So this chick I’ve been dating for about 3-4 months really cool, no problems. Great sex great energy and vibe. Basically my main girl now. She’s recently opened up to me about her best friend of 20 plus years and how they experimented when they was younger (13) to about (24) doing sexual acts to practice she is now 28.They would make out in secret and finger each other. She said used to receive oral but not do it herself. I don’t know how to feel about this or if it could be a problem in the future. She has stated she has never been a lesbian but just done it for fun and that she’s not into women just guys? What do you guys think of this or what’s my best option is to do as I’ve already made her my girl.
We discussed it and I said basically makes you bi-sexual and we got into a disagreement as she was adamant that’s she not and she wasn’t at the time but it was just “fun”. She said it’s different for girls LOL. I just ignored her until she suckered up to me and told me she loved me. Many thanks
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Jakeyg 4y ago
Travelled Asia for 5 years, one ex, not a good relationship with the father he doesn’t try to contact her and she said she had threesome with this girl
SheLarror1234 4y ago
Doesn't really tell too much other than her being highly promiscuous. Doing this until 24 shows this. There's no practice and testing at 24, you are beyond a grown adult, not a child that is figuring out puberty for the first time lol. And who was she practicing this for? Its like a hoe saying she used to suck many dicks as a teenager to practice for her future husband. What kind of shit is this?
Shes a post wall old woman, shes not trying to risk her security so ofc shes just going to say dumb shit.
Theres a saying that bi sexual means chadsexual and its because of this promiscouality .Your modern male for some reason sees promiscuous acts as a virutue instead of a bright red flag and wonders why years down the line his girl was cheating, or that she was really just a past thot betabuxxing him for comfort.
The fact that you have to ask this question and stuff on the forum kind of implies that your base level for knowing is not there yet. I can only deduce from this that they might be other flags and redflags and beta behaviors that are present. Just know she's not close to a saint, so you can now uncloud the mind and figure out the other lies and shit. She's already a post wall woman. Why even deal with this widow? Highly likely she will just lie her way into comfort by any means anyways, since she's not married by now. Let nature do its course and don't LTR, its the natural revenge for western woman's. Maybe they will learn a thing or 2. Her age of 27+ without any marriage, plus promiscouality, and western ideology are red flags.
Are you older than her or younger? Did she say anything about her male past before? Does it sound like a lie? Is she saying she loves you in piety for your obvious "oh hes mad" behavior (its like you fail a shit test by showing your mad at her, with her having to apologize,). So many other things are probably more worth asking.
But you cant just ask. Its better to get her comfortable enough to tell you this semi willingly. But you have to act like you know and dont care already. Nothing good will come from showing your face obviously anymore. All the questions and knowing her past should have been done before you LTR,
Jakeyg 4y ago
Yes your right she deffo is not a saint but I’m getting my benefit’s out of it at the moment. We are same age 28. Been pretty straight up with the past, not a number though.