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dirtymikeandtheboyz

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Hi Everyone,

Early thanks for any inputs given. So I am in quite a conundrum. Basically me and my gf had a falling out about two months ago where i completely cut off contact with her due to various annoyances that I had with her. During our very short two week break I went on dating apps and basically found a girl that looks like a kpop idol. She just recently got out of a very long term relationship and said I am the only guy other than her ex that she has been with. The sex has been incredible and on top of that she has an amazing personality in contrast to my gf. After sex she gives me massages (not requested, i actually hate massages) offers to drive to pick me up or even take the bus, buys me food without asking etc.... I have basically been seeing this girl and my ex gf/w.e she is at the same time as this girl. I basically sneak around and only see her during week nights or for booty calls on weekends after 12. I am insanely infatuated with her to the point i cant even feel anything for my current relationship. The problem is this, she sends mixed signals. She always asks me to sleep over (which i decline) but at the same time says she is unsure of what she wants due to her recent break up and says she wants no marriage or kids. Like an idiot i said i would want kids in the future and should probably slow down whatever we are doing if we have different life goals. After that she has been more distant in texting and i feel like I am getting played. Wtf do I do? I am developing insane oneitis for this girl and i havent felt like this since high school. Do i even consider going back to my current girlfriend?> Or do i completely crash and burn with the new girl?

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Scorpion69_ 1y ago

What i wrote before got deleted so fuck it ill be brief.

U developed oneitis for the kpop chick and she knows ur desperate due to the "having kids" thing u said, thats why she backed off.

Basically give her space to chase u, and get her off the pedestal. Shes just a human being with faults, like all of us here. Imagine her taking a massive diarrhea shit while making pain faces.

Stop being needy and emotional about it, and remember that ur the prize. The chick is supossed to look up to you

dirtymikeandtheboyz 1y ago

So i saw her last night and thursday night. What happened was she brought up the talk and i said i eventually want kids and that if wete not compatible we should stop seeing each other so we dont get too attached. I am looking for a more long term prospect though (shes mid twenties, im early thirties). But yeh once i realizes she wasnt rejecting me and digged me i stopped hamstering away since in my mind "i won". Im petty like that lol. Thanks for the response it was pretty spot on.

whytehorse2021 1y ago

I'd def go with the kpop chick and demote the gf to plate. So you basically have 2 plates. Kill that oneitis before it kills her attraction to you.

dirtymikeandtheboyz 1y ago

yeh i havent been texting her as much, but i did ask her to hang this week and she said said next week is better.... so im kind of feeling like she is brushing me off. That plus the fact that she said she doesnt know what she wants and i have been only the second guy she has been with (she said I was way better than her ex and came multiple times) makes me feel like she just wants to bang a bunch of guys.

whytehorse2021 1y ago

Yeah she is probably taking a new dick every night she's not with you. She already has 7 lined up so you have to wait a week to get into her rotation.

No-Stress-Cat 1y ago

Ugh...being a chick's plate...that's depressing

whytehorse2021 1y ago

It's only depressing because you convinced yourself she's a housewife and not a hoe. I had the same problem when I was visiting prostitutes and didn't know they get dicked 10x/night with no condom and that's why they seem to get so wet and have a zinc taste when you eat them out. :)