I just read a Facebook post by a woman, with hundreds of likes, saying "I hate it when a n***a post himself... wannabe seen ass bitch"

I posted a selfie of mine and it received likes from a number of women who follow me — who are not my friends

For this photo though, I only want to draw the attention of one girl I have in mind. It's a side profile selfie showing a strong angle of mine, looking out a window.

Since this girl lives in another country (we can see each other in the future) I want her to see this picture, but I don't want her to think of me as a bitch.

What should I do? She has sent me nice pictures of herself spontaneously. Would it be gay to do the same? She hasn't seen my stories yet due to timezone difference.