A girl in my gym who showed me an incredible amount of interest.
I did not take the chances and now live with anxiety. The reason is my unemployment, bad situation. Although she struggled so much to facilitate conversation, I did not open up for conversation. I was unsure, and did not dare.
I found out today that she lives with a man who is 37 years old, she is 24. No relationship status on her facebook... Either on his!
Her father died of cancer in her teens.
Is she with him because she has father issues? Did she just want to see if she could get something better (me)?
I have never come across a girl who has shown as much interest as she did.
I am 195cm tall. I had said I'm 7.5 / 10 without exaggerating.
Intrepid_Place53900 1y ago
She's 24, does she make money?
She's probably with the older guy because he's providing for her, very very typical.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Im questioning how and why you know these details. Why are you scrolling her facebook? Who cares if she's dating older guys? Lots of girls do.
Game other girls. If that girl is so interested just tell her to meet you outside the gym when you're done, or give her your snapchat. Whatever. You'll get a yes or a no and you can move on.
UberMench 1y ago
I know them because i Googled her name and found out. And then i continues to overthink and do my research, it's called Oneitis.
Right now she moved to another city, 45Km away from me. And how will she be loyal to me if she can't to her daddy issue fixer provider 37 years old guy she lives with now.
But my pain comes from not taking the chances, the fucking pain hurts.
What can i do now? Nothing, just live in this shitty pain.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
I dont understand how you can get oneitis from so little, but yeah, it sucks.
At least she moved, so you can move on with life without having to see her around. It's good for you.
Swallow the red pill. Read, lift, game girls, have fun. Get out of that bad mental state.
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UberMench 1y ago
Right now she is with a 37-year-old who does not seem to have lifted anything but a fork in his life.
She, on the other hand, is a sex bomb, 9 out of 10.
But he is a singer, performer, Balkan singer. I do not know what she's doing with him.
How come gym girls usually have to be messed up with daddy issues?
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UberMench 1y ago
She is 100% the opposite, belive me i know those girls you talk about. This one, has no instagram, no tiktok, Facebook with only 1 face picture. She allways hides her ass in the gym with a shirt. She didn't look at guys, and stayed for her self and her friends. This doesn't fall on her.
But she could be with that 37y old guy because of daddy issues. Since her father dies from cancer in her teens.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
You're giving her too much credit. Keep in mind that perspective employers troll social media looking to see if perspective employees might have something in their background that could damage the company reputation. What you found by just googling is what any perspective employer would find by doing the same. I guarantee you that you haven't found the hidden half of her social media, and there isn't any amount of googling that's going to make the connection between the two.
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