I go to the gym, it's been 8 months since I joined the gym. I got into a library and I am currently preparing for university entrance exam.
and that's about it. How do I get bitches? Right now, I am unable to support myself financially, so I can't buy many clothes and my fashion sense is 0. I would love to try out the fashion that suits me but I am fucking broke. My communication skills improved cause I tried a bit of day gaming before and it was nerve-wracking but it helped me open up socially.
What do I do?
Intrepid_Place53900 2 weeks ago
I'm going to ignore the girls for now because I think as it normally should, is secondary to what you should be focusing on.
Working out for 8 months, good. have you seen gains? You've lost weight and or have more muscle? Keep this up, it takes time.
preparing for university. Ok, why? What's your plan? What field of study, what job are you going for as soon as you graduate? What is the market in that field and the pay?
xaxixh 2 weeks ago
Yes, I am good shape now but still underweight and bulking. I don't really care about the field of study, I just want to get into a good university. I've been doing python by the side and will pursue it and get a career in programming. I just want to get into a good university even if I have to take a really bad field of study for it.
I have so many hobbies and I would love to pursue them but I am broke.
Intrepid_Place53900 2 weeks ago
As long as you aren't wasting money, ok, university isn't cheap. I strongly recommend coding and more important, getting really good at Cloud coding for AWS or Azure. Python, Ruby, are good to know.
NeoSpartan 2 weeks ago
Don't lift like a pussy, go to failure. Punish the iron like you are going to punish that pussy bro XD
Srs tho, if you don't hit a good RPE you aren't going to see much in the way of gains. You gotta lift hard and to true failure.
xaxixh 2 weeks ago
Thanks for your input and no, I don't lift like a pussy. I can lift more than my bodyweight in SBD and am currently on candito's 6 week program. I love lifting and don't think I can stay sane without it.
NeoSpartan 2 weeks ago
Hahaha sorry man I was just fucking about, with the pussy comment, I was in a being a dick mood lol. What is SBD tho? Oh nvm squat bench deadlift probably. And you've been lifting for 8 months? I woke up way too early today and I can't get back to sleep so I can't do math right now but.. you could probably do more to max out your strength gains.
I dunno candito but I hope 6 weeks is some kind of periodization cycle. Anyway, it's also very important to get enough protein and sleep. A neat trick I learned is to use protein powder as coffee flavoring, it's actually really damn good and makes it easy af to hit 1+g per lbs bw/d.
mattyanon 2 weeks ago
Go and talk to them.
xaxixh 2 weeks ago
I don't look good in my clothes. Not at all presentable.
mattyanon 2 weeks ago
then fix that
Vermillion-Rx 2 weeks ago
Unless you are paycheck to paycheck and have absolutely nothing you can budget on (i.e. useless shit you can stop buying/cheaper bulkier good alternatives etc) then you can fix your style
This is so much more fixable than months of lifting and improving your game. Start ASAP with presenting yourself well if nothing else because it is the easiest and fastest reward to time ratio change you can make
xaxixh 2 weeks ago
Can you tell me how?
Vermillion-Rx 2 weeks ago
Form fitting, as in not too baggy nor too tight. A good amount of arm should show, but too.much can look douchey. Seams should line up.witg shoulders.
Pants should also not look too baggy nor to skinny. Get a watch, doesn't have to be expensive at all but just look good. Clean hair cut, preferably short and more masculine.
xaxixh 2 weeks ago
Exactly the answer I was looking for.
Vermillion-Rx 2 weeks ago
No problem