Hi, because i'm busy right know, i'm back at using Instagram to game some girls. I meet a girl there, in 1 week I've seen her naked, everything there was to see. I wanted to watch a movie so i though it was a great opportunity to meet with her. In this 1 week she also told me she dated a guy for 4 years but know dumped him last month. We meet and go for the movies, we grouped each other during the whole movie. After that we went for a walk (night time), trying to find a chill place to hang out (that kind of hang out), we find a dark place and immediately start making out and touching each other but it was a bit busy, we went back to the parking lot (it's a dark place with no one around) and went to the back seat of my car. We talked for a bit and then i casualty started touching her tits, after that we did some nasty stuff. Because i'm an idiot i didn't bring a condom, i wanted to have as much fun as i could with her but save the sex for the next date, it's kinda like dessert, i like to save it for later. But that was dumb, we were so horny that i almost asked for sex and i know she would say "please" if i asked. But we didn't had sex, just finger and mouth action. We had a blast and she wanted to make plans to go for a motel next time however, the next day she was weird, very dry answers, she said she was just in a bad move, i shrugged it off and ignored it. The next day when i was planning on what motel to take her but she seemed hesitant, she didn't even sent me a nude that day, i asked her what was wrong and basically she was feeling remorse because of her ex, because we were moving to fast for someone who just got out of a relationship.
Honestly i don't know what that means. Is she just trying to downgrade me to an orbiter or something? or is she genuinely confused? At least i learned to always have a condom.

mattyanon Admin 3y ago
Yeah, that really sucks when girls do that.
She either wants to get back with her ex....
Or you have shown too much commitment and provider-behaviour and this is triggering "make him wait" feelings, causing her to backtrack on sex stuff.
My guess is that she, for once, is telling you something like the truth. Not used to seeing other guys, might want her ex back, might just not feel like diving into something new right now.
But whatever is going on, your response is the same: she has backed off a bit, so you back off a bit further........ longer gaps before responses, don't be her texting buddy, give her space, invite her out again sometime, FIND OTHER GIRLS.
coiso 3y ago
Did that, asked her a week later to go out she said she couldn't, her car was being fixed, didn't even know if it would be fixed before the weekend. Told her when she gets her car fixed and if she wants to do something to text me, maybe i'll have some free time. Stopped following on social media, deleted her number and messages (so i don't get tempted to text her back).
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coiso 3y ago
I can't. Don't have a place of my own and neither does she.
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coiso 3y ago
I don't know if u're joking but i'll assume u're not. I'm not a chad, i don't know what a chad is to you, but if getting instagram girls means one is a chad, than not only i am not one but a guy that has a kink for fat girls and gets alot of them on social media is a chad too. Man are manly on their own way, you gotta find yours, don't try to be like everyone else, try manly things and see what works for you. I got really lucky with this girl, i get 0 luck on instagram, maybe 1 girl per year max, that's why i stopped in 2022. If i went to the gym and ranked up to a 7, i would still get little luck on social media. If it doesn't work for you, accept it and try something else. If u're blind from one eye don't cry about it, accept it, grow a beard and wear a badass eyepatch, i dont know.
No-Stress-Cat 3y ago
Just ignore her until she comes around. Go find the next chick. You did it once, you can do it again.
coiso 3y ago
Done that, deleted her number, messages and stopped following her on social media. I'm talking to another one now, let's see if i get lucky.