There's a problem when you're ONLY a provider. Some guys doesn't have any kind of respect from their wife, or authority over her.

Nothing wrong with being a provider to a woman that's worth it.

That's where you're fucking up

There is such a thing as The Married Red Pill. Look at Whytehorse for example: he's got a hot ass Asian wife who does whatever he wants, and still fucks chicks on the side. He's one of the most Red Pill dudes I ever seen on the forums here, so you know it can be done.

Divorce! Divorce laws are not unjustified on paper because the higher income person gets fucked and and usually that’s the man dumb enough to take on woman with no income or low income. What he doesn’t know is that she could do whatever the fuck she wants and could fuck you over for life not because she is a woman but because she is low income or no income so instead of government now you have to support her. That’s why divorce laws are hard to change because on paper they’re not unjust but add in all the biases, the leverage that men lose during dating and men usually being always the higher earner then it becomes unfair. You work for your family like a slave and over the years you get less and less because you took on the bad deal. You had no leverage to begin with and you willingly accepted a person that wasn’t that ambitious and was just plain lazy, just so you could fuck but over time you are the one getting fucked.

And you DONT HAVE TO BE MARRIED to get fucked like this they just need a little excuse to start fucking you instead you fucking them.

No matter how good the bitch looks. How big her ass and tities are don’t accept a lazy broke bitch in your life. You can’t fight lazy.

(Is being a beta provider really that bad)?

What are you getting out of it?

do you get on demand great sex, anyway you want? Does she take care of the cleaning, cooking, what does she do for you? she makes your life easier?

What is that costing you? $$

Do you think it will last?

IMO, no, a beta provider is not worth it. There's risk, kids, tying up your money,etc

If you do it, I'd caution on the (make sure she doesn't get preggo), (she's 28, baby rabies), don't share any finances, you can split, fast and easy.

I'd also say, most women who are looking at you as a provider, will , little by little, look at your money as (our) money. Be careful man.

Having a provider is better.

Also: having new women to fuck every week gets neither boring nor unfulfilling. Having the same one over and over does.

The problem is genuine desire vs negotiated desire.

RP is amoral. nothing's wrong. if you like it go for it