Hey guys, just letting you know I'm okay. Things with FWB are going well, she's all over my dick. It's like a switch flipped after that night she didn't wanna do anything and she wants to please me. Since then, every time we've seen each other she's wanted and allowed me to use her throat. So that's cool. I'm not doing any more hangouts with her family, and I understand the dynamics are fluid.
I know any energy I put into this will influence the power / interest dynamics one way or another. For example, hanging out with her while trying to build and maintain sexual tension then escalating later unlike her just meeting me in a parking lot to play a game of cards or two followed by a make out session leading into multiple bjs. It's experimentation to learn from test my frame in the process. This goes into my next topic.
I realize I'm wasting 95% of my time browsing r/seduction. It has blue pillers, purple pillers. Even with my RP knowledge and limited experience, I see the mistakes they're making. It's basic, basic, basic RP and seduction theory they seem ignorant of. They are making their first steps towards women, that's great and all, but it doesn't help me in my goals. The occasional field report could have a good takeaway, but I've done enough reading in general. Maybe just the RP side bar one more time and that's it. It's just intellectual masturbation at this point.
I need my own experience. Browsing TRP on reddit has lots of the same content rehashed from the top posts 5-9 years ago. Some of which deviates from the side bar and has a blue pill tone. Bottom line, I've just been reading too much. It's information overload so it's easy to fall into that trap. I need more experience. A good format has been me getting my experience then sharing the outcomes here. You guys give awesome feedback. Have you guys at any point ever did more reading than doing?
Have a good day gentlemen.
whytehorse2021 11mo ago
Yeah but I find myself missing an entire week from the forums as I implement the stuff I learn here. Just keep implementing, step-by-step. Eventually you won't have time for this crap and someone else will pick up the torch.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 11mo ago
Yes. Discovered TRP in 2016, even contributed to the reddit for 3 years, but still mentally masturbated and didn't do approaches or anything that really resembled applying what I was reading. There's such a thing as reading too much and not trying what you read in digestible steps to see what the nuance and application is
Knowledge is good but it's nothing of practical value if you have 20 game concepts floating around in your mind when you should really just be trying 1-2 at a time and figuring them out before moving on to additional information. It's just not feasible to deep read content without personally integrating any one particular set of ideas into application first.
Side note. Many of your posts would be better suited for the AskTRP side. Many seek some feedback and or would be more suitable for beginners on askTRP, even if the majority of the post is just a personal update with a single question at the end
https://www.forums.red/i/asktrp
imtranscending 11mo ago
This is huge.
Also good to hear.
Glad to see you modding. Im trying appropriately post in ask trp and use the correct flairs here. If I have a solid field report that ends with a question that could belong in asktrp, where should I post it?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 11mo ago
Right, let's say someone gave you all the knowledge in the world ever at once but they would only show it to you one time. But you could only remember what you apply in the next week. Would all the knowledge in the world mater any more? No, you would still lose almost all of it and what you could remember of it would be fragmented and unclear. Just focus on one or two things well. Max
Np. Flairs don't matter here remotely as much as they do in WAATGM. They just mostly help other users identify your posts better
Field Reports that result in solid results that also demonstrate a lot of skill for others to learn from, should go in RP
Field reports that are more choppy, full of a lot of mistakes, and not really boast-worthy should go in askTRP "field report question"
If you're looking for feedback or there is inexperience in the post, AskTRP
mattyanon Admin 11mo ago
It's not been good for over a decade.
You are becoming a "keyboard jockey".
It happens.
Get out there more. It's that simple.