an LTR by openly getting attention from other women. Soft Dread is similar, but less open. With Soft Dread, the attention doesn't even need to be real. Creating the possibilty for female attention is enough to get the hamster going. (If you develop a great body, she knows that other women will find that attractive without having to actually see other women displaying interest.) The purpose of using Dread is to get the target (wife, girlfriend, plate) to step up their game to compete with other interested women.
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Feminism – ”A doctrine built on the pre-supposition of victimhood of women by men as a foundation of female identity. In its goals is always the utilization of the state to forcibly redress this claimed victimization. In other words, the proxy use of violence and wealth appropriation. In whatever flavor, and variation, these two basic features are common to every doctrine using the label feminism. Feminism is therefore, a doctrine of class hatred, and violence.” (John The Other, “Why not date a feminist?” A Voice For Men, 4 June 2012.)
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FR - Field Report.
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Frame - The context in which something is perceived. Maintaining frame is often cited as the most important aspect of Alpha behavior. See Iron Rule of Tomassi #1
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Friendzone - See Orbiter.
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Game – A loosely based set of behaviors specifically designed to increase attraction.
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Gaslighting - A form of mental abuse in which false information is presented with the intent of making victims doubt their own memory, perception, and sanity.
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Hamster - Used to describe the way that women use rationalization to resolve mental conflict and avoid cognitive dissonance. The core mechanism that allows women to say one thing and do a different thing.
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HB - Hot Babe (often followed by a number as an indication of ranking on a 1-10 scale).
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Hypergamy – The instinctual urge for women to seek out the best alpha available. This is marked by maximizing rejection (therefore women are the selective gender). A woman will vet her alpha through various shit tests to ensure his "health" on the alpha scale. She is conditioned to recognize a declining alpha, as hypergamy also tends to continue seeking out higher status males even while with an alpha male. Shit tests allow her to prepare herself for eventually leaving when a new higher status male is found. If the male fails shit tests to a great enough degree, it will effect her feelings for him. He will effectively lower his sexual market value in her eyes. This will enable her to jump to the next male with ease and little remorse.
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Incel - Involuntarily Celibate. A man who wants to get laid, but can't.
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IOD - Indication of Disinterest.
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IOI - Indication of Interest.
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Kino (Kino Escalation) - "Kino" means touching. Kino escalation is the process of ramping up the touching from light touching to heavy (though still not entirely sexual).
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LJBF - Let's Just Be Friends (See Orbiter)
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LMR - Last Minute Resistance. A display of ASD immediately prior to closing
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LTR - Long Term Relationship.
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Manosphere - The loose collection of blogs, message boards, and other sites run by and/or read by MRAs, MGTOW, PUAs etc and any red pill associated people/groups.
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MGTOW – Men Going Their Own Way; the growing contingent of the male population who are saying “Fuck It All” to the Mating Dance.
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MMSL - The Married Man Sex Life Primer. A book written by Athol Kay specifically focused on marriage game.
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MR - Men's Rights Group.
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MRA - Men's Rights activist. See /r/MensRights
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MRM - Men's Rights Movement.
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Oneitis - When a guy has fallen in love with a woman in the same way a boy loves his mother. He obsesses about her, but she does not reciprocate.
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Orbiter - Also known as Beta Orbiter. A beta guy who accepted the proposal to "just be friends" from a girl he has oneitis for. He will stick around her and constantly validate her whenever she requests it. Also known as "friendzone." She will keep him around because he will do anything for her and provide validation, giving small hints that he might eventually win her love- but he never will. Typical signs of orbiter status: likes and comments on new facebook photos. Go-to guy when girl has problem with boyfriend. Also known as emotional tampon.
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Plate - Woman with whom you are in a non-exclusive sexual relationship with. Spinning plates is the act of having multiple plates simultaneously. Again, Rollo has a great article found here.
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Preselection - The idea that women are more attracted to men who already have the interest of other women. This saves the woman time in judging a man by using the idea that other women have already judged him favorably.
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PUA – Pick-Up Artist.
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Pussy Pass - Letting a woman off without actual consequences for illegal behavior. See /r/PussyPass for examples.
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Red Pill – The recognition and awareness of the way that feminism, feminists and their white-knight enablers affect society. Seeing the world for what it is, seeking truth no matter how painful or inconvenient the truth may be.
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Set - A group of people that you are interacting with.
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Shit Test, or Fitness Test - A statement or question meant to gauge your level of Alpha traits.
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SJW - Social Justice Warrior.
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SMV – Sexual Market Value. A shorthand statement for “what you bring to the table,” whether for an one-night stand or for a longer sexual/emotional relationship.
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SMP - Sexual Market Place. A description of the free market that is mating.
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Snowflake - A woman who tries to persuade a man that she’s somehow unique, different, or special by playing up her good girl resume and downplaying her bad girl resume. When used as a verb, snowflaking refers to the argument she puts forth to justify her claim.
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Solipsism - In Red Pill, solipsism (e.g. female solipsism) refers to the female's tendency to frame everything she experiences or witnesses in terms of herself and her own needs - personalizing it **- even when such personalization would not make contextual sense.
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The Wall - The point in a woman's life where her ego and self-assessed view of her sexual market value exceed her actual sexual market value; the beginning of the decline. Usually occurs as a wake-up shock to women when they realize that their power over men was temporary and that their looks are fading. This usually results with first denial and then a sudden change in priority towards looking for a husband. Even after hitting the wall, many women will squander a few more precious years testing her SMV with alphas to double-check, hoping her perceived decline was a fluke, this will make her even more bitter when she finally has to settle for a worse-beta than she could've gotten before because of squandering her youth.
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Trickle Truth - A method of coming clean about bad behavior by only disclosing small pieces of truth at a time. "All we did was talk," leads to "Well we just cuddled," leads to "I didn't mean to fuck him, it just happened." It's a hamsters way of saving face when bad behavior is discovered.
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Unicorn - Mystical creature that doesn't fucking exist, aka The Girl of Your Dreams.
- White Knight – (1) a man who “comes to the rescue” of a woman, or of women, reflexively, emotionally-driven, without thought or even looking at the situation; (2) a man in authority who enables Team Women in his legislative actions, judgments, or rulings, reflexively, emotionally-driven, without thought or even looking at what’s right. Also known as "Mangina"

KyfhoMyoba 12y ago
I would change the def of 'alpha' to include physical characteristics as well as behavioral ones, and subtract 'leader.'
Alpha can be thought of a couple of different ways: a) physically, ie, those features and characteristics that indicate high levels of testosterone; strong jaw, heavy brow, deep voice, high muscle to fat ratio, height. b) personality traits like the Dark Triad, ie, narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. c) behaviors arising out of these traits, specifically, dominance, outcome independence, and lack of negative affect. And finally d) the pussy decides; alpha is what gets the greatest quantity and quality of girls.
Alpha is NOT mutually exclusive with beta, they are separate and distinct qualities that are independent of each other, however, a woman will usually interpret them as mutually exclusive at her first impression of a man.
popthatpill 12y ago
Excellent list. I'd add "Changing lanes", ie. a woman switching from an AF strategy to a BB strategy (or vice-versa when she gets back on the carousel). Usually happens near the wall.
omnipedia 12y ago
Several times you use the acronym ASD but it's not on the list.
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tipofmywang 12y ago
Great list, should be helpful for newer members. I would add Gaslighting to the list, since it's a common tactic used against men.
"Gaslighting or gas-lighting is a form of mental abuse in which false information is presented with the intent of making victims doubt their own memory, perception, and sanity."
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RedPillSafe 12y ago
Interesting definition.
This reminds me of "FUD" which means "Fear, Uncertainty and Doubt". (used in the computer industry)
I've seen the term "Gaslighting" used a lot and thought it had a more positive spin on it like the girl was painting a pretty picture of events (like "sweet talking" you) but this suggests it's more of an attack on your frame.
Is it more "Honey" or more "Vinegar"? Or can it be both?
This would be a good addition to the list.
tipofmywang 12y ago
Did you see that post a few weeks(months?) back, where some wife was complaining that her husband had made a spreadsheet of all the times he tried to initiate sex, and all the times she turned him down? It was great, he used the date, whether or not they did it, and the excuse she used when she turned him down. He told her they weren't having enough sex and she tried gaslighting him "We have sex all the time!". He busted out his list and shut her shit down.
fortifiedoranges 12y ago
Any chance you can find it?
Edit:
Here it is for those of you that missed it: http://m.imgur.com/Zreanes
RedPillSafe 12y ago
I remember that.
In that case "Gaslighting" painted a pretty picture of events which was how I saw the term defined in my mind.
The negative spin example I haven't seen, but I'm sure exists.
arrayay 12y ago
Gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse based on attempting to make someone doubt reality or their own mind. Http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslighting
RedPillSafe 12y ago
This might a little early and presumptuous on my part but the first thing I noticed in coming to Red Pill is the variety of different ambitions on what to do with the knowledge once you have it.
Free Riders (cuckolding, exploit the system, bastard children)
Masters of the Universe (money, power, Alpha)
Married or LTR (focused on holding frame)
...if nothing else I submit these grouping labels to the "powers that be" to decide if this type of classification is helpful. New arrivals tend to see the Red Pill as one dimensional, so having this kind of framework would help reveal the larger Red Pill ecosystem.
Men can move between these classifications in a variety of directions.
openwaves 12y ago
You bring up an interesting point to bring a notice to different classifications of red pill persona. If you didn't include the first one, it would just be men. Also, MGTOWs are barely considered spinning plates, and plate spinners are generally a class of their own (or included as alpha, lower alpha, higher beta, etc.)
RedPillSafe 12y ago
The textbook definition.
But there's a big difference between someone like Derek Jeter (NY Yankees) who is Alpha in it's entirety verses a Pimp hustling in the ghetto. The Pimp has game and can Free Ride the system, but Derek Jeter is at the top of the pyramid and doesn't need to Free Ride because he OWNS the system, he won. On a sexual level successful athletes with charming personalities can be even more attractive than men with larger bank accounts. (plus, Derek Jeter isn't fat)
You have to sort out where the Alpha behaviors direct someone.
A Free Rider and a Master of the Universe share the same Red Pill wisdom, but exist in different worlds.
RedPillDad Endorsed Contributor 12y ago
Solid list.
IOD - Indicator of Disinterest. Basically, the flip side of IOI.
From my notes on IOD's...
• Breaking rapport
• Fidgeting and toe-tapping (impatience)
• Acting annoyed or bored with interaction
• Checking phone
• Short answers, minimally-responsive
• Never smiling
• Avoidance of eye contact
• Unemotional in responses
• Blocks attempts at escalation
• Fails compliance tests
• Keeps her distance
• Not sharing any details about her life
• Dismissive, overly-critical statements
• Disqualification: "I have a boyfriend"
• Non-responsive to texts and calls
• Shows interest in other men
• Gives the "Let's just be friends" speech
Why would a woman use an IOD? They use them as a brush off to discourage men they don't find attractive, as a value differentiator to indicate superior status, or as a form of posturing or teasing to hide their interest.
Women tend to use IOD's as part of sub-communication. The seductive response is so automatic they're not fully aware of what they're doing.
Don't waste too much energy on a woman if she is non-responsive or gives you multiple signs of disinterest.
An IOD can indicate your game is off. Pay attention because women are naturally supportive and will give you the hints to help you improve your game.
Kevinsp77 12y ago
Could fidgeting mean they are nervous while talking to you? Especially with shy girls
RedPillDad Endorsed Contributor 12y ago
Sure, but you can tell when someone doesn't want to be near you. Nervousness indicates attraction and arousal. You'll see displays of excess - laughing, talking, lip-biting, grooming, etc.
If they're disinterested and you persist, they'll escalate their IOD's to make sure you get the point. Or they'll damsel-appeal to white knights who'll get in your face on her behalf.
Garl_Vinland Endorsed Contributor 12y ago
Added. Also, you made me think I should add an entry for DQ - Disqualification.
IllimitableMan Vanguard 12y ago
In the almost 2 years I've been on TRP not once have i seen a person use "DQ"
Garl_Vinland Endorsed Contributor 12y ago
You're right, I probably picked it up off some pua forum. If I do take out the abbreviation, I'm wondering if there is even a reason to leave an entry for Disqualification at all.
abdada 12y ago
GFTOW -- Cure for oneitis
Jaereth 12y ago
Trickle Truth should be mentioned. It's one of the most ubiquitous characteristics of when you are being strung along by a woman in a relationship when she really views you as low value.
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baconOclock 12y ago
LWOG - Land Whale Of the Group
AtticusWarhol 12y ago
I call those DUFFs - Designated UgLy Fat Friend
Red_Pill_302 12y ago
Also known as the grenade
TheYoungPatriarch 12y ago
Branch swinging/ Vine swinging:
Poon: <- you'd be surprised how many of my contemporaries don't know what this refers to
Id: <- CH uses this alot, I actually had to do research the first couple of times I encountered this. However, I don't see it often on TRP.
Harem:
Soft Harem:
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BrunoOh 12y ago
Incel - Involuntarily Celibate.
Could use with some elaboration. I'd add 'Person who wants to have sex or a relationship, but can't.'
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CH = cheateau heartiste
GFE = girlfriend experience? I don't even know what it means
Also, still unclear about HB designation; something about she thinks/acts she is the number?
Garl_Vinland Endorsed Contributor 12y ago
Added CH.
I believe that "The Girlfriend Experience" is something that you would pay a prostitute for, so rather than paying for sex, you would pay for the experience of her pretending to be your girlfriend. I don't think it's used often enough around here to belong on this list.
I'm not sure what would be the best way of expanding on the HB entry. If someone has a contribution to make here I'll add it.
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lord_of_vader 12y ago
I think the word you want is Solipsism. FYI.
TheYoungPatriarch 12y ago
SMP is actually Sexual Market Potential as stated in Rollo's graph on The Rational Male.
It is basically the potential value of a female at a given age as evaluated by a female, and vice versa the potential value of a male at a given age as evaluated by a female.
Your SMV at any given time is based on a number variables (height, weight, game, wealth, fitness), but your SMP at your age generally follows the graph.
I can't produce the link to the graph right now but I am sure someone can.
Garl_Vinland Endorsed Contributor 12y ago
Here Rollo is defining it as Sexual Marketplace.
TheYoungPatriarch 12y ago
I'll be damned. I had it in my head as P for Potential this whole time. Either way it makes sense I guess.
Zunscriii 12y ago
Maybe add bragplaining?
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AlphaAsFAQ 12y ago
Can I suggest a revision of:
Oneitis: A condition a man can have where he focuses all his attention on one girl as he believes "she is the one". This usually comes about where he thinks she is a unicorn, thinks he has limited options or is emotionally invested in her. Men entering an LTR usually get oneitis during the first 12 months of a new relationship, otherwise known as the honeymoon period.
Unicorn: A name given to a girl that is essentially perfect. Whilst this girl does not actually exist, there are a small number of girls out there that come close, so keep hunting. A man that has a case of oneitis will usually think he has found a unicorn.
munky82 12y ago
I have seen the reference called "horse": a woman that despite a few workable flaws is as close as what you might get to a unicorn. Labeling a girl a horse essentially means the girl is a LTR candidate, but you are aware of flaws/issues that you can manage without too much effort (because AWALT). Essentially a LTR without oneitis. Redpillwomen who have accepted the Captain/Shipmate dynamic are also horses.
Admittingly the term is shoehorned around unicorn, because calling a HB a horse feels weird.
AntixD 12y ago
good list,sidebar/stickied for while?
Donald_Fuck 12y ago
Excellent portrayal of 'the wall'.
AllMenDrip 12y ago
Agree & Amplify
Chad Thundercock:
cockblocker :
Divorce Rape :
female privilege :
Lifting :
Nice Guy :
Pussy pass :
omnipedia 12y ago
Also: AMOG, see it used on this group but no clue what it means.