Be attractive
- get clothes that fits properly
- clothing color that matches your skin complexion
- learn to do laundry efficiently and effectively
- then hang your shit up right away (no wrinkles/fold marks)
- hygiene: nails, facial hair, including eyebrows
- find a fragrance you enjoy and wear it
- brush your fucking teeth, minimum of twice a day*
- have at least one clean pair of shoes for going out
- do something with your hair
- fix your posture*
- ...shower regularly
Basic shit that you don't have to do to pull pussy but women inherently notice. Giving you a slight advantage before ever opening your mouth.
It's not just about women. All people instinctively judge you first based on your appearance. The more presentable you are, the better you'll be treated off the bat.
Don't be unattractive
The life experience that hammered this home for me happened when I was just a young burn out;
Hair long, shaggy and unkempt. Dressed in ripped up pajama pants. Like jeans with holes in the knees. While exclusively wearing hoodies our local head shop tossed in for free! Assuming you dropped enough money on glass that month. Kush was my cologne.
Like any young stoner with his first debit card, I had issue with overdraft fees. The branch manager basically told me while yes my account is set up not to over draft, it's on me to make sure it remains in the green, so I'd be stuck with the $120 in fee for a pack of Dutches here. A candy bar there and a gallon of water before a disc golf tournament. Didn't even walk me away from the tellers. I was brushed off.
Walked into the same bank. For the same issue, with the same manager a month later. Approached with the same, polite mannerisms.
This time he took us back into his private office, got treated to snacks and a soda while he waved all my overdraft fees and apologized for the mix up. Explaining the same thing as before, but in a sympathetic tone. That was the exact outcome I had desired. Why was there such a dramatic shift in how I was treated?
The only thing that had changed was my appearance. I was coming from my first ever job interview. Wearing a button up, tucked into dress pants. A black tie to match. My hair put together and I definitely didn't smell like weed this time.
You should most definitely fix your posture and take care of your teeth for longevity, of quality of life.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1d ago
Sad that this post is needed but yes, some men NEED to read it
Thank you for posting it
MrSupreme 1d ago
I relate to "fix your posture". I remember starting my red pill journey reading Roissy and he had a few posts relating to the "alpha" way of standing like an ancient greek sculpture, posing for photos like Jason Statham, and the popular Vince McMahon walk. Of course, there was a point to be made and part of it is very comedic.
Thing is, i had to conciously remind myself every few minutes to stop hunching, fix my posture and walk in a more confident manner, It coincidentally helped me with my workouts as well because of the form needed.
Bozza 2 1d ago
Good post.
Looking good and fresh is important not just for attracting women, but also other aspects of your life - see: halo effect. Not to mention that dressing well makes you feel good about yourself and that translates into confidence.
Always dress sharp every time you leave the house, you never know who or what opportunity you might bump into.