We all know women date multiple men at once, they're just playing their options; guys do the same thing. I just wanted to get everyone's opinion on seeing someone who let's you know that she's seeing someone else but they're not exclusive, (obviously cause we're talking too). Is this a red flag for you?
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HopelessRomantic 1y ago
Well they're not exclusive - I stated that in the post.
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natedagr8 1y ago
I don’t personally fuck around with mystery. Too many times these types of girls are actually saying “my beta bitch boyfriend who’d slap me (or cry) for sucking someone off but not leaving is tiring me out, let’s fuck?”. I like to keep a king mentality of “if she wants me I’ll be the only one. Even if she knows I’m with other women, it makes them hornier! She wants a man to submit and give up everything for and I’ll be that guy” But the minute a chick says anyone else is involved I think to myself someone might pull up and try to pop my ass, I might get an STD, or my dick was just in someone else’s cum. Not for me.
HopelessRomantic 1y ago
Gotta have a King mentality, thanks bud.
OtPayOkerSmay 1y ago
It depends on the context of the dialogue where that information came out...
If you asked and she told you, that's respectable and respectful - honesty is good early on.
If she mentioned it out of the blue, I'd say she's thinking about another guy who won't give her commitment. You might be seen as more of a backup in her eyes, at least at this point in time. Could be a small red flag, so do not develop oneitis.
Take it slow and be mindful of shit-tests as you gauge her interest, to determine if she sees you as alphafux or betabux. If she's found her alpha, she'll likely only resort to trying to beta-ize you... so it should be obvious pretty fast.
HopelessRomantic 1y ago
Thanks - think taking it slow like you said is the best thing for now.
benzino 1y ago
no. not a red flag. more of a sign that she's not that attracted to you. the ones who really like you will not mention that at all - even when you know she's seeing someone else, in hope that she might win exclusivity with you
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HopelessRomantic 1y ago
I get what You’re saying but having me know at the beginning I think is better for good communication but I get where you’re coming from - why even mention it if its not a test.
benzino 1y ago
you didn't ask if it was a shit test, you asked if it's a red flag - it's not
women shit test as a rule, but the "I'm seeing other people" shit test isn't for the ones they are genuinely attracted to. It's like advertising that they are a slut to the man she sees as high value