After my cold shower I got dressed and went to the local dive bar. Calm was on my mind and steadiness in my hands. Enjoying my first long island and sitting by myself but on a row of benches so there are some people to my left and right. I get up for a second long island and this time she just held each of the bottles upside down, letting that cup fill up. It was literally 60% liquor, so like 5 or 6 drinks in one. I said something like that looks great. Sat back down to slowly sip my libation, one couple sits across from me. Chat with them for a bit, dude gave me his business card then they left for another venue.
This other couple (married with kids) sits to my left, and in their group across is a girl I recognize who bartends at another bar. I got talking with them eventually, and I'm having a good time with the wife. She's laughing and I was making fun of her for having a snapchat and what not. Also was teaching her about EDM and she followed my Instagram. She's saying things along the line of how I must think she's "a basic bitch" etc. Was she just having fun or was this flirting? We were getting a little physical (mostly her), you know how tipsy people are. Wasn't trying to game her, but good vibes overall from everyone. They kept asking me where my "accent" was from. Instead of instantly telling them, I drew out the mystery a little bit. California where we have no accents!
I'm approaching the bottom of my 2nd long island, think about tossing it then decide to finish it as it was my last drink for the night. Took me about an hour to finish that one. Nope, wife gets up and comes back with green tea shots and high noons. Hubby is driving so I take the hubby's shot with them. I get up coordinated ass up and order myself a cork screw. Finished that as I was still talking with the wife and group. We got on the topic of cars and they tell me they're gonna buy a baby yacht. I ask him if he ever though about getting a Lambo, but nah. He's humble said the wife. I had to run to a bar down the street just to piss cause the line at the dive bar is so long. Get back, and wife has more high noons. So I fill top of the HB7s cup and the 4 of us continue to talk for another half hour. Many times when it was just the wife and I talking, she'd shit test me. I just agreed and amplified without hesitation, it was incredible! After I'd pass each one, she's get a little touchy, she's tipsy and I'm borderline drunk.
She got up to use the bathroom and hubby and I discussed calling an uber. Even though I could walk to my car, there was no chance I'd be driving. I use the bathroom again down the street, upon return the husband says he's calling me an uber. I was hammered by this point. In the 3 hours I was there, I probably had 5 drinks total, but reached my sobriety limits after that second long island. Adding on the green tea shot, screwdriver, and that high noons meant it was game over. Total alcohol would amount to about 10-11 shots. 8-9 of those occurring in a window of about 2 hours. Was sick and weak next day with 0 appetite. My Mom dropped me off at my car. Still didn't puke despite the mild nausea, the serotonin crash was the worst. Was hydrating all day and still went to a bar that night just to hang out with a guy who was working there.
On Ig the wife dmed me a random finger emoji to which I replied "Throwing gang signs at me??" Said idk, then I asked her to tell her husband what I owed them for the uber. I also explained myself to her about the long island and why I was hammered. (Was the explaining a beta move?)
Would love to hear your thoughts on my behavior with that married couple. Like was she flirting, or just being friendly? Was I gaming her unintentionally?Thanks I’m advanced.
The worst part of all, my dumbass didn't tip that night.
kncrew2112 1y ago
So like are you trying to have a threesome with these people?
imtranscending 1y ago
No I wasn’t lol. If swinging has anything to do with the guy and I then I pass.
Had no idea if these people were swingers. I doubt they were but how would I know what they look like. I’m just posing about my drunk night
NeoSpartan 1y ago
Yeah.. these are interesting stories but I'm not exactly sure what you are trying do in most of them :/ If your goal was a threesome I think you should drink less next time. Alcohol can provide a social boost sometimes but not so much past the third drink or so.
imtranscending 1y ago
Just thought I should post this update because of what happened. I hope to get some RP wisdom from you guys. I’d like to have your speculations on her reactions and the energy of the evening.
See the edit to the post to look for the questions. Thanks.
NeoSpartan 1y ago
Hmm. I honestly have no idea, sorry bro. This is way outside of my wheelhouse. Only people I've ever talked to at bars are single girls. I liked the story though, it was interesting.
My uneducated guess is probably not flirting, people tend to get more touchy when drunk. But.. idk. Could have been I guess.
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
1) why did you spend your ENTIRE night out spending time on a MARRIED couple? What was your objective?
2) the husband was literally right there. It would be one thing if you met a married woman out on a girl's night or something with no husband around (I've met many, some that even gave me their number) but he was RIGHT THERE
He more or less allowed it. It's hard to say what their dynamic is but he basically gave her a green light. So either they are swingers or they have some dynamic where he just lets her flirt with random dudes in front of him. There's nothing to really read into it
Honestly , should have tried gaming single ladies, I really don't see what outcome you were looking for, that set was not in your best interest if you were trying to game that night
Did you just want validation from a woman? It almost sounds like you wanted her attention with zero tangible outcome besides that. I'm not saying that to be cold, I'm saying it because you can't be getting distracted like a monkey like that if you're out trying to game women
imtranscending 1y ago
I just wanted to get out and drink alone, but if I met cool people then I'd talk with them. Had 0 intention of approaching or running any kind of day / night game. I was by myself and wasn't trying to get shot down by any HB 7s in front of their chad friends.
You know I'm not very good at game. I had 0 intentions of gaming anyone that night, especially a wife with a husband right there. I was legit just trying to have a good time and socialize with those people who did decide to give me the time of day.
Now a lot of the comments on here are about how I was gaming her or whatever, but was I? My point is I'm actually unaware if my actions would be interpreted as such, thus possibly getting me in trouble. Next time, how would I engage with nice people without crossing lines? She was shit testing me a lot and I was just passing em no problem, and I continued to tease her because she had been making fun of me.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Almost sounds like you were trying to game her. Also by posting a detailed post about her, sounded like there was some game investment
Don't flirt back? It's pretty easy to just stop engaging in a particular manner.
Okay. If you enjoyed the night, that's good, but it seems like you wanted some kind of feedback on this. Her husband was right there. Not stopping either of you. I'm not sure what the problem was.
imtranscending 1y ago
Ah I can see where this was coming from. I just wanted to post about how wasted I got, and that was also a significant part of the night. I can see great social improvement in myself and wanted to share for that reason too. Due to the dynamic, I wanted to get feedback if I was accidentally doing an oopsy (like hitting on her in front of hubby). I really appreciate the feedback, thanks Vermillion. Please keep it coming.
Also random question, are you on looksmax.org?
AllBlack087 1y ago
I never heard more stupid story. Gaming a women infront of husband. I have seen with my eyes when guy hugged someone else wife at bar, infront of husband,and husband shot a bullet in the guys head and killed him on the foot.
imtranscending 1y ago
First of all, wow. Now if you've seen my other posts, you'd know I'm not very good at game. I was just passing shit tests, and teasing her a little. Would that be interpreted as me gaming / hitting on her from any one else's POV?
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Long Island Ice Tea...you sit, you drink, you go to stand up...and realize you don't have any legs...
imtranscending 1y ago
According to bartender wiki a standard long island is 2.5 oz liquor. But now that I'm reading more, they can have 3-4 shots in them. My second one had about 6.
Let's both grab a Long Island No-stress-cat :)
whytehorse2021 1y ago
OK, story time with whytehorse2021 @financehardo420 @IBelieveInTheFallen
This one time, in Denver, CO I was at a dive bar and ordered a long island iced tea. I don't remember what happened but I woke up behind a bush and my wallet was gone. I got Mickey'd. Be very careful about friendly strangers that have access to put drugs in your drink. Especially the bartender.
This one time, in Russia, I was at a hotel bar in St. Petersburg where nobody else was and this bartender started giving me free drinks. It appeared we were drinking together but I think he was having water and giving me vodka(with drugs). My resistance to being drugged before allowed me to escape to an alley where I could recover for a few hours while maintaining consciousness. Fortunately I didn't get robbed.
This other time, I was at a warehouse party in Denver, CO and had beer straight from the keg. I woke up behind some semi trailers and my car window had been broken and my car searched(for money or drugs). I had nothing on me and nothing in the car but you get the idea.
As for the married chick, you can perform an indirect speech test to see if they're trying to fuck you. It's basically a variation of "Would you like to come up to my room and see my etchings?". Maybe at the dive bar it's asking her if she'd care to join you for a smoke or whatever. Isolate and escalate. I've fucked women I didn't even know were married. They just do that shit.
As for California accent, yes you do have an accent. The only true neutral accents are people like me from the Midwest and we still have a US accent(pronunciation actually). The biggest tell for Californians is they say Coloradoans instead of Coloradans. It's leviOHsa, not leviohSA. But otherwise I can see why you pass as neutral.
financehardo420 1y ago
Gotta disagree Californians have no accent and there’s def thicc accents in the Midwest hahaha
Also: how are you always getting drugged that’s never happened to me
whytehorse2021 1y ago
I used to go to some really shady places and hang out with a lot of losers when I was a starving college student and HS drug dealer. Date rape drug was a popular thing back then and they'd use it on guys to rob them. What's funny is in Asia going to shady places means you wake up next to an HB10 with a sore ass and your dick smells like poo. Then you see her huge cock and think "Well, at least I didn't get robbed".
Anyway, I have a TESOL and M. Ed so I'm trained in phonetics and have years of experience teaching English. And yes, California'ans have an accent. It's hard to detect but most non-US English speakers can detect it. It's a pronunciation of the vowels o and a. Coloradan, Colorodon, Coloradon, Colorodan. We say neutral because it means Eaast coast vs West coast. Yes you can train yourself so maybe you're neutral but the general population of the West coast has an accent.
financehardo420 1y ago
Actually ya I guess maybe that o sound can be defined as an accent. I always felt cali has the least accent though haha Midwest is in the As. Whenever I met a Chicago chick I’m like say my name ;) and laugh at her accent.
Also sheesh. I grew up in sketchy places too but my friends and their cousins always had guns
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Chicago isn't midwest. Middle of the country from North to South, and West. Basically Colorado but it's a population demographic that spans states. Anything East is dead easy to spot. Chicago, Minnesota, Louisiana, etc.
financehardo420 1y ago
here it is bro…
basically that man was a cuck. you could have fucked the wife but you prolly would have had to let dude watch it all happen.
SeasonedRP 1y ago
Wait and see if she texts again.