https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/tt4ylm/13_of_men_have_graduate_degrees_and_they_are_not/

When there is an obvious problem is not as fun discussing because you only get the same old ideas. Here there is a not so usual situation. Lots of good comments about how getting a PhD can actually screw over a woman's chances for a family life.