I‘ve been seeing this latina chick for quite a while now, on and off for about a year. Sex is great, she cooks, she treats me very nice, spends money on me (she sells nudes/socks etc. lol) and I usually like to spend time with my plates and do other fun stuff we both enjoy. Recently she started talking about her exes quite often or mentioning them. It doesn‘t bother me in terms of emotionally because I absolutely do not intend to LTR her ever but it pisses me off her talking about how all her exes were toxic and there are no good guys around anymore. How do I approach this? I like spending „quality“ time with my plates and I don‘t want to lose frame by telling them to stop.
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coolsocks00 1 3y ago
You dont lose frame by telling her to stop, you lose frame when you dont and she talks about whatever crap she wants to.
Unstirred0067 3y ago
So you are her emotional tampon or her girlfriend?
She's telling you, that her exes where bad alphas and she is feeling out your comforting beta site.
Do you spin other plates or is she the only one? Somehow you came off to her like some comfort fuck.
karlmarx123 3y ago
I used to spin 3-4 plates regularly, due to uni/work I am unable to keep up with it and also currently don‘t have a huge desire to spend huge amounts of my time spinning various plates. But you are right, she is currently the only one and I‘m doing it wrong. I‘ll definitely have to adapt. Thanks
Problematic_Browser 1 3y ago
Ignore them - don't respond, don't empathize, just ignore it until she changes the topic. If they're doing what you want, let them sport bitch.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Reward good behaviour and punish bad behaviour. You reward them with attention and punish them with no attention.