Girls don't withhold sex from Alphas.

Yes, girls want an alpha with money for relationships, especially as they get older. This is classic, SMV and RMV. For a hookup, it's almost all SMV, in fact you can be the male equivalent of a Hot Mess, which attracts them more (Dark Triad). Excitement,etc.

For a relationship you have to have RMV which includes money , and having your shit together,etc.

So, if you are worried about being seen as a provider.

Don't show your money much and make her pay her way if you get into a relationships. I do this, let them know from the start you aren't an ATM. Vacations, we split, what's mine is mine, what's yours is yours. I actually have to filter girls who can afford it.

When the pussy goes on lock, you exit.

Aaron Clarey interviewed a bunch of guys who are 10s and this is what he found: women feel entitled to this perfect 10 prince charming rich guy. So the answer is yes, you become the ultimate guy long-term. They don't put the pussy on lock. That's for beta males.

If you lack any frame and game - yes. You will fall in her SB-SD frame because the pussy will be good and you won't know how to play her ambitions and mold her into her partner.

Listen - no woman can take a relationship from you. She can only take away your will to freedom.

Another point - if you take women that come to you based on your lifestyle - obv they saw your lifestyle and they are coming for it. This is why there's nothing more pathetic than IG self improvement content. Bro - she just thinks you are better than her dealer that sits on the couch all day, she is laughing about your alpha mantras.

Girls can't see anything but what you show them.

Stop watching F&F and Kevin Samuels. They just talk about how to be good providers. That's what you should hear when they say "High Value Man" - it's identical with the definition in female dating strategies. Your goal is to be the one that choses, not a good choice for a miami sex worker

In reality if you are fuckable, if you can approach, if you can spit game and give it as much as women, if you can fuck good - you will have women. You will be the one that choses. If you are financially stable, have some free time and hobbies, are decently socially aware - you will have an easier time converting women that aren't down to fuck then and there. This is achievable by all men, without "hustling" i.e. doing scammy internet marketing companies. Sure, a woman that dreams of Luis and Gucci - won't come to you and call you daddy. But odds are you cam probably pull her sister with an actual life.