(Yesterday) Escalated and made out with blonde on campus-->made plans for today only for her to cancel this morning | Getting confused by all this | TheRedPill

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(Yesterday) Escalated and made out with blonde on campus-->made plans for today only for her to cancel this morning | Getting confused by all this

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I randomly text blonde (lets call her H) "Come to the game room. We've only texted 3 times since that night dancing with the orbiters. She arrives as I make a shot, I'm indifferent though. I don't immediately hug her. I then hug to gage interest and say hello, she gives a good hug. Convo starts of already sexy, her: idk what to draw on the board me: I do (grin) her: oh my god. I'm still shooting by myself while she draws, cleaning up the table. I go to her and make fun of her flower as she draws more. I'm already escalating the kino. I don't give a fuck, my hand's wrapped around her lower back and side a little. We're playing and ex-classmate tries to break, I let him. He dinks it, asks to go again and I deny.

Blonde and I are kinoing so much while playing, my hand even grazed her ass by accident. Flirting a bit and I'm balancing my push with pull. She oddly starts singing to the music edm festival/clubby songs I'm playing and I ask her where she heard em. She doesn't say till I ask again and told me that she's been to some festivals. Now she DOES NOT have the 1000 cock stare, and guess even innocent girls wanna have fun. (Also remember last FR with her she said she hasn't kissed many people).I lose by 8 ball. Game over and she says "I have go to work soon, I don't wanna go." We still got time, me: Let's go for a walk. her: okay.

Time to stop being a fucking dancing monkey. Now I'm leading her by the hand on and off out the game room and up some stairs and now we're at a 2nd floor stairwell. Walking up it, at one of the turns I grab her hand and give her a spin out, then a spin back in close to me. Now she's close, my hands on her lower back. I do the triangle look at each eye then lips and then I lean in to kiss her. We start kissing, and she's actually kissing back. Kiss for 7 seconds before I break it off. Then I race her up the last flight of steps. Walking 1 circle around the nearly empty third floor (no hand holding or any relationship vibey stuff).

I sort of speed walk race her down the hallway to the stairwell again, lots of giggles from her. Back at the stairwell we jump 3 steps together holding hands onto one of the stair turns. I give her another spin into me and we kiss a second time, her hands on the back of my head and I'm feeling her ass now. Holy fuck, it feels so good (she a phenomenal ass and legs from running). I break away and kiss her one more time on the last flight. Walking out and to our cars I make plans in person to go bowling with her Friday (tomorrow). Real quick, do you think blonde knew what was up when I told her to walk with me?

This morning H texted to cancel. “Hey, turns out I’m busy tonight. Sorry” I thought this might happen. Before I was feeling proud of for of my effort and still still detached. But I started allowing myself to get excited for tonight's date. Now I feel the sting and have been allowing myself to feel some sadness. I'm just reminded that I am alone, it's a bigger problem not caused by this girl. Do I reschedule and does the Brad Pitt rule apply here? Wtf is going on, maybe she’s just not into me.

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alexson 10mo ago

I've only read half of it and I can't keep reading this story anymore. world of mario

whytehorse2021 1y ago

It seems like you had a flirtatious and physical interaction with the blonde woman ("H") in the game room and stairwell, and you were looking forward to a date with her. However, she canceled on you, which has left you feeling disappointed and questioning the situation.

First of all, it's important to remember that not all interactions and relationships go as planned, and that's okay. It's natural to feel some sadness and disappointment when things don't work out the way we hoped, but it's also important to not take it personally or make assumptions about the other person's feelings or intentions.

In this case, it's possible that H genuinely had a change in her schedule or other unforeseen circumstances that caused her to cancel the date. It's also possible that she may not be as interested as you thought, or that she may be unsure about pursuing a romantic relationship with you. It's important to respect her decision and not try to force or pressure her into rescheduling or continuing a relationship if she's not interested.

As for rescheduling and the "Brad Pitt rule," it's ultimately up to you and what you feel comfortable with. The "Brad Pitt rule" is a guideline that suggests not investing too much emotional energy into someone until they've shown consistent interest and investment in return. If you feel like H has shown genuine interest in you and the cancellation was just a one-time thing, you could consider rescheduling and giving it another shot. However, if you feel like there's been mixed signals or lack of consistent interest from her, it may be a good idea to reassess the situation and consider if it's worth pursuing further.

It's also important to remember that being alone is not necessarily a problem. It's okay to be single and focus on yourself, your own growth, and your own happiness. Don't define your self-worth or happiness solely based on whether or not someone else is interested in you or wants to date you. Focus on taking care of yourself, pursuing your own interests, and being open to genuine connections without putting too much pressure on any one particular person or outcome.

In summary, it's normal to feel disappointed when a date gets canceled, but it's important to not take it personally and respect the other person's decision. Consider rescheduling if you feel like there's genuine interest, but also remember to prioritize your own well-being and happiness, regardless of your relationship status.