Build Power in Situations Through Emotional Stoicism | TheRedPill

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RememberingAlpha

Posted 3y ago in Building Power - Permalink - Locked - 1.4K Views

As you’re navigating an interpersonal situation, you’re inevitably going to have an emotional response to whatever is happening.

Ex. you find out she’s a former sugar baby. You immediately want to lose it on her for not disclosing this part of her history.

If you lose it on her, she’s going to clam up, start lying to cover her tracks, and withhold as much information as possible.

If you recognize the emotion, and acknowledge it without reacting, you can maintain frame and maintain control of the situation. By maintaining frame, you can continue a line of playful questioning and extract more information from the conversation, while steering towards your ideal outcome.

Obviously in the example used you would end the conversation and ghost her before getting to far, but the take away is that emotional regulation and self control can help you learn more where you otherwise wouldn’t.

Keep lifting. AWALT over everything.

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jessicaminton 2y ago

Emotional resilience is the ability to bounce back from adversity, setbacks, and difficult situations by effectively managing one’s emotions and thoughts in challenging circumstances. I and my angry gran are really interested in this field.

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RememberingAlpha 3y ago

This was acknowledged. It’s an extreme example for the sake of illustrating an example.

Hanscheezburger 3y ago

women lie by instinct most of the time. This doesn't mean they aren't good liars, but that most of their lies fall apart under logical scrutiny and some questioning.

Real convo I had:

Me: So what kind of dating app do you use?

Her: None. I don't use them. I prefer meeting people.

Me: Really? No Tinder, no Bumble or anything?

Her: No, I'm not into them

Me: I was asking because a friend of mine said he swiped you on Tinder and thought you looked familiar (Lie)

Her: Really? What's his name?

Me: I thought you said you don't use Tinder lol?

Her: ... I did but it was a long time ago. I deleted them all and don't use them anymore

Intrepid_Place53900 1 3y ago

women lie, when it's to their advantage. simple as that

Hanscheezburger 3y ago

no doubt. i wanted to point out a difference though. when they lie, their stories rarely match up because it's impulsive and by instinct. the best lies are the ones with a complete story behind it with details that support the narrative. if you listen closely and calmly dissect the information they give, you can see the inconsistencies easily