I know when a girl bumps into you generally it a huge IOI because its a mixture of both touch and proximity. Two surefire signs of attraction. But in a club atmosphere, I generally feel that its bound to happen here and there. Is it generally a sign to dance with them or start conversation?
Obviously excluding instances where there is no walking room, and body contact is inevitable on the dancefloor for example or a crowded room. But even then some girls seem to exaggerate the contact by rubbing their nipple on you or ass, or pressing their bodies into you instead of lightly grazing.
No-Stress-Cat 2y ago
Chick bumps into me, I'm checking to see if I still have my wallet.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
I assume your in like an EDM or hip hop club?
This almost never happens at the country dance clubs I go to. There are generally other IOIs such as smiles and eye fucking you when you dance with other women
I can't recall a time a woman bumped into me on purpose. Usually they will just be in proximity, not bump you. I've seen women stand next to me and linger when I'm standing outside the dance floor and generally I think it's on purpose because they just about always say yes when I ask them to dance if they don't ask me first.
No idea what club type you go to buy generally that's not my experience. They don't accidentally bump, it's possible they do, but I have almost no recollection of women bumping into me
Problematic_Browser 1 2y ago
Usually it's just because clubs are crowded.
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mattyanon Admin 2y ago
The problem is that you are scared to escalate, scared to find out. You are looking for certainty because you are afraid to talk to girls.