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I understand how you're feeling. I never minded eating pussy out, years ago. But I also stopped years ago (mostly because an encounter with a certain vagina that grossed me out). That being said I felt an instinctive need to not do it anymore. I guess what makes a woman suck your dick (feelings of desire and admiration) will cause her to associate it with what you are feeling for her. Think about it, the position implies inferiority. You may not reason this way, but somehow in your subconscious (and hers) that thought is lurking there. I have a policy in life whereby if the risk outweighs the reward of doing something, i avoid doing it. It's more about what "could" happen rather than what "can" happen. Play it safe basically. Maybe a 69 would be a nice compromise, can't tell you.

Don't sperg out with rules.

Performing oral sex CAN be seen as submissive, and submissive acts CAN make a woman lose respect for you. But CAN is not WILL. It depends on the circumstances. Learn to read the room.

My answer would be "it depends on the girl" (for some women yes, for some women no).

• respect (definition) a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements.

• https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non_sequitur_(fallacy)

I'm not a girl so I can only speculate: I believe it is a complete "non sequitur" to state that licking a girl's vagina will diminish her feeling of feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements.

If the girl grew up in a weird culture in Africa where licking vagina is a form of punishment, then of course she would lose her respect for you -- but what cultural norm in America is there to brainwash women into believing that men that they admire are less admiral if they lick a woman's vagina?

(I don't watch Netflix or K-dramas, so if there's a trending TV show which is currently brainwashing women to associate vagina licking with a low-value male, then my answer needs to be updated/edited)

In summary, if a woman's respect for you is so fragile that licking her vagina will cause her to lose her respect for you -- then the problem is you and the problem isn't licking her vagina.

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i learned about this in the sopranos

I think that its true. Ive eaten out only 5 or 6 girls in my life. My N Count is around 80..?

Of the 6 I ate out, I'd say about 2 of them didnt judge me for it. The other 4, well, its hard to say, but something was off. Like its not like you lose all attraction as if you cried on your knees in front of them, its not that bad. But something was different...? Like they dont act as if you pounded their pussy like a Chad. You know you put in the work with that, and theyll show it. Its not like that when eating pussy.

The 2 that didnt judge me, or treated me the same. I appreciated a lot

My recent ex, I never ate her out once. I definitely alpha widowed her. Just never had the urge too. I think deep down because I felt she would lose respect for me, and I never had the urge to really eat pussy generally anyways. It was basically a lose-lose situation to me. I bet she would have tasted the best of them all, shes definitely had the nicest aesthetic pussy out of all girls ive been with, not to mention I loved her smell(s) im sure it would have been nice.

I think you guys all take this too seriously. You should be trying to pound her g spot to orgasm but if she's loyally blowing your cock there isn't any shame in throwing her a bone once in a while

Some women appreciate the absolute hell out of a good oral orgasm and you sometimes earn yourself return customers with good tongue action.

I don't think as a man you should be dropping yo your knees as a default but if she's reliably slurping your knob a lot of women will appreciate a token gesture of cumming from your tongue. I find most are turned on from good dick and finger game and you don't actually have to do oral at all but some are driven wild by it if you toss them a good lick here and there if they earn it

I've not had any disadvantageous reactions from it but it's also not my default way of pleasing them so go figure, all I can offer is anecdote in this case

No. At a fundamental instinctual level kissing and licking pussy were used to detect fertility. Kiss and eat out a 45yr old and you'll understand. For women, kissing is used to detect testosterone. I think if you go beyond these purposes it feels a little unnatural. I can see how a woman might be confused by a man who is supposed to get her pregnant but instead he just licks her pussy.

some women Love it, some like it sometimes, some don't like it.

It's a submissive act, but you can still play with it. Be playful, tease her while doing it which makes it seem less submissive.

so your girl who was a hoe, maybe she doesn't like it, or maybe you suck at it? Look if she's a hoe, she's got a lot of experience with guys who were maybe good at it. Some girls are ok giving instructions, some don't.

If she likes oral, but didn't like it from you and didn't give you any hints or instructions, that's on her. Don't sweat it.

Some women like it, some women don't. Sometimes I want to, sometimes I don't. Depends on my mood.