I just went trough 5th Rollo's book and he mentions not so obvious red flags that usually go under radar.

1) Are you very different guy to types she was attracted to, before

2) Sex looks like on a schedule

3) She controls herself during sex

etc

Moving to a new city to me is another red flag slut tell and should be added to the list on how to tell if she is a slut. It means that she burned all her bridges, got around, got the slut reputation and wants a clean break to start over and reinvent herself. It also minimizes the risk of Billy Beta running into weed dealing Chad that got her sexual best and telling Billy all about it.

What are your red flags for LTR?

Breasts.

Definitely: •social media (especially if over 50% of pics are just of her) •flirting with any other man in front of me (flirting=sexual provocation= inappropriate and intimate words/touches) •gut feeling something is constantly off •sex seems great but more like fucking a wet meat bag than a woman with full pussygrip desire •constantly aloof or ditzy (I didn’t know any better/I forgot = I forgot I had a bf and I didn’t know Chad’s cock slipping into me behind the dumpster counted) •even if her family is shitty, treats everyone (even helpless younger siblings involved who may still be shitty) overly shitty •”submits” but over time keeps trying to assert dominance or “strong independent woman” vibes •no matter how RP you are she’s constantly fighting back against you, not for you or with you •constantly talking about friend’s drama or how other girls cheat/are all hoes wanting to suck my dick (I’m flattered but why would you think that unless, YOU were thinking that) •attempts to be wife material but gets lazy or stops doing it after a couple weeks/months •denies you sexually in any way - barring moderate/severe sickness or occasional intense fatigue (see Elliot Hulse on YT) •being a porn star at the beginning for you but after around 6 months gets stale and slowly stops doing those CRAZY things (assuming your SMV is still good & you’ve spiced things up occasionally) •with above, she stops just randomly sucking your dick and doing the sexual things or back rubs etc that she KNOWS you like •when I’m 6+ months in to an LTR and it occurs to me I’m constantly repeating myself, having to remind her, or even demanding things on a repeat basis (like she’s gotten comfortable and keeps getting lazier) •feeling like I have to constantly keep a strong grip on her leash (one or two yanks should be all I need to get the point across, any more and you’ve got a defective dog or your teaching was complete shit and you need to start over with a new dog) •more instances of not replying to texts within 20 mins or phone call within 2 minutes (call me paranoid but I’ve yet to meet a chick unless she’s fully invested in something like a guy or dead ass asleep who doesn’t have their phone glued to their fucking eyeballs, even at work). • ”men are pigs/predators/use women” this means she lets this happen to herself and then gets depressed when yet ANOTHER smoldering Chad pumps and dumps her •being cryptic “I just don’t know/I want to be free/my friends are all doing things”. This means she’s wishing she was single = Chad save me with your mystery meat OR she’s an immature little girl who tries to manipulate but can’t use big lady requests •being hot and cold (not emotions, like her personality. One day she’s hot and bubbly and the next minute she’s a prude and it goes round and round) •playing games. If you feel like she is, you’re probably right in the middle of it. •using pussy as power/currency. lol. Silly girl. Do you not realize girls are honored and will bend over backwards to suck and fuck me just because they get to lay in MY bed? •keeping orbiters entertained/around. This is where I’ll lose people but idgaf, I used to be that beta orbiter turned alpha and it happens all the time. I almost had a guy’s wife because I went from boy to man. I also have played the “nice guy” card and then turned it into something provocative and done right you can completely capture a woman, especially the alpha types (“he’s literally Prince Charming”) •constant physical validation “babe why are you putting on hella makeup for Walmart”? •constant emotional validation “do you actually love me, why are you always so mean to me, I feel like you forget about me” Im a man on my mission I can’t be a circus entertainer •constant sexual validation (hopping on your cock 24/7 gets old like you’re expected to fuck hard every damn hour) what happens when your cock isn’t there, who’s will satisfy her? •taking your time, money, gifts, sex, and life together for granted. Realizing this one sucks the most ass in an LTR cuz that’s the whole point is to invest and grow. Now you have sunk fallacy shit to deal with an IMO and evidenced by many posts it’s what most guys can’t get over to make them end a shitty LTR

I'll add some requirements,

• Financially literate *Living within her means Yes, don't assume one means the other

*Sane, doesn't have such high ups or downs, many would also call this (low drama)

• prioritizes me and our time
• aware of my needs/wants, and attempts to take care of them and genuinely cares about them
• healthy lifestyle, exercise and food and knows how to actually cook or open to learning

• Everything you said
• Single Mother
• Feminist
• "Strong and Independent Woman"

As compared to what? You shouldn't even plate people you can't handle.

Listen - if a woman would fuck you for free, if she likes you and doesn't ask for shit - it's worth giving back some of your time. It feels good.

If you try paying a woman with time ahead of time - and talk about LTR (essentially giving her a blank sheet payment plan) all women that aren't retarded or love getting other dick and being honest - will take your attention and commitment and then give you something back if they feel like it.