He didn't actually answer her question so I'll do it. For you see, there are women that are happily married and raising kids in the US right now. Some of them have blogs, books, youtube channels, twitter, facebook, etc. to teach women how to get and keep a man based on their experience and the passed down wisdom of women for thousands of years. They all pretty much say the same things:
No premarital sex
Learn how to make a house into a home.
Nurture your husband and children(aka cook and clean).
Submit to your husband's leadership, cooperate, and be pleasant.
Put out when he needs it rather than be selfish and deny his needs.
Get a little bit of God in your life and marry a Godly man.
Get in shape and stay that way.
Like is it just me or are these THOTs playing dumb? The info is out there. Women are literally born with a golden ticket and nature has seen to it that they can create life itself. I often wonder if they're just clowning us to see how far they can go...
I'm mystified why religious people always seem to want to squeeze god in there.
There is no need. I would say that your list is a bit out of date - we aren't all mormons and this isn't little house on the prairie.
For todays world, for example, its pretty unrealistic to expect 'no pre-marital sex'. I think you put in a few unrealistic demands, put in some un-desireable ones (the religion one) and then you missed a few important one (I'll add them in).
Here would be my take;
Don't be a slut. We all know what that means. Being a slut means sleeping around. The reason you shouldn't do that is that it will damage your ability to pair bond and reduce your libido in an LTR. Which means you won't be able to have a successful marriage.
Be clear with yourself about why you want a man. Men are fine with working and providing - they don't mind providing for a family....what they don't want to do is provide for a woman. Those are two different things. We are happy to work and earn to support a house hold, but we sure as shit don't want to work for leech.
If you want a masculine man, you are going to have to be a feminine woman. That is a simple and imutable law. Learn it, live it, breathe it. There is NO WAY you can be a masculine woman and wind up with a masculine man. At best, you might end up with a feminine man, but its quite unlikely.
You don't need to be 'in shape'. Men love their wives very much, if they are not a bitch. If we are in love with a woman, and she cares for our children, and supports, loves honours and obeys her husband, we will find you wildly attractive. Women think that going to the gym and getting ripped is going to give us a boner - it does not.
The God thing is for their hamster. I don't know why it works but it keeps their hamster in check. See, women need to be reminded to be thankful 5x/day or else they go nuts and take everything for granted, get bored, go off the rails, etc. Religion provides that with morning prayer, lunch, dinner, before bed, etc. Women also are solipsistic so they need guidance for that. It also provides a mythology that fits their need to have conflicting logic. Did you ever notice how secular women turn to astrology? It's in their DNA for some reason.
As for pre-marital sex, that's an absolute must. We have the stats on divorce for that. It's not in Chad's best interest but it is in the woman's best interest. Not to mention accidental pregnancies, STDs, emotional damage, pair bonding, MMV, etc.
Where are you going to find a virgin, of marriageable age, in the first world?
The only place you're likely to find one is one that has grown up in some sort of cult / sect. And then you are dealing with a whole other load of trauma and emotional damage.
Like what? I've had many friends that grew up in religious families and turned out fine. I think people project things on religion. My wife is Sunni Muslim and most people don't know what that is but they just think it HAS to be some kind of jihadist death cult because Taliban, Al-Qaeda, ISIS, etc. Or maybe it's some oppressive Saudi monarchy that doesn't allow women to go outside half naked.
You don't even need to be good at sex. You don't even need to be 'not fat'. I've had great times with fat girls. And I've had great sex with women that are crap at sex.
Women get this wrong all the time. They think that they are 'good at sex'. The only thing that makes a woman good in bed is if that woman really wants you to fuck her. That's it. The best looking woman in the world that doesn't want you to fuck her is not as good in bed as an average looking woman that is dying for your cock.
All you need to be is not a bitch. And to have genuine desire.
My life experience tells me that women who have been sluts in the past never have any libido. It's like a woman's libido is finite - she can spend it all in a few years. That's my experience. I'm older than most on this platform, and let me tell you this, the thing that is going to shock all these young dudes is how woman change as they get older. That foxy young thing that lusts after a good dicking when she was mid 20s? Yeah, she's not going to want anything to do with dick after the age of 40.
If you can't get Chad any more, better look for Tyrone, Pablo and Julio and the other gang who have come in to work hard while western men play video games because there is no point trying in life any more.
The problem is not they "can't find a man". It's "they can't find a man as attractive as the best one night stand they ever had", who's also willing to marry her.
As hoe_math likes to say, average and below men are "not people" and don't count when women say "I can't find a man".
Ain't like that's difficult. Passport bros have to invest a lot of time, effort and resources into actually doing their thing. All you have to do is give them an acceptable option at home.
The fact there are women seem to genuinely despair at the prospect of competing with men literally relocating their entire lives across oceans and continents is a greater condemnation of the state of western women than anything I could say on the matter.
I was in therapy with my ex wife and I said something that made the therapist go "that's a good point!"
I said something like "There's a whole world of pussy out there to fuck. I'd rather reach across the bed than go across the street. I'd rather go across the street than go across town. I'd rather go across town than go across the state."
Aye. It's simple economics. Harley Davidson doesn't need to make the best motorcycle in the world, it just need to make a functional, reliable bike and sell it cheaper than foreign manufacturers can afford with import fees.
Instead, just like western women, HD has opted to charge triple the machine's worth for the brand name.
To be pedantic, I would correct that and say 'the damage that feminism has inflicted on civilisation as opposed to 'society'.
You can have all sorts of societies. Cave men living in a cave bashing each other skulls in and raping any female they can is a 'society'. Fun fact - the technical term for a group of monkeys is a 'society' of monkeys. That's the word that zoologists use.
A 'civilisation' is what you get when you add learning, laws, technology (even simple stuff like the wheel and fire), order etc. You go from being retarded animals killing and raping each other into larger groups that are able to organise themselves in larger groups (the first cities). The history of mankind's evolution is the history of our 'civilisation technology' - the things that we were able to invent in order that we could have large groups of people that didn't just kill and rape each other all day long.
Feminism is a misguided fight against civilisation. If successful, it will result in a return to the stone ages.
That is what makes it so hard to understand - because the feminists are not going to enjoy what they achieve. They will find that they are getting beaten and raped on the reg, and that none of the males will share food with them.
the feminists are not going to enjoy what they achieve.
They're already starting to hate it, and they're just seeing the outcomes when men stop giving them preferential treatment. Wait until the predators come out of the woods.
They will find that they are getting beaten and raped on the reg, and that none of the males will share food with them.
If you intervene, you're lucky if you don't get assaulted by both of them.
A woman in an abusive relationship wants to be there.
There are numerous places she and her children can go to escape abusers.
There's an army of men with guns and the legal authority to use them just a phone call away, 24/7.
There's an army of white knights who will happily fight an abuser for the honor of m'lady if she just screams loudly.
Bert from accounting doesn't just come home one day and day "Hey Janice, you know how our 13 year marriage has been good, if a bit boring at times? Well I have an idea" and proceeds to beat the shit out of her. Abusers actually do come with labels, women just ignore them and play retarded.
I actually know a woman who moved to California to be with a man who has 5 kids from 5 different women (kids he doesn't see), a drug problem, and a penchant for domestic abuse.
It might shock you, but he got her pregnant, strung out, and beat her regularly. She ended up moving back here with her kid and all her dumb bitch friends welcomed her back with open arms.
I said "she'll be going back to him within the year."
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago Stickied
She asks the question, but I'm guessing that she doesn't want to any of the answer.
whytehorse2021 1mo ago
He didn't actually answer her question so I'll do it. For you see, there are women that are happily married and raising kids in the US right now. Some of them have blogs, books, youtube channels, twitter, facebook, etc. to teach women how to get and keep a man based on their experience and the passed down wisdom of women for thousands of years. They all pretty much say the same things:
No premarital sex
Learn how to make a house into a home.
Nurture your husband and children(aka cook and clean).
Submit to your husband's leadership, cooperate, and be pleasant.
Put out when he needs it rather than be selfish and deny his needs.
Get a little bit of God in your life and marry a Godly man.
Like is it just me or are these THOTs playing dumb? The info is out there. Women are literally born with a golden ticket and nature has seen to it that they can create life itself. I often wonder if they're just clowning us to see how far they can go...
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
I'm mystified why religious people always seem to want to squeeze god in there.
There is no need. I would say that your list is a bit out of date - we aren't all mormons and this isn't little house on the prairie.
For todays world, for example, its pretty unrealistic to expect 'no pre-marital sex'. I think you put in a few unrealistic demands, put in some un-desireable ones (the religion one) and then you missed a few important one (I'll add them in).
Here would be my take;
Don't be a slut. We all know what that means. Being a slut means sleeping around. The reason you shouldn't do that is that it will damage your ability to pair bond and reduce your libido in an LTR. Which means you won't be able to have a successful marriage.
Be clear with yourself about why you want a man. Men are fine with working and providing - they don't mind providing for a family....what they don't want to do is provide for a woman. Those are two different things. We are happy to work and earn to support a house hold, but we sure as shit don't want to work for leech.
If you want a masculine man, you are going to have to be a feminine woman. That is a simple and imutable law. Learn it, live it, breathe it. There is NO WAY you can be a masculine woman and wind up with a masculine man. At best, you might end up with a feminine man, but its quite unlikely.
whytehorse2021 1mo ago
The God thing is for their hamster. I don't know why it works but it keeps their hamster in check. See, women need to be reminded to be thankful 5x/day or else they go nuts and take everything for granted, get bored, go off the rails, etc. Religion provides that with morning prayer, lunch, dinner, before bed, etc. Women also are solipsistic so they need guidance for that. It also provides a mythology that fits their need to have conflicting logic. Did you ever notice how secular women turn to astrology? It's in their DNA for some reason.
As for pre-marital sex, that's an absolute must. We have the stats on divorce for that. It's not in Chad's best interest but it is in the woman's best interest. Not to mention accidental pregnancies, STDs, emotional damage, pair bonding, MMV, etc.
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
Where are you going to find a virgin, of marriageable age, in the first world?
The only place you're likely to find one is one that has grown up in some sort of cult / sect. And then you are dealing with a whole other load of trauma and emotional damage.
whytehorse2021 1mo ago
There are religious dating sites, matchmakers, Churches, social events, etc. There are also other countries.
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
Just as I said..... then you are going to be dealing with trauma of a different nature.
whytehorse2021 1mo ago
Like what? I've had many friends that grew up in religious families and turned out fine. I think people project things on religion. My wife is Sunni Muslim and most people don't know what that is but they just think it HAS to be some kind of jihadist death cult because Taliban, Al-Qaeda, ISIS, etc. Or maybe it's some oppressive Saudi monarchy that doesn't allow women to go outside half naked.
Problematic_Browser 1 1mo ago
It's so simple, it's tricky!
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
You don't even need to be good at sex. You don't even need to be 'not fat'. I've had great times with fat girls. And I've had great sex with women that are crap at sex.
Women get this wrong all the time. They think that they are 'good at sex'. The only thing that makes a woman good in bed is if that woman really wants you to fuck her. That's it. The best looking woman in the world that doesn't want you to fuck her is not as good in bed as an average looking woman that is dying for your cock.
All you need to be is not a bitch. And to have genuine desire.
My life experience tells me that women who have been sluts in the past never have any libido. It's like a woman's libido is finite - she can spend it all in a few years. That's my experience. I'm older than most on this platform, and let me tell you this, the thing that is going to shock all these young dudes is how woman change as they get older. That foxy young thing that lusts after a good dicking when she was mid 20s? Yeah, she's not going to want anything to do with dick after the age of 40.
First-light 1mo ago
If you can't get Chad any more, better look for Tyrone, Pablo and Julio and the other gang who have come in to work hard while western men play video games because there is no point trying in life any more.
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
fuck this black pill racist shit.
nicknack 1mo ago
just be thin, smile and be quiet. It’s that easy.
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
Or as @Vermillion-Rx says, 'Don't be fat and don't be a bitch'.
fskfsk 1mo ago
The problem is not they "can't find a man". It's "they can't find a man as attractive as the best one night stand they ever had", who's also willing to marry her.
As hoe_math likes to say, average and below men are "not people" and don't count when women say "I can't find a man".
Intrepid_Place53900 1mo ago
Yup,
forget about marrying, she can't find a guy at that level who's willing to put up with her attitude for more than a few months
woodsmoke 1mo ago
Simple: be a better option than going overseas.
Ain't like that's difficult. Passport bros have to invest a lot of time, effort and resources into actually doing their thing. All you have to do is give them an acceptable option at home.
The fact there are women seem to genuinely despair at the prospect of competing with men literally relocating their entire lives across oceans and continents is a greater condemnation of the state of western women than anything I could say on the matter.
Problematic_Browser 1 1mo ago
I was in therapy with my ex wife and I said something that made the therapist go "that's a good point!"
I said something like "There's a whole world of pussy out there to fuck. I'd rather reach across the bed than go across the street. I'd rather go across the street than go across town. I'd rather go across town than go across the state."
woodsmoke 1mo ago
Aye. It's simple economics. Harley Davidson doesn't need to make the best motorcycle in the world, it just need to make a functional, reliable bike and sell it cheaper than foreign manufacturers can afford with import fees.
Instead, just like western women, HD has opted to charge triple the machine's worth for the brand name.
Which is why I ride a Honda.
No-Stress-Cat 1mo ago
I don't know why you got downvoted, but you make a good point.
woodsmoke 1mo ago
I didn't, I just remove the automatic upvote on my own comments. I'm autistic like that. Or something.
No-Stress-Cat 1mo ago
There's nothing they can do. It's too late for them. It's going to take hundreds of years to repair the damage feminism has inflicted upon society.
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
To be pedantic, I would correct that and say 'the damage that feminism has inflicted on civilisation as opposed to 'society'.
You can have all sorts of societies. Cave men living in a cave bashing each other skulls in and raping any female they can is a 'society'. Fun fact - the technical term for a group of monkeys is a 'society' of monkeys. That's the word that zoologists use.
A 'civilisation' is what you get when you add learning, laws, technology (even simple stuff like the wheel and fire), order etc. You go from being retarded animals killing and raping each other into larger groups that are able to organise themselves in larger groups (the first cities). The history of mankind's evolution is the history of our 'civilisation technology' - the things that we were able to invent in order that we could have large groups of people that didn't just kill and rape each other all day long.
Feminism is a misguided fight against civilisation. If successful, it will result in a return to the stone ages.
That is what makes it so hard to understand - because the feminists are not going to enjoy what they achieve. They will find that they are getting beaten and raped on the reg, and that none of the males will share food with them.
Problematic_Browser 1 1mo ago
They're already starting to hate it, and they're just seeing the outcomes when men stop giving them preferential treatment. Wait until the predators come out of the woods.
"Not my wife, not my problem."
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
exactly.
I have recently started asking myself that question: what would I do if I saw a woman being harassed in public?
You can never really know what you do before you are in that situation, but I'm leaning more and more towards the position of doing nothing.
Problematic_Browser 1 1mo ago
If you intervene, you're lucky if you don't get assaulted by both of them.
A woman in an abusive relationship wants to be there.
There are numerous places she and her children can go to escape abusers.
There's an army of men with guns and the legal authority to use them just a phone call away, 24/7.
There's an army of white knights who will happily fight an abuser for the honor of m'lady if she just screams loudly.
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
"Abusers actually do come with labels, women just ignore them"
Incorrect. Women screen for abuser lables and actively seek them out.
Jimmy, accountant, steady job, no drug use, family values = Boring
Drug dealing Tyrone, 7x previous convictions, 5 babies with 5 different women, ex-hoe drama, gold capped tooth = Tingles
Ladies, make your choices. But don't then complain about your choices later on.
Problematic_Browser 1 1mo ago
I actually know a woman who moved to California to be with a man who has 5 kids from 5 different women (kids he doesn't see), a drug problem, and a penchant for domestic abuse.
It might shock you, but he got her pregnant, strung out, and beat her regularly. She ended up moving back here with her kid and all her dumb bitch friends welcomed her back with open arms.
I said "she'll be going back to him within the year."
Didn't even make it two months.
Lone_Ranger 1 1mo ago
There you go, a prefect real life example.
You can't fix broken hoes. All you can do is avoid them.
Problem people find each other. Broken hoes end up with deadbeat creeps for a reason. Birds of a feather flock together, as they say.