What would you do in this situation ? | TheRedPill

Met a girl on tinder, got her number. She is a 10/10, probably the best girl I matched with in terms of looks. She also wants to meet up so that interest is there, I know she wants dick.

Here is the problem, I work full time, and currently on the side studying for a huge exam to get my engineering licence. I work then study then sleep, I have 0 time right now. If I pass this exam, my life will change for the better dramatically, so in other words I have 0 time to see her right now, and in a month when I am free, we all know tinder girls they will just move on. And before you say do both, this is a very difficult exam so it requires every minute of my free time to prepare for, one date can cause me to fail it as I will miss out on study time, plus I am already super busy with my job. But based on opinions here I am willing to try to balance it.

What would you do?

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r3z01v 3y ago

I have 0 time right now.

Then why are you wasting time swiping on tinder?

If I pass this exam, my life will change for the better dramatically

Then focus on the exam.

What would you do?

I would stop fucking lying to myself. If I have time to swipe, I have 20 minutes for a quick meet and grind with a baddie.

In fact, I actually learn better if I take breaks, but that might be a personal thing. What is not a personal thing is the instinct of twats to self sabotage their pursuit of puss. We;ve all done it. Here's the deal. As a man you can NEVER fence sit. You can never hesitate. You want to fuck. Do not let your pansy programing make you act like a spoiled princess that just chats and is indecisive. Literally: Do or do not, there is no try.

If your goal is this exam, then do the fucking exam - if you genuinely haven't opened youtube in a week and can still focus on reading - more power to you - fuck the bitch, bitch will be there in 2 weeks time as well.

If you have time for forums.red, tinder and youtube - your goal is the hottie, then do the fucking hottie! Instead of talking about the hottie, of swiping on other hotties or watching red pill content to get hotties.

There is no conflict. It's only that beta instinct to kick yourself in the dick.

No-Stress-Cat 3y ago

Is this a serious question? It's obvious what the answer is, you said it yourself: you work, study, sleep, and have 0 time for anything other than that. So what, she's a 10/10. You're not going to lock her down, and as a 10/10, best you would ever be is one of HER plates. Yes, all tinder thots move on, and if that's you're concern, your oneitis is showing. If the 10/10 loses interest, just bang the 9/10 instead after your exams. You need to keep your focus on you, and stop letting these hoes dangle golden vagina in front of you and distract you from your purpose.

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sweatyballs123 3y ago

Best advice here. Getting the licence will raise your SMV and long term quality of life. Also if you're still studying it is unlikely you ran into a 10/10