First of all please call me out on my shit if you see anything that screams "this guy is a pussy". Context: I've been in uni since september of 2021 and have only been in person recently (mental health has been great in the past 2 weeks, since I found the red pill and self improvement habits). Most people either don't come to lectures or come do work and leave, there are mask mandates (for uni). There is this girl I like but I've gotten unlucky the past few times, the first time I came late and couldn't sit next to her, the next time she came to class after me. So I'm wondering what the best approach would be in this case? e.g. if she comes to class after me do I start a random conversation (ik some of the extra curriculars she's in, and she's a year older)? do I sit close to the door in case she comes late and has to sit next to me? do I talk to her during the break? I'm definitely overthinking this, but some friends of mine have told me just cold approach her, others have said that's autistic asf and that I should talk to her casually first, in which case I'd need to make my own luck. I wouldn't care as much but from what I've seen from her she has many qualities I'd look for in an LTR. Any insight on how to proceed and suppress my doubts would be incredibly appreciated.
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abcd 2y ago
i am very picky because i consider most women whores, so i realized i put the ones that aren't at first glance on a pedestal, thank you
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
don't shit where you eat
yes this.... if you insist on shitting where you eat.
You're doing everything wrong.
Don't get your hopes up over specific women: you're unlikely to ever date her. You're pedestalling her.
Instead you need to get good at chatting up ALL the women. Get LOTS of options. Never focus on one.
abcd 2y ago
Thank you for getting some sense into me, this is spot on.
OtPayOkerSmay 2y ago
"she has many qualities I'd look for in an LTR" + "she's a year older" - that's an oxymoron
LTRs with older women don't work in this modern dating world, bud.
abcd 2y ago
I don't feel like 1 year is that big of a deal
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Just approach her after class. London day game should work. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XIWBVZ9GJWw&t=7s
abcd 2y ago
This was amazing, i took notes, gonna practice next time i go downtown
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Yeah and the guy who invented it wasn't a gigaChad. He was a pimply-faced geek.