I'm starting to think that interracial dating is bullshit.
I've spent the past two years in small European cities where non-white people are reasonably rare. I'm mixed-race, so even though I look black, I think I'm not black enough for white girls with a fetish for big black cock ( in fact, my cock is completely average ).
I'm not fat, but I'm not shredded, and I'm not very ugly either. I have already discussed my appearance with other people ( including attractive women ) and they basically said that I should be classified as a normie.
So I've been living for the past two years as an incel, totally ignored by the white girls around me, until I went to an event where I met some black girls from Eastern countries.
I still didn't get laid with any of them, but the difference was like night and day. These girls were practically asking me out on dates, giving strong non-verbal clues of interest. It was kind of obvious to me that they see me as a man they would have sex with.
I'm strongly considering to move to India, Brazil or Southeast Asia next year. Maybe London if I want to stay in Europe.
Scorpion69_ 4y ago
No it is not, ur simply coping. Man this forum is fucked lol.
1) quit being a retarded autist and then u might get laid
2) quit being unattractive
3) get jacked or at least fit
4) quit whining and moaning
5) quit thinking this shit is complicated (it is not)
6) quit thinking ur value as a man comes from chicks
7) and most importantly, i will repeat the fact of: quit being a retarded autist.
Bulba 4y ago
There's no way around basic blackpill facts. It seems people in the forum are not very receptive to this reality, maybe because most of you are white.
Of course you can looksmaxx and become so jacked that your ethnicity doesn't matter anymore but if you're a regular guy then your race plays a major role in your dating opportunities.
I don't know what makes you think I'm autistic or unattractive, I have already gone on 2 dates this week. However these weren't dates with white girls, and that's my point.
Scorpion69_ 4y ago
I told u that ur an autist because u think that "interracial dating" is bs and also because u have some level of entitlement "im average and i know it but hot chicks dont even look at me! Wtf!!! Blacks cant date whites fr!!!!!".
Ur also an autist coz u talk about being an incel and ur also an autist coz u have created this thread with the sole purpose of getting ur shitty view in dating validated.
I know ur unattractive because what u wrote. Unattractive doesnt mean ugly, unattractive means being a retarded autistic guy who hasnt real confidence in himself and doesnt know what hes really worth and settles with chicks he doesnt even like
Nolimitcurry 4y ago
Nah bro - I'm black and I don't have this problem with WW ... and I don't look like Michael b Jordan or whatever image u think a black man needs to have to be successful with WW, let alone any women.
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Nolimitcurry 4y ago
What do you mean by black enough?
Tbr, you simply just need to boss up n let your nuts hang. Stop making excuses.
TriumphoftheSwill 4y ago
A while back I conducted an experiment where I catfished as a black guy. I found a ripped as fuck good looking black guy and went on dating apps. At first I presented him as ghetto and used a lot of slang and cursing. The few women that approached him stopped talking immediately.
Then I went on as a smarter, educated black guy whose main complaint was women avoided him because they expected him to be thug and that's not who he is. He got more attention and longer conversations but none of them panned out either.
I really don't think black guys get the attention the world thinks they do.
Problematic_Browser 1 4y ago
It absolutely depends.
Where I'm currently at, I have average results (for reference: 6'0", 207 muscular build, 80k/yr, educated). I do better than most of the men here, but I also significantly out-class them. In short, my results do not match my product.
I've been to far south Texas and I had better results than the local men.
I go to Atlanta and they're just happy that I'm black, single, hot, and not gay.
Sexual markets matter. Yes, attractive men regardless of race generally out-perform less attractive men, but you can't ignore social dynamics and cultural expectations.
What OP needs to do is focus less on things he cannot control and improve what he can.
Bulba 4y ago
I also think reality does not live up to the stereotype. I’ve met some white girls who are into big black cock but they are far away from being the norm.
Another pattern is that white girls who are into black guys usually are promiscuous with an insanely high body count. That’s been my observation from every white girl that has ever been into me.
TriumphoftheSwill 4y ago
The sad thing is most people know it. They know the whole 'nigger are better in bed' thing is bullshit but they still keep talking about it. If it were true there would be a lot more niggers dating white women.
Problematic_Browser 1 4y ago
I get that you just wanna say that, but come on. You can communicate that idea in a better way.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Yeah you should probably move. The number of women willing to date a foreigner or different race is pretty small. Go where you're treated best and target the girls who like foreigners/blacks. I'm Caucasian and my wife is Asian. I've found Caucasian women to be pretty shitty overall.
As an average American guy I was treated like a rock star in Indonesia and Thailand. The Asians rank SMV by skin color so mine was very high and as a bonus I like dark skin so I could have my pick of low SMV women that were beautiful but dark. Maybe in Africa they have the same thing going on so you could be light skinned and have high SMV there. Or maybe India is like that. I heard there was a study where women ranked South Asian men(Indians) as the least attractive so you might be high SMV there. I know the local Latinas here don't have any interest in Caucasians as some sort of cultural thing but they do perk up when I show up and am the tallest guy around and then they shift to the prevailing state of the sisterhood uber alles.
Bulba 4y ago
In my experience, white guys have it easy practically anywhere outside Western developed countries.
As a black guy, I get a lot of attention of girls from Africa, India and the Middle East. Also from Latin America if they don’t look white.
All other girls seem to be chasing white guys ( girls from Japan, China, Latin America, Eastern Europe ), with very few exceptions.
Most of Western Europe and the US is a waste of time unless you’re chad.
Problematic_Browser 1 4y ago
In my experience, they go after white guys because there is the impression that "white=wealthy".
It's about the status.
I'm a black man and I have zero issues abroad because when someone engages with me in conversation or sees how I carry myself, the cultural stereotype about black men goes out the window and all that is left is the question of "well, is the physical stereotype true...?"
If you can demonstrate class, refinement, and status you will find that race suddenly matters far less.
Bulba 4y ago
Sure, if you’re able to demonstrate that you make six figures, then it’s as if you weren’t black anymore. Same if you’re totally jacked.
But we’re talking about average guys here. I think there’s advice out there which is more useful than the usual “man the fuck up and stop being average” that is thrown around here a lot. Focusing on girls that belong to your own ethnicity is an example of good advice for average guys.
Problematic_Browser 1 4y ago
Hypergamy doesn't give a fuck about that.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
It is what it is. The key thing is how you limit your dating pool. I'll fuck the darkest African chick, darkest Indian chick, darkest Asian, etc so I have tons of options. I want to fuck Latinas but they don't want me so I don't waste time chasing them. I used to want to fuck Caucasians but I'm average so I'm invisible to them plus they tend to be insufferable. I'd love to do India and Africa with you as a wingman just so long as I get the dark and skinny ones ;).
Bulba 4y ago
I agree with you on Caucasians, the white bitch stereotype is true, especially for Eastern European girls.
I’ll let you know when I’m around India, lol. It would be nice to meet someone from this forum.
whytehorse2021 4y ago
Yeah just beware because India is super feminist. I'd like to visit Pondicherry and see if Auroville is all it's cracked up to be. It's one of my retirement locations I want to scout out before finalizing everything. I know nothing about Africa.