Not enough context here. Women will use men to study from and pass their classes so that they have more free time to party and fuck /suck the bad boys / athletes. Is this a girl you expressed physical attraction for already and made it clear you want to fuck her or does she think you’re a friend she can use?
If it’s the former, right before you meet up suggest that you get a coffee together first before jumping into studying. Use this as your date, as the study part will kill the sexual vibe. Get a conversation going while getting / drinking coffee (finish it before studying), so when you do sit down to study, you keep that convo going, and say it’s kind of difficult to continue this conversation in this quiet library come over to my place we can study there.
Ideally you’re in that library 15 minutes tops, between your cofeee date and the date at your place.
I basically approached her in class. I got her number. Over the past couple of weeks, she's been texting me questions like "I missed class. What did we do?". I haven't been texting her at all keep in mind, and I've been keeping my response times at 10-15 hours.
I don't think she expressed physical attraction to me deliberately. I'm like a Mid tier normie - high tier normie range on a good day.
I was thinking of studying in the apartment lobby, but instead, saying let me show you my apartment, and then from there, lean in and kiss her, and obviously escalate.
nicknack 1y ago
Not enough context here. Women will use men to study from and pass their classes so that they have more free time to party and fuck /suck the bad boys / athletes. Is this a girl you expressed physical attraction for already and made it clear you want to fuck her or does she think you’re a friend she can use?
If it’s the former, right before you meet up suggest that you get a coffee together first before jumping into studying. Use this as your date, as the study part will kill the sexual vibe. Get a conversation going while getting / drinking coffee (finish it before studying), so when you do sit down to study, you keep that convo going, and say it’s kind of difficult to continue this conversation in this quiet library come over to my place we can study there. Ideally you’re in that library 15 minutes tops, between your cofeee date and the date at your place.
craftsmanmindset 1y ago
I basically approached her in class. I got her number. Over the past couple of weeks, she's been texting me questions like "I missed class. What did we do?". I haven't been texting her at all keep in mind, and I've been keeping my response times at 10-15 hours.
I don't think she expressed physical attraction to me deliberately. I'm like a Mid tier normie - high tier normie range on a good day.
I was thinking of studying in the apartment lobby, but instead, saying let me show you my apartment, and then from there, lean in and kiss her, and obviously escalate.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
with lots of small steps.
touch her, then tell her off for enoying it and tell her to concentrate
bail to a bar near your place. bob into your place "to get something". Keep her moving until it's a small easy step to get to yours.
if she likes you she'll be down.
craftsmanmindset 1y ago
What do I do if she's hesitant to go to apartment? Do I push for it or do I immediately scale back?
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Flip the script..... "But you gotta wait outside".
Be chill/cool low pressure, realise that 95% of it is stranger danger, put her at ease while also taking none of her shit.
craftsmanmindset 1y ago
Flipping the script is smart. It's like suggesting the opposite while also pursuing your goals. Damn. How did you learn that one?
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Old school PUA.
It's really great for disarming her and putting you back in control.