for context im 17 (almost 18 now) , been lifting , meditating (started recently ) , journalling , studying i am talking to this girl htb 7 , my kinda type , we have similar goals and stuff , but my main issue here is that because i dont use any social media i think she's talking to other guys which makes me feel like a bitch
should i make a social media? i had one before and i was a consumer of it honestly , didnt use it for anything productive mainly just used to watch fitness reels , funny vids etc and would waste hours talking to my "friends".
tried cold approaching but rejected back when i was ugly which did give me ptsd lol , i kinda want to get pussy but also make progress with my primary life goals side by side too
so im not khv , i have a lot of trouble escalating and in the past when girls did want to hook up with me i used to be a bitch and back out cause i had the oneitis syndrome
andreen 3mo ago
Cold approaching and rejection can be challenging experiences, but they are part of the learning process. Building confidence and resilience is key. Focus on self-improvement, continue working on your watermelon game goals, and the confidence will likely follow.
mytom2 4mo ago
@wordle nytimes My advice to you is to see a specialist for more thorough advice on this issue. It will be really helpful to you.
bekean 7mo ago
I think you should carefully consider the wordle decisions you make because it will have many serious consequences.
celinedion 8mo ago
Which is fantastic. If you feel that social media can help you connect with people and build relationships, immaculate grid then it might be worth exploring.
qfqads 1y ago
now that you are pretty, you can try to become a woman. Just go out with woman's clothing and makeup, and see if any of your guy friends hit on you.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Haven't had social media at all since 2016
Averaging one lay a month rn without gaming hard. Like some nights I go out I only hang out with friends
You just go out and apply game as suggested. Time and experience help you get lays, same night pulls etc
There a million resources on game so I won't go into depth but game works as suggested if you have the social intelligence to know when to use it and how, lift (girls like muscle A LOT, never listen to a woman that says she doesn't care about muscle) and dress well, and are in a great mood when you're out gaming
Social proof helps too. Girls seeing you talking to other girls helps
fumbor 1y ago
That's crazy. No social media? We play two completely different games.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I hate social media, it's just such a time waste and you see all the interactions girls you like are having with other dudes etc, it is such a total destructive force on your game and head space to have social media
Edit: I will reply to you other comment, haven't gotten to it
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coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Social media is a double edged sword. It's a great tool for social proof, but it can also be a huge waste of time.
If you want to use it, make sure you are the one marketing, not the one being marketed to. I.e. you use it to post and connect; not to view others content.
You can safely assume any girl that isnt very into you, is talking to other guys. Nothing to feel down about, that's just life. Do the work, show sexual intent, dont give your attention for free.
Keep reading the sidebar.
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fumbor 1y ago
A good social media page with social proof is very helpful though . A blue checkmark is instant pussy
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fumbor 1y ago
Yeah but if you're not a pleb irl and have a large social media following on top of it, it's another way to run game. Not necessary by any means but look at Tristan Tate's IG
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
This guy is a troll, no use arguing.
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fumbor 1y ago
Yep that's the end goal 2 decades from now. Plenty of time
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Social media is dying off fast. I remember when America Online(AOL) was all the rage, then it died. Then Yahoo Chat was a thing and died. Remember Tinder? Dead. Now it's Instagram and tiktok. I bet nobody here remembers Craigslist personals.
You get laid without social media like this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_LkGAGUdFhk
Todd_From_BrBa 1y ago
I want to make a response that is for my own benefit primarily but since you're 17, I will say something for your benefit first and foremost:
Watch a video or two on youtube about "fatFIRE" or "leanFIRE" and make a commitment once you finish college or trade school to immediately start planning for retirement.
Now with that out of the way, I'd like to draw attention to what you said that made me stop reading:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non_sequitur_(fallacy)
When I read stuff like this, I just assume everyone on the internet is lying (which is the safest way to protect your brain from falling out of your skull). My eyes look at the words on the page and try to make sense of what I'm reading. My eyes passed along the message to my brain which processed the information and my brain "rejected" the message and sent it back to my eyes (which for simplicity, we'll refer to as the visual cortex):
My eyes were tasked to confirm whether or not I accurately read the following:
My eyes (which perceive reality by processing the world visually) responded to the part of my brain which makes sense of information once it has been processed by the visual cortex has determined that "no, this cannot possibly be what the person wrote -- the eyeballs have committed an error, please try again" and my eyes were asked for a 3rd time to verify that the words coming from this website indeed say the following:
My eyes and visual cortex have indeed confirmed, yet again, that this sequence of 21 words actually exist and someone on the internet wrote these 21 words as they seem to have been written. The part of my brain which tries to make sense of what my eyes/visual cortex have interpreted refuses to believe that the eyes/visual cortex have not ran into an error or "glitched out" in some weird way.
In summary, thank you for these 21 words which have given me an aneurysm:
I'm glad to have learned something new today. It's been a wonderful cranial experience.
johnrosep 3mo ago
Upon careful observation, my eyes and visual cortex have reaffirmed the existence of this sequence of 21 words on the internet, seemingly composed by someone. However, the cognitive part of my brain struggles to accept that there hasn't been a visual error or an unusual "glitch" in the eyes/visual cortex interpretation. https://videoconvertitore.com/