I know the answer is scarcity mind set, but this is something im trying to work on. I have hard time taking women off a pedestal. For example - say i meet a women who i don't really like or has red flags or is disrespectful. Most strong men would have no problems just blocking and going on with their lives. But i seem to have a hard time letting go of women. Maybe i put them on a pedestal too much? What is the cause of this? Even women who are whores i don't treat as whores and always something more. I'm too overly nice.
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No-Stress-Cat 3y ago
You could do it the hard way like me and get burned a couple of times. I wouldn't recommend it though.
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Einsamer 3y ago
If you struggle, here's some tip: regulary reflect on how you would treat a woman of she were a guy friend / acquaintance. The same whenever she texts you something and you are thinking about how to reply - then just think "if she were my good friend's guy friend, how would I treat him?" and act accordingly.
coolsocks00 1 3y ago
Yes.
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