Asked this girl out 3x she'll like the message but ignore me the day of. But then she'll text me first and ask lots of questions. Is this a soft next or a hard next. Should I say something so she knows what she did wrong? I've stopped talking to her before and waited for her to text me and she did, but still ignored plans. What to do? Do I drop completely? She a 8.5.
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Move on. There's not even anything to soft next man.
How do you even soft next a girl that won't even see you? She's already rejected you. You can't even soft next her because she doesn't even want to see you in the first place.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Give girls anything between 1 and 3 strikes (depending on quality of chick and attenuating circumstances). Hard next, attention is not free.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Lol. Hard next
Baron-von-Batman 1y ago
She's an attention whore and you're giving her your time and attention for free. 3 strikes and you're out, although I usually only give them the one chance, two if extenuating circumstances.
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