Five years ago, I entered my apprenticeship at age of around 15. I began my path at the margins—socially isolated, overlooked both at school and work. Group projects reminded me of my place: others already partnered up, while I searched for a spot. I rarely spoke, even when my working colleagues were just meters away. I preferred messaging over speaking directly. I was not just quiet—I was invisible.
My grades reflected my mindset: mediocre, unfocused. I passed, but barely. During lessons, I found myself drifting through Reddit, where I stumbled onto r/TheRedPill. At first, I skimmed posts out of boredom. But over time, I returned with intention. Something in me wanted more—more out of life, more out of myself.
So I decided to test the philosophy.
I began with training—down in a basement, lifting pink 5kg dumbbells with no exact fitness plan, just the desire to change something. Weeks later, I noticed my arms tightening when I stretched. At first, I thought something was wrong. But then I realised, that it wasn’t pain, it was growth. Real muscle. For the first time in a long time, I felt proud.
In my second year, I started eating lunch with two classmates. At first, they ignored me—looked away when I spoke, brushed me off. And why wouldn’t they? I was no one. No friends, poor grades, no hobbies, no club membership. I hadn’t earned respect.
But one day, during lunch, we spoke about muscles and training. One of them showed off his lean arms. I flexed mine and they stared. I had more muscle than him. When asked, I said I trained “from time to time.” I didn’t explain how often. I let results speak.
As training became routine, I upgraded—bench, weights, structure. I began speaking more, listening better, locking eyes during conversations. I still wasn’t loud, but I was present. People responded. Peers began treating me with dignity. The silent outsider turned into someone worth noticing.
The Red Pill didn’t just teach me discipline—it gave me an understanding of status, discipline and most important, a framework for real-world respect. It reminded me that self-improvement earns attention. Not flashy words. Results.
Years later after my apprenticeship, I still talk to one of those two classmates. We built something real. I’m no longer drifting—I’ve taken control.
To those who post regularly, especially Vermillion-Rx: Thank you. You don’t know the lives you impact. But I promise you, you turned some really lost teenagers and young men into men with a direction. That matters. Thanks.
qzone 1mo ago
At times I find myself second guessing the red pill and all of my time spent learning about it. There are some concepts I struggle with buying into such as the dark triad stuff. That said, though I still have a lot to learn, my last few years of being familiar with many of the red pill concepts and implementing them have fundamentally changed my life for the better and continues to do so. I have fucked leagues of chicks I could have never imagined, a true dime wanted to spend the rest of her life with me, I left her for a beautiful and sexually adventurous girlfriend that I have now, I have earned the respect of those around me I could have never before, I have lifted more than I ever would have bothered to before, I have achieved professionally as I never could have without the redpill. I agree with MrSupreme in perhaps the biggest lesson I have taken from the redpill being owning my own shit. If my life is shit, it is my own fault and I am totally capable of doing something about it. And getting my ass in the gym. If guys take nothing else from the redpill, I hope they get their asses in the gym. The gym has changed my life almost as much as the redpill. I would just be careful referring to the red pill as a philosophy. It’s just not the best way to approach it mentally. Look more into Rian Stone for a better explanation than i could give on that. Thanks for your post brother, happy lifting.
IamCherryTree 1mo ago
Appreciate your input, brother. My bachelor studies is coming up soon – time to level up. I’ll definitely push harder than during my apprenticeship. Wishing you strength and success on your path.
MrSupreme 1mo ago
The single, most impactful benefit of TRP, for me, was self help, growth, inner game and a complete paradigm shift. I still have a problem when I take a bad habit or attitude, there is this inner wake up call, like my own cock telling me to man up, workout, be happy, be attractive and crush goals. I try my best every single day ever since, even if I'm not where I'd like to be yet, I have been before thanks to TRP and I will get there again. You're not done yet, none of us is, there is no finish line.
IamCherryTree 1mo ago
Yes, definitely. I will keep pushing and growing.