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mattyanon Admin 1y ago

Surefire body language signs she likes you?

There are no surefire signs and the fact that you're looking for them shows a weakness within you.

I know if they go out of their way to talk to me/touch me, or stare at me it is safe to ask them out.

Nope.

There is no such thing as safe.

Sometimes it's to manipulate you, sometimes the attraction is fleeting.

EVEN IF SHE LIKES YOU IT DOES NOT MEAN YOU'RE SAFE. Women will often be attracted to guys, and then blame the guy later while skipping the part she played in the interaction.

Anyone know any secret body language signs?

The best clues are the girl going out of her way to be near you without any other reason to do so, and with nothing to gain from doing so.

Recently missed the chance to ask out a really cute girl that kept staring at me

Maybe she liked you, maybe not...... you need a gameplan for taking risks.

First of all know that your job is 100% on the line here.

Here's a suggestion:

First change the subject away from work stuff. "Hey, you seem like fun, are you from around here?" (If she doesn't bite, it's a no-go)

Second talk about yourself outside work, maybe a fun thing you did reccently in the area (If she doesn't bite again, it's a no-go)

"Look, I never do this, but maybe we could meet up sometime and do X thing" (If she's interested she'll make this really easy..... if not then slide off back into work stuff)

amazonri 1y ago

Proximity is said to be the biggest sign, because shes giving an opportunity for you to start something. Dont get this confused with attention seeking.

Second biggest is touching, like her touching you. She will usually bump her body into you too. I have noticed the greatest sign of accidental touching is rubbing their breast on you or pressing her ass against you on "accident"

For example: Girl at bar bumps into you 2 times during the night. As you go out for a smoke, she comes out a minute later and is in your proximity. If you usually ignore her at this point, she will think youre not attracted or a "bitch", she will start pursuing someone else that night with the same IOI's and go for second best guy to fuck.

Bozza 1y ago

Some classic ones:

Stares at you when you aren't looking
Quickly looks away and acts nervous when making eye contact
Eyes "light up" when talking to you
Signs of nervousness when talking to your (constantly touching hair, unsure what to do with her hands, awkward pose etc.)
Looks you up and down, looks at your chest, arms etc.
Alternates eye contact between you eyes and lips
Extremely invested in what you're saying, hangs on to every word
Excessively agreeable with whatever you say, laughs at things that aren't funny
Hovers close to you with no reason to do so

Something to note is that some girls will appear very standoffish or aggressive, but they will very subtly display one of the signs above.

There was a girl I knew who would always ignore me. If I walked past her and said hey she would completely blank me and never make eye contact. Like I was invisible. But I would always catch her staring at me out of my peripheral vision.

I bumped into her in a bar one time with some mutual friends and after breaking down her bitch shield, she was all over me. She admitted she was extremely attracted to me but got too nervous.

Over time you'll pick up a 6th sense for it and you'll just know when they're attracted to you.