Why does every girl want to be choked in sex? | TheRedPill

In Thailand we had a saying that you eventually end up with the type women you're into. Some guys will end up with chicks who want anal... some with chicks who want oral... B&D... S&M... I had to quit going out because I'd always end up with married sluts trying to get alpha seed, ladyboys, or street walkers that like getting raw-dogged.

Rastaredpill 2y ago

Because they probably evolved to like being raped honestly. There was no consent back in the day and most men probably took what they wanted from women. Women are into restraints (handcuffs, being tied up, hair pulling, choking etc).

OBVIOUSLY don’t rape anybody lmao, but you’re right it’s so common it’s practically ubiquitous and that’s why I think it is

nicknack 2y ago

The reason men made rape illegal was because we didn’t want our daughters mothers and sisters being raped.

millionairegymrat 2y ago

You're perhaps more right than you even realize, especially in terms of "our" daughters.

https://www.etymonline.com/search?q=rape

Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 2y ago

That's a sign of an ultra-mega-slut and a broken bitch. Out of all my exes, only one ever asked for that (and got mad that I wouldn't). I've been with several sluts for whom normal sex was still plenty great, and whom I doubt would have wanted that.

Are you finding all of them on tinder? Or what?

Might be time to change venues.

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Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 2y ago

Tattoos actually don't bother me, as long as certain conditions are met (not too many, easily hidden by clothing, etc.).

Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago

Agreed @LARamz, I don't know if I've actually ever had a woman insist she be choked.

I've had all but one girl enjoy it. But ask for it outright or be unable to enjoy without? Hasn't happened

If this is happening to you you have to ask yourself why

mattyanon Admin 2y ago

Strongly disagree.... they ALL like to be choked, sluts and less experienced girls alike.

My all time favourite wasn't a slut and liked to be choked more than any of them.

Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 2y ago

A) we might be using different definitions of "slut"

B) I'm not into it at all, so I have never tried to do it to any of mine. I had one ask and get mad that I didn't, and she was tied for sluttiest woman I'd ever been with despite being a husband-hunting chameleon. All the other women I've ever been with, just regular sex was plenty. Maybe if I had attempted it, they'd have been into it, but I'll never know.

Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago

I agree, they all like it (had one that didn't, she was a rape victim go figure)

At any rate, how many of them ASK you to choke them, like they take the initiative to ask you? I choke all of mine (safely ofc), but I've only ever had one just randomly be like "oh yeah it would be hot if you choked me" or something to that effect.

It's a rarity for them to come out and say it unprompted as OP suggested, how often does that happen to you?

mattyanon Admin 2y ago

Once a few ask for it you start casually mentioning it or doing it and then you find out that most love it.

How many asked me? A few.... but others would if I hadn't iniated it... my all time fave girl would beg for it.

Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago

I just do it by default. I don't get complaints. The one girl that didn't like it still showed me how to do it properly

I've had one ask for it. Must just be a numbers game

MidgetSpinner 2y ago

You'll know if they like it or not even if you just gently place your hand near or around their throat, because they'll give you an audible/physical sign. Failing that, you can just ask them but women hate to be asked on some level because it takes them out of the moment, and being in that moment is what makes great sex great.

Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago

Nah. That's not what I'm getting at. Trying to choke them works without fail 90% of the time.

I'm asking Matty how many chicks are out there outright asking him for it before he's ever done it with a particular girl

That never happens to me

MidgetSpinner 2y ago

Probably not many unless the girls know exactly what they want and they've got a bit of a dominant personality.

jindo1517 2y ago

This might be a stupid question, but something I've wondered. Have you (or others) found that girls who like to be choked also like to be slapped in the face during sex?

MidgetSpinner 2y ago

Yeah, but not Ultimate Slapping League style. Just little cheeky slaps to test the water.

mattyanon Admin 2y ago

dominance

MidgetSpinner 2y ago

It's because girls are naturally submissive and deep down want to be used and treated like whores (in the bedroom). Basically, they want to feel desired so much that the man is almost uncontrollable with lust - it's also partly an ego thing, it gets them off knowing how much you want them. That's basically it. It's also the reason why I've got away with a lot of first time encounters leading to sex, because I had the confidence to go for what I want in an aggressively sexual way, while being attractive and congruent (not creepy). That is what most girls desire: a dominant, attractive man who knows what he wants, confidently taking what he wants (i.e, her). You could say it's bordering on rape, but it's not rape obviously. It's rape if you're autistic, and can't tell if women are attracted to you or not and yet you try it anyway, and/or don't understand the word "no". Which is why I mentioned being congruent, meaning being socially aware and also self-aware. Anyway, that is just a fundamental, deeply primal fantasy most women have and a lot of men can't fulfil it because it takes massive fucking balls and social intelligence to pull off.