Author: @CainPrice (Endorsed Contributor)
CainPrice:
Summary: Women live boring lives. Work, sleep, food, drink, internet, music, TV, and dating. That’s it. When you’re on a date and the woman seems boring because she’s waiting expectantly for you to say or do something that entertains her, that’s not because she’s boring. It’s because she’s bored. The root cause of women’s problems is that they’re bored and don’t know how to entertain themselves. They get on Tinder because they’re bored. They have casual sex because they’re bored. They go on dates with guys they’re not even interested in because they’re bored. If you can fix a woman’s boredom for a little bit, you’re in.
Men who frequently date often complain that the women they meet are boring. This doesn’t stop us from having sex with them, of course, but it does irritate some of us. Because when a woman is boring, the man feels like he has to carry the entire conversation and put on a dancing monkey act to entertain her, all for a chance at sex. If you’re the kind of man who gets laid often, this probably doesn’t seem that bad to you. After all, what’s a few drinks and talking with some girl from the internet for an hour before you go home to fuck? The kind of men who don’t get laid or get laid less often tend to complain about this more.
The root cause of this issue isn’t that women are boring, per se, but that women are bored.
Most men have hobbies. The average guy does stuff, whether he’s into fitness, cars, cooking, brewing beer, or whatever else floats his boat. Even lame, nerdy guys with weird couch potato hobbies that barely count as hobbies throw themselves into those activities with a passion. There are guys who can spout off baseball stats for hours and talk your ear off about the football teams for colleges they never went to, and nobody they know ever went to. There are guys who will talk for hours about their online roleplaying game character or play video games for eight hours straight. Even when our hobbies are shitty, men are passionate about them.
Women aren’t like this. They don’t have hobbies. The day of an average woman who has a job and an apartment involves working, eating, and sleeping. The high points of her day are what restaurant she stops at or orders from after work, who she talks to during her lunch break, and maybe watching TV, fucking around on the internet, or browsing on Tinder/Bumble during the evening. If she’s actively dating, maybe she meets a guy for drinks after work. If she’s close with her friends or coworkers, maybe she meets some of them for drinks after work. She pretty much lives for the weekend, where her activities consist of eating at restaurants, drinking at bars, dancing at clubs, listening to music, and watching television. Eat, drink, consume media, and sometimes hang with friends who are doing the same things. This is the life of a woman.
Can you imagine if all you did was work, sleep, eat, and go out for food and drinks on the weekend and maybe hope you met a girl? How cripplingly bored you would be? How you would never have anything to talk about and how empty your life would feel?
Women aren’t much different. Women are bored, and they have no idea how to entertain themselves. They are dependent on consumption to be entertained. Constantly consuming food, drink, and media. This is why your government panders to women, by the way. Happy women consume shit. It’s good for the economy. Happy men save money and retire early. That’s less good for the economy. Countries prosper more when you’re unhappy and spend your time trying to make women happy, usually by buying shit.
When you meet a woman for a first date, she’s not just boring. She is bored. She is looking to you to entertain her, because without you, all she does is work, sleep, eat, drink, and consume media. She doesn’t have any hobbies. Going on dates with guys like you is her hobby. This is what she does for entertainment.
When a girl you match on Tinder tells you “I just got on Tinder because I was bored”, she’s not lying to cover up her sluttiness. She’s telling you the truth. She was bored, so she got on Tinder. She browses pictures of guys because she’s bored. She has casual sex because she’s bored. She goes on dates with guys, even guys she’s maybe not that interested in, because she’s bored.
And on those dates, she stares at you and waits for you to entertain her.
Some internet guys get very angry about this. Usually guys who can’t get laid. They stamp their feet and scream that women aren’t worth it, and that no man should put any effort into entertaining women in exchange for sex.
But look at this from the other side. Women are bored. All they do is drink and consume media. Their life is literally empty without you. How hard is it to be a little interesting, a little fun, and a little entertaining when you’re sitting next to some bored chick whose only hobbies are listening to music and watching Netflix?
She is a blank slate. This is your opportunity to lead the conversation, to show a woman a good time when she is blitheringly bored and down for anything, and to literally get laid for having fun.
Remember, women are bored. When you see a girl in line at a coffee shop fucking around on her cell phone, this is not an important message from overseas. She’s not closing a major business deal. She’s just bored and fucking around. You walking up to her may be the most interesting thing that happens to her today. Even if you fuck it up and she laughs at you, you still may be the most interesting part of her day. How cool is that? By taking life by the reins and actually living it, you can be the most interesting part of any woman’s day.
Look decent, recognize when a woman is bored, and fix that for her, and getting laid is easy.
Lone_Ranger 3 12mo ago
This is on the mark.
Women are naturally bored. So what do you do with this information?
Be more exciting. Be a bit dangerous. Be impulsive and a risk taker.
When you chatting up a chick, be aware that she is probably only going to go back to your place if it forms part of an 'adventure' in which she made a few bad decisions. This is why they LOVE to fuck chad, but will not fuck some spergy norm that is going through some 7 part process to bed her.
This is why I don't recommend any approach that ends in 'can I get your number?'
Its not exciting. Its boring. Its predictable. Its a process that she has been through 100x before. All of your text messages.......boring.
Bring her on an adventure. Take control. Be exciting.
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No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Women get bored when they're with a man who doesn't lead. They don't care if what they do is exciting, as long as they're doing something. Bonus points if that something is actually exciting to them.
Men who ask:
get put in the "Boring" category because women can go where they want, do what they want, and eat what they want by themselves. The point of going out with a man is to do something different for a change.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
You know what? I have to disagree with him just a little.
It gets old eventually. Yeah, that shit is fucking awesome at first, but anything gets boring if you do it enough.
It's especially grating when so many wahmyns yammer on about how they're just as good as a man, yet lead vapid, empty, hollow lives that are completely devoid of any real substance.
This is also a small part of why so many men eschew marriage and commitment: if a woman offers zero actual value beyond sex (which she has already devalued by giving it to previous men), why the fuck would we want them in our lives for anything more than that?
For all that my wife caused me some troubles here and there (or I'd likely have never found the manosphere), at least she's willing and able to add value to my life beyond just sex.
If you're bored, you are boring.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Like most posts in TRP, I don't think it's supposed to be literal. Post (i assume) was intended to make a point to the audience at large. I can't speak for CainPrice but when i see posts like this I assume the author was just intending to get a broad point across to the masses with neglect to nuance.
I do think some of these posts are plagued with an element of not including exceptions or or nuance. I can assume they're written for a particular purpose or a particular line of thought.
For example, most women probably are doing what's described in the post. We all know a woman who snowboards or who has some interesting hobby. I try not to zero too hard into posts that were committed to informing the masses but i do agree there is a notable lack of devil's advocacy in OG posts or what they were trying to articulate
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
Fair enough.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 1y ago
Not sure I agree with all of this.
Some women, especially young women are boring, don't have hobbies. But, many do, especially when older, yes, I'm an old geezer. So, lets be fair on that. Most of the women I've dated, do arts/crafts stuff, workout/fitness, hike/bike, like to read, do gardening,etc.
Fully agree, Women do crave, fun, excitement, travel,etc. that's for sure. (most women). They also want you to help "entertain" them with it.
Totally agree, many women go on tinder/OLD to be entertained because they are bored. They go on dates , have casual sex, because they are bored, filling in free time. Many fully admit this.
So, I'd say, women basically need MORE entertainment, more fun, excitement than men do in general. They take advantage of men or turn to men to get that in many cases.
Also disagree that happy women consume shit. Yes they do, but unhappy women consume even more shit. Its true.
Women in general , need a man who calls them on their shit (won't put up with it). A man that's emotionally strong and someone who they respect/look up to. A man who's a leader, which includes having some fun/entertainment. It's part of the job.
Some women need a lot more than others.
Me, I choose the lower maintenance ones. Which generally are more chill, sane, vs insane.
MrSupreme 1y ago
Women are bored of their lifestyle, few of them do something about it,and many who do something just try to get assimilated into some other man's lifestyle.It doesn't really have to be a super exciting lifestyle,it is ideal ,but not limited to it.
I know a girl who is a complete normie,nothing about her stands out.When she was 18(she's 24 now) she found a good looking guy whose family has plenty of money.And she got totally assimilated into his lifestyle. The guy is a workaholic,like his family, and she now works with him at the family business, is bossed around a bit, even on her day off she has to take calls and send emails.They are ALWAYS together, gym, restaurants,work. only time she spends with her family is 1 hour in the morning and 1 hour before going to bed.
It's not an exciting lifestyle but it has things that interest her, a good looking guy and money.She may be bored but she's pretty committed to it all.