What everyone else said. Also practice makes perfect

You probably have weak frame(putting them above you) and fail shit tests.

People hit 25 % above their own SMV on average.

https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/08/online-dating-out-of-your-league/567083/

This is a pretty common issue. You have to quit this habit of ranking women and comparing yourself with them. Whether you place her beneath or above you in your subjective evaluation of yours and hers SMV is completely irrelevant. Dont let your ego get in your way.

Think about having sex. It's fun, it feels good, and it's a great stress relief. Now when you think about a girl, consider only: do you want to fuck her, or not? There's nothing more to it. Some girls might not be the quality of girl you can see yourself long term with - so fucking what. That's not even on the table!

Find yourself some average cutie that's sorta your type. Maybe she's a quirky introvert. Maybe she's a nerd, secretely wanting to hook up with someone like you, you awkward stud. Teach her to suck your cock exactly how you like it, and just experience how it's like to have abundance and not have to rely on your soft manbaby hands for sexual relief for once in your life.

And go from there.

It’s all about looks, money, status and game. If you’re not getting what you want, you’re lacking in one of these areas.

Maybe you’re not being honest about your looks or your financial situation. But let’s assume you’re well-to-do and in good shape. Still it’s possible that you have either bad game or not enough social proof.

It’s really hard to tell what’s wrong with you just by reading your own assessment, however it’s much easier to find out during a coaching session. That’s because usually the problem is something very obvious to anyone but you’re the only one who can’t notice it.